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  1. acessential

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    Fuck all this heteronormative bullshit. "Bottom" and "top" are sexual positions. Not gender or personality roles. People need to stop equating them as such.
     
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    I think bisexuality is taboo because it forces people to see sexuality as a spectrum and not a category.
     
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    Me watching Lesbian porn: :scust:[​IMG]
     
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    Nahhhh that's santorum, heavy on the lube. The colon (and rectum and anus for that matter) is not a vagina. Im not aware of it producing all manner of secretions during sex, like female organs could.

    "But but but, doesn't the colon have mucus cells?" I hear you ask. Yes, there are mucus-secreting cells there, but when you look at the histology of the colon, the tissue is mostly cells that absorb stuff (water mostly, a lot of what the colon does!). The mucus is there mostly as protection.

    So, naaah. Naaaaahhh. Any wetness down there is gonna be santorum or the dudes nut. Dudes need to stop calling their booties *ussy or bussy or mussy and whatever the hell else they do these days. The booty just doesnt work that way. And youre not a woman.

    Now imma go back to..um...investigating those vids.
     
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    I could, but I'm weird. I don't think most could. I'm more interested in other things instead of making sure you can dick someone down or take dick. The way I see it I'm not going to be fucking when I'm using a walker and falling over and shit. I need someone that'll help me up not pound me further into the floor.
     
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    I have a couple fetishes. I am a top that likes guys bigger than me in stature and "down there." It's a psychological dominance thing that turns me on...being the aggressor when physiologically, I am not, in comparison. I'm kind of a nerd, and am reserved, laid back and pretty chill. My sexual alter ego is just the opposite, so the dominance thing, I guess, just fits into that. My other fetish is hands. I notice hands and become attracted to a person because of them. I kinda think that has something to do with the fact that I play piano; hands are something that just kinda stand out to me. But my junk will get hard if I see a guy with nice hands.

    I once dated a guy who liked to ride me and would turn around to grab my feet when he was ready to nut. Feet were like another sexual organ to him.
     
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    I just wanna drag my ball sack across his face....sexy ass fucka.

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    'Tops' havent gone anywhere, we're just inundated n overwhelmed w dudes who wana be treated like ladies. Grab ur fukn nuts n man the fuck up! Shyt pisses me off.
     
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    Naw, this is good topic.

    The fact that I don't like anal sex and the thought of STD's keep me from hoeing. School and work keeps me busy.
     
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    Lmfao! WTF is a "real top?" As opposed to a "fake top?" The one thing I've learned is one man's top is another man's bottom and vice versa. There are very few tops who won't bottom for the right dude under the right circumstances and very few bottoms who won't top when the need or urge arises. Unfortunately too many gay men are stuck in outmoded ways of thinking. Total bottoms need to step their game up.
     
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    I'm going to take the initiative to start an argument with one of these types of dudes just to see what type of bottom shaming insults they're gonna spew, meanwhile on their quest for raw daddy dick. :troll:
     
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    Wussies!

    I got's no shame so I'll step up.
    I've had a few fetishes in my time, mostly involving dress up and role play.
    For some reason I've always been turned on by home and auto repair. Watching a dude lay on the floor working under a sink or a car, used to be a really big turn on.
    My ex and I used to like to wrestle and cuff and tie each other up.
    I also used to like to head down near the bridge late at night and he'd go for a drive and he'd pick me up like a stranger and find a spot where we'd get down and dirty.

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    People forget HIV isn't the only disease out there there is also HPV, herpes, and now drug resistant syphilis......very scary.
     
  15. acessential

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    I think it's normal to draw from past sexual experiences when masturbating without porn. It's natural. You have to find a way to arouse yourself and your memory bank is the best way to do that. It's filled with memories of one night flings, but also if we're being realistic, if you had a longterm partner, you obviously had sex with them on a regular basis and that's going to be a huge chunk of your sexual memory as well. I don't think that's really different from porn. You don't necessarily want to go out and marry the dudes you see in a porn video. Likewise, just because you think about sex with your ex doesn't necessarily mean you want to get back with them.
     
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    Well I think that's currently the weakness of masculinity. In hetero-normative society, there are many things a man can do and retain his "manhood." Nowadays, male affection isn't one of them. That wasn't always the case though. Men used to be very friendly with one another.

    Male Affection: A Photographic History Tour | The Art of Manliness

    Being bisexual also brings "manhood" into question. Too many people think that bi people don't exist. Too many women wouldn't date bisexual men. The threat and shame of being feminized is what keeps bisexual men DL, not to mention all the other implications like religion. I'm afraid the stakes are too high for men to openly be bisexual and retain the respect that a straight man would in this society. That's my take on it at least. Anyone else feels the same or different?
     
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    At this point in my life, I don't think I can truly be with anyone who's a total anything. I truly believe that with your partner you should be open to and try almost anything (within reason). That's not to say you'll like it, but you won't know until you try with that person. I'm a true testament to not liking something with one person, and loving it with another, but I'm all about connection.

    Now, have I been in situations with a total __, of course, but I was never quite fulfilled. Do I have a preference, absolutely, but I need options lol. (Even though I've said all this, I can renege on all of it for the right one LOL)
     
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    Me @ this entire thread
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    "I have a dream that one day Black tops and Black bottoms can cum together...Freak at last, Freak at last!"
     
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    Not an issue. I've had relationships with individuals where there was not anal penetration. There is SO much you can do sexually besides that that is incredibly pleasurable. I think those situations push you to be more creative in giving and receiving pleasure.

    I did notice that the longer we were together comfort levels and intimacy increased, the discussion of exploring the penetrative option started to come up... but not doing it was NOT a deal breaker.
     
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    Wow an MLK sex party...It seems everything has parties now...Next will be the Black History Month Freak Down...or The Easter Sunday, "Basket Hop" Sex Party.

    Hmmm, I wonder what other kinda freak parties they do..
     
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  24. acessential

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    I'll watch the straight stuff on a rare occasion. Surprisingly, I kinda like lesbian porn. Not all the time, but here and there. I like seeing and hearing girls moan. I also like seeing girls travel down south on each other, but it depends on the angle. I like to see it from above or the side. If they do extreme close-ups of the V, I get turned off. Shit looks too medical. That's when I'm reminded that I am in fact gay, but with some Kinseyan characteristics.
     
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    meh...

    The site had white male criminals in the submissive degrading positions in addition to white police officers in submissive (not degrading imo) positions. Nonetheless, all the Black males are criminals. This to me seems to be geared towards White men fantasy/fetish.

    All looked like consenting adults and no adults seemed to be harmed in the making of the clips I saw. Regardless if I personally don't like it, I can easily see why some/many would. Let their freak flags fly.
     
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    Lolol. See, now yall think Im like that crazy man in the bathroom w @@yahoo.com. No! I'd have missed out on $100, but Id have been too creeped out by that guy.

    It's nuthin crazy for me..I dont get off on it..I just appreciate when a guy has nice fingers and toes. Idk what that means exactly, but I know it when I see it.

    But as for true fetishes...a friend of mine got $100 to kick a guy in the face barefoot. She found it on craigslist, and there were other women there, and they all took a 'shift' kicking him in the face. True story.
     
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    Put on a damn condom so u dont get this girl pregnant!
     
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    Ha. Just thought about this the other day. I was in my twenties working at the W hotel. I had a co-worker who I could not tell if he was gay or not, but he was very attractive.

    He started to spark up conversation with me more and more which made me even more curious. Eventually the flirting and mutual attraction was obvious and he told me to meet him upstairs on the 3rd floor. We both had positions where we had to walk around the hotel during our shifts and could disappear.

    Long story short, dude ended up asking me to meet him in the linen closet and we straight up fucked. LOL. Such a slut ass moment for me but I remember it vividly. It was pretty fun and exciting. I still have him as a friend on Facebook. :heh:
     
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    Most time the guys with this mentality are über fems and carry a similar mentality as that of a woman being courted by a bisexual man would have. Other times (I dealt with a guy like this, in the military) it could be a semi masc (if even masc on occasion) guy that feels a vers guy is "tainted" and feels that he'd be allowing someone "less than" to run up in him, despite the fact that he himself gets run up in. Either way, it boils down to hetero-normative, feminine ways of thinking.

    I personally don't understand it and have never understood it. To me a d!ck is a d!ck. If I like a dude and I'm feelin him enough to let him run up in me, I don't give a [email protected]#k what has run up in him.
     
  30. acessential

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    If a dude's ass gets naturally wet like a female, I would suggest he get medical attention ASAP.

    I imagine that any wetness you may see is probably a combination of lube, pre-cum, saliva, and sweat. None of it was produced by the ass itself.

    The videos you posted look like the dude possibly just nutted inside the other one and kept going. Some dudes have a much shorter refractory period and are able to achieve orgasm and continue going.
     
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    So I have a question for well I guess everyone. Would you be able to be in a relationship with someone that is the same role sexually as you? Why or why not? For the vers dudes a.k.a. Divergents would you be able to be with someone that is not vers? I could date someone that is the "same role" but I think that's only because I don't need to deal with penetration in order to enjoy sex. Then again I could be damn near asexual. I don't necessarily see the point in placing sex as a top priority when we can get that at any point in time from anyone.
     
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    Yeah, my daps are for putting it out there but not necessarily an endorsement but it takes some big and hairies for sure.


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    I just want to pop my head back in here and just say that this thread is awesome! I am surprised to see or read that guys on here that are open to alternatives in a relationship. I didn't know their were guys "open minded" like this. Especially, my bruthas.

    Also, I am almost done listening to the Bottoms podcast and it is a eye opener. I am so glad that I found this site. I really don't have any close gay friends. Besides my ex and two other dudes that's about it. The two guys, I don't associate with much because our lifestyles are too different. I don't really talk to my ex because the breakup is still fresh for me (even though it's been a year).

    I don't really like gay men based on past situations. I feel sometimes that the only thing that I have in common with most is that we are sexually attracted to the same sex. I have felt that most gays are shallow, messy, and only focused on celebrities. I don't have tolerance for that. So, it's good to be able to come on here and this fulfill a need in me. It also is dispelling those stereotypes, that I have attached to the men in our community.

    I will venture out slowly and try to meet other gay men (black men particularly) for friendships. Sorry everybody for the essay I just wrote, a brutha should have majored in English. I had to get this shyt off my chest. Alright, I am going to step back out.

    Thanks guys.
     
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    Somebody please feed these chirren. For the price of a cup of coffee....
     
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