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Freaky for me: (some I may or may not have performed in the past) orgies, partner swapping, toys, a little b&d or s&m, asphyxia, role playing, putting any body part or object that's been in an anal cavity in your mouth with cleaning it off. Public sex, like at a movie theatre, a train, bus, plane, behind a church, at your job, restroom, while driving.

Nasty to me: anything sexual to do with children or animals! Anything that cause a rupture or an anal prolapse. Fisting and or footing (I fisted someone when I was much, much younger and it's nasty)

 

Cosing @ControlledXaos pretty much, because in said group chat, I woke up on all the wrong sides of all the beds and went apeshit about that disgusting ass Duriel dude just the other day. Like, I want to fight him! Repeatedly. Someone please make this happen!

I'm all for a lil, 'yall is nasty', but going further and further to disrespect public/common spaces for cashapps from lonely, pathetic, thirsty azz f*gs (the only suitable word to describe them) is just fukd up. I'm sooo fukn tired of gays/'others' trying to redefine every fukn standard of universally accepted 'decency', in the name of justifying being a perverted ho. Matter of fact, let's just go ahead and add p and h to the lgbtqiagntvshzm foolishness now, since the perverted ho community deserves their inevitable representation too.

See...yall done got my pressure up. I gotta go.

 

In. For. Answers.

 

Usually showered, but I can't deny that I sometimes like the "natural" scent of a man. There's a difference between subtle and straight up funk though.

 

If I'm on bottom, I'm a little more vocal and expressive. If that spot is getting hit, I'm a lot more verbal. If I'm on top I'm usually more quiet because I'm thinking about and analyzing my performance.

However no matter what, when I'm about to nutt, it's about to be some names called cuss words said vibrating rotating gyrating contourting trembling seizing going on.

Just don't say pussy or boi pussy or derivative and I'm good. It's ass. Now I'm no longer loving "this pussy" and I don't have a pussy for you to eat So why are you asking me if you can eat mine?

 

2015? See...

With prep and 99% of porn being bareback, I have a hard time believing there's a dutiful receptionist at the BIR office making record keeping their top priority. But what do I know...

 

I dont know how any of these companies, especially black pron companies, make money to pay their models in the first place. I can go on Porn Hub at any given moment and watch they sh!t for free. smh Homey got got, end of story and hopefully lesson learned.

 

Been on a prep for a couple months now - I won't lie, the temptation is great to go condomless and I got weak once with a guy I was talking to for a little while but otherwise, nah. Still stay strapped bc other STDs are still a real concern plus prep isn't 1000% fullproof.

 

Hahahaha I can't even imagine what tf you requested.

Some things should definitely be reserved for later. But honestly, that's a hard question to answer not on a case by cases basis. What's freaky to one person, may be par for the course to another.

 

No way to control it without rubbing one out. You can try mental jiu jitsu all day but, eventually, the urge will overtake you and you will find yourself chocking the monkey sooner or later.

 

I think the author of the article might be mad because he is HIV positive and probably been discriminated against because of his status. I understand his pain. But Grindrs aim for most ppl is to have no strings attached sex/short relationships at least this is what most informally know when using the app. To be honest I think it can be good and bad. On one hand, ppl who are HIV positive will find it easier to find ppl who are open to be in a relationship with HIV positive ppl. On the other hand ppl still lie about their HIV/STD status and sexual history which is dangerous. I think the author would have made a better argument with companies like OKcupid or match.com and chrisitanmingle which are mostly aimed at finding a long term partner.

 

What is sex??? Sounds familiar...Is it one of those myths like sleep?

 

Do you believe you can manifest dick into your life? Say if you are into the Laws of Attraction and all that?
Do you believe it's possible that you like someone so much the Universe will open an opportunity for you two to get to know one another or engage in something?

Any experiences in this practice? Especially you are introverted.

 

Hook up in this thread means a casual sexual encounter that was initiated by any means, including dating apps, cruising, club met up, sex parties, etc. This sex includes any sexual activity such as penetration, felatio, masturbation, frottage etc.

I'm curious to see where the squad falls on sexual frequency as it relates to casual sex. I guess I'm on the verge of getting back out there but at the times, I REALLY want to have a sexual interaction with an other male human, at other times I'm good with going to MyPornsterHub beating off and keeping it moving.

I know I'm not looking for anything that would be serious. I just feel like my body's constantly humming the Almond Joy /Mounds jingle.

 

To all the masculine dudes who prefer bottoming, i have to question. Have you ever had a moment in your life where you had to look yourself in the mirror and admit to yourself "I am a bottom. Not versatile, vers-top or even vers-bottom, but just a straight up bottom."
Have you ever felt less than a man because your penis would just object to the idea of going inside someone, no matter how hard you try and pump yourself up into topping?

Well im going through that right now. I look myself in the mirror and see a guy who should be on top, laying it down. But that's not the case.

 

Longtime member @RolandG mentioned in a post abt how only porn gives him the juice these days. Can we be REAL n talk about this!?

As @Nick Delmacy mentioned, Ive been exclusive w myvidster for a few seasons now. It's great to get what u want on ur lap (literally) when u want it. But, it can create a 'throw off' when ur w another human.

Bottom line, sex (activity) can be awkward n clunky. Don't get me wrong, for a lot of guys, hookup sex is just another reality if being gay. For me, personally, as a rare mofo who ended up wifed up w the first dude he messed around w (at 17) throughout my entire 20s, hookups weren't relevant.

So...when I started hooking up w guys, it often felt awkward. I remember the first time I drunkenly fooled around w a guy after my breakup, it was ok, but when we tried to do it again, it felt soooo weird. I had spent sooo long w 1 dude, that, eventho I was attracted to the new dude, I couldn't even get wood. It just didn't feel right. I had no sense of sexual comfort (vulnerability, at the end of the day, in the most intimate space possible) with a new person.

My point, w this thread, is to acknowledge the realities that accompany sexual activity for many of us. Dont get me wrong, I eventually moved on n had some great experiences. The best sex Ive ever had was w a dude who had a long distance bf, and while I knew it was wrong, idgaf, cus ol boy gave me wood just by being in the same room.

But, again, my point...I think for a lot of guys, hookups are just what they are. Its very often, the only form of intimacy and closeness, many gay men can relate to. To be honest, I notice a sense of easy sexual comfort more often, from guys who haven't experienced committed, closed relationships. Eventho Id be rock, sex became so associated w the same dude for so long, that it was awkward at times w new guys. I'm kinda jelly of that ability to just say, 'let's go', sometimes.

So, if ur not out here hooking up left n right, (trust, 0 judgement for safely doin ur thing) don't feel like ur the only one. Call me a prude/old/____, but I'm more prone, and comfortable with sex after we've at least had a drink (or 5) n a lil convo/interaction.

Those who can relate, ur not the only one who realizes that 'sex' (all encompassing) CAN be awkward. It's not just you. We're not machines. And it's ok. I've gotten mine, and stayed there trying to help dude get his, and I've been on the other side too.

It's cool. It wont be sooo awkward if we just keep it 100 w each other.

What say you's??? @Nick Delmacy @Ockydub @ControlledXaos @DreG @African King @Omega Level @OhSheit @KritiKal Analysis @JNH412
@Tyroc @alton @ColumbusGuy @Rico @acessential

 

Sup guys?

It's my first official thread, so I figured I'd share a challenge with the group. I'm in an open, long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 4 years, and we're both Scorpios (i.e have really high sex drives). Needless to say, we're both bi, have regional fuck buddies, and often enjoy porn together from time to time.

What was the challenge you ask? No sexual stimulation whatsoever for 7 days straight (meaning no porn, no buddies, no masturbation, etc.), earning a "free-for-all" on the 8th day. The catch? Each time we slip up, we owe the other $20/incident, with a goal to double the "no-go" period after each free-for-all is met.

A little random/crazy, I know, but the whole idea came about after we both felt we might be too reliant on sexual energies/release as a form of de-stressor and were curious about sex/porn addiction. We felt this would be a fun way to test our self control and learn more about each others kinks at the same time.

What's the longest you've gone without ANY sexual stimulation (temptation/distraction)? Have you and your partner ever challenged one another similarly? Any squad members down to try something like this via the Boards?

Have at it below, an be nice please lol!

 

"Gold Star" basically means that you've never had sexual intercourse with a female. Some gays think this makes them 'better' than gay men who have had sex with women before or bisexual men.

This poll has been set so that you have to vote to see the results.

This can also be used a point of discussion on this topic.

I don't care. I don't think anyone outside of gays care about this, if they care at all. In light of things where men who have sex with men, even once, get labeled as 'gay' by many in the heterosexual world, this is just a non scientific way to see demographics on this site. To me, it doesn't matter because we all can experience some form of discrimination and we all also make our own paths to accepting ourselves for who we are and moving forward with our lives.

 

I made an account just to answer this question lol but coming from a person who likes both I think gay porn is better for a couple reasons. When two men have sex you can tell the orgasms are real while straight porn a lot the time women will fake orgasm. Gay porn is more aggressive and passionate. Gay men give better blowjobs and when a guy is getting penetrated he knows how to work his behind to give back pleasure some women will just sit there and moan when taking a c0ck. I also notice there’s a lot more dirty talk in gay porn and I love that. I get turned on almost instantly.

 

I understand where you're coming from....I don't want my exploration to be stifled and be limited to a certain role by someone who has a strong preference for a certain role.

This is going to sound silly, but, I wish I already had sex at a younger age. I feel this whole virginity thing at my age just makes dating even harder and more stressful for me.

 

lol Don't stick your tongue out at me! unless you know how to use it

 

Another foot fetish guy here. Big masculine nice looking feet. Might have a hand fetish too, only because it makes me fantasize about what the feet will look like. Its not an obsession, just a distraction. Id definitely be more attracted to an OK looking guy with beautiful feet than a drop dead gorgeous guy with ugly feet.

 

All of these. I didn't include number 2 because I thought it might seem creepy...but I had happen to have a roommate that thought I wasn't at home and went to work...Hs slept in the living room. when I got up to go to the bathroom I heard a noise in the living room. I walked a Lil ways down the hallway and looked over the corner......

I felt kinda like a weirdo afterward cause I watched...smh..lol

Another incident was when me and my best friend stayed with friends in Houston many years ago when I was a lot younger.

Well one of the guys with us was on BGC talking to guys. Me and my friend left for a Lil bit to explore the area being new to Htown & came back and didn't see the other guy.

He must be gone? Nope we went into the other bedroom and saw the bathroom door closed..and heard the smacking sound.. looked under the door....& sigh.

I think anyone that watches porn is somewhat voyeuristic to a degree. Thanks to online vids, I see that folks do things in public bathrooms, the woods..etc. Coming up in high school, I always heard someone was doing something or got caught.

At my college some years back a guy told me this girl was giving a guy a pipe cleaning in the library, 3rd floor between the book stands...ironically, they were caught by the librarian...

Hmm, knowledge is power I suppose. Pretty risky & dumb but I found it hot still..

 

Really, I've never heard "gold star gay." In my experience, particularly with masculine gay men they seem to think they're better than gays who've never had sex with female. Bisexual dudes in my experience tend to look down their nose at gay men. That said I got a blow job from a girl when I was 18. But I only did it because back then I felt like I had something to prove. Wasn't really into it. Haven't been with a female sexually since then. I'm 41 now. Women just don't do it for me. That's something I've known ever since I was but, it took me to my mid 20s to come to terms with that.

 

rocks

 

I wouldn't date a porn star, but not because I'm judging him (trust me- I'm the LAST guy to shame anyone over porn). It has nothing to do with me being too good or even with him sleeping with a lot of people- I just feel that some people have made choices that don't work for me. I have a friend who dates a man who has 9 kids. I'm sure he's a good guy, and he seems to treat her fine, but that wouldn't work for me. Same goes for a guy who's closeted, has a face tattoo, or an extensive criminal record. Now, as friends or for hook-ups, that's different, because you're not building a life with someone. I just want to know that we have a chance of having a happy, successful life, and if someone's past made it likely that we would have significant problems (problems getting work, social problems stemming from dating a man who had sex on film, "groupie" problems, etc.), then I might have to bow out. That having been said, I know that some of MY choices/situations don't work for everyone (none I'm going into here LOL) and I have to accept that.

 

I could be with someone who was the same position I was. I'm not hung up on penetration as much either. I tend to be attracted to more dudes who share my preference so I know there will have to be some compromise there. I have gotten plenty of people (dudes and females) off and not had to penetrate...

 

Being apart of a Frat in college, it's a prerequisite to "f*ck dem hoes".... LOL (not trying to disrespect women, just using the ignorant terminology used in college).

So I did, and to be honest, it was hot as hell. Sex in general is hot to me. It can be great with a woman and amazing with a man. No sex trumps the other in a hot hook up. IMO. What it boils down to for me is not only whom you have great sex with, but who would you like to be with. I can still to this day get it up for a woman and f*ck the sh!t outta her. I dont. But I wouldnt have no trouble doing it. I like sex.

I always knew I was gay, so I like to say "I experimented in college". I my experimenting was Hetero-sexually. But once I started having sex with men, I stopped with women. Too much drama and not fair to either person IMO.

But yeah, I guess No Gold star here. (wipes tears then makes a sandmawich)

 

I have sexual thoughts of tearing out human organs by the roots and petting them like a kitten.

 

Dolvett Quince...big, tall, 40sum year old, choc athlete/trainer mofo. If his feet look good, aint no excuse imho...



See..big ole athletic feet w pretty toes...

 

This brings back memories....the first guy that I have ever dated was a "total top" (whatever the f*ck that means)....to a point that he wouldn't even let me grab his a**. Seriously, like NOT. AT. ALL. And the few times that I tried to f*ck with him and touched his butt, he would chase me and punch my d*ck or some sh*t.

....tops who just stick their d*ck in you are so f*cking boring.

 

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH YEAAA, I know their scene VEEEEERY WELL LMFAO!!!!!! "Yooooo!! whatchu doin' unda the bed, son??!!"

 

....I don't think you lot would consider mine a fetish or a kink, but I'll still share.

I'm obsessed with teeth!! I've only ever done it to one guy, but sometimes when I would make out with him, I would explore with teeth with my tongue (and being the a**hole that he was, he would at times bite my tongue to tease me and sh*t)....I don't know what it is about teeth that just do it for me....I've gotten on brick before because I would stare at his teeth while he would be talking to me.

(only did it with him because we were dating for a minute....I wouldn't do it to some random or some dude that I met recently)

 

Btw, these 'dummy' feet from the original post, are winners. I'd suck those toes...ijs

 

I just hate when they zoom in on the penetration! Niga! I know how sex works!!! Can I see a full screen w facial expressions n shyt?!