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    It's been a hellified week for the weary, so I thought I'd just put some gonzo shit out there to start the weekend off with (I hope) a laugh.

    Question: What went through your mind the first time you gave head? Now, the reason I bring it up was that, way back when, after realizing I was gay and watching gay porn for awhile, I kept thinking how much I wanted to suck a dick to prove I was a member of The Club.
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    Well, when the opportunity arose, I wasted no time. The guy I was with, who was a few years older, knew it was my first time too and was quite surprised at my head skills (as was I). Like Casablanca, it was the beginning of a beautiful friendship. The only thing is, the whole time I was giving him rookie throat, I thought, is this it? I don't know what I expected after watching porn demos (so to speak) but I kept thinking, why do I feel like I'm chomping on some dog's chew toy? Man, this thing feels like rubber in my mouth!
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    Now, time has passed. I still think I PHYSICALLY like getting head, only PSYCHOLOGICALLY like giving it to someone else. I really wish STIs weren't such a concern; maybe I would have given FAR more head by this stage in my life just so I could try and reach for that Baskin-Robbins experience! Lol
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    Well, the first time was part of some childhood experimentation and was the other guy's idea. I hazily recall liking when he would take his turn giving it but finding it weird and not so enjoyable during my turn, wondering when we could swap roles again. Also, I think he may have suggested sucking nuts more than head, which was odd but good to me, at least when he was doing most of the work.

    I think my adult first and second experiences happened around the same time (not entirely sure which is which), first with a "straight" friend, who I actually think is straight or at most bi-curious heavily leaning toward straight, whose guy-guy horseplay and jokes had become increasingly homoerotic after learning about my sexuality, and a slightly older grad student whom I suspected had interest in men. I was excited during the first and second times as an adult, but primarily due to the circumstances and people involved rather than for the act itself, and the head giving itself wasn't anything special (I think the first was very brief because we heard steps approaching the secluded school lounge we were in, and the second was fine but I thought giving head was tiring) but the circumstances turned the experiences into exciting events.

    I never expected anything to happen with these two and it only went there after lengthy buildups, months of increasingly homoerotic jokes and horseplay from the former and slowly getting to know the latter. I still much prefer receiving head, but getting the opportunities to give it to these particular people after spending time wondering where things could be leading and pondering their feelings about me was unpredictable and suspenseful.

    Plus, I wasn't comfortable with my body at the time and was surprised and honored, in a way, that the fairly attractive grad student would consider me for such a thing, though that honor is dubious when considering I've let guys give me head even when I find them unattractive or even somewhat ugly. We pretty much stopped speaking afterward, which was kinda disappointing but fine, but he made me feel good by complimenting my ability and jokingly questioning my inexperience. I guess he was a decent acquaintance, but my intentions may have been more motivated by attraction than interest in knowing him better, and my mind was in an increasingly strange and dark place which dampened interpersonal interaction for me, in general.

    I kinda still feel the same way about giving head years later. I can be fine and even somewhat eager to give when with someone I know and am fond of, but the act itself can wear me out quickly. The right set of circumstances can make me excited about the situation, but the act itself has little appeal in isolation. I don't know if I ever have a hunger for dick like those who don't even care if they know its owner.

    Those exciting circumstances also don't remove my worries about ill-advised behavior, like when I got off the bus at this guy's stop (which was only a couples of blocks from mine; I didn't just go to someone's random neighborhood) around 10 PM after sharing several seemingly flirtatious glances, tentatively approached him, and briefly gave him head behind some apartment building. Really interesting and somewhat reckless situation that made my heart beat fast, but I prefer not sticking things in my mouth when I've known their owners for about 5 minutes. It also felt a little weird when we talked about his wife and newborn baby, though that added a bit of seedy and psychological intrigue to the situation.
     
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    Yeah, l feel you on the knowing who the dick's attached to, which is why it's always been someone I've gotten to know. Glory holes, etc. seem all hot in videos and theory but STIs ain't so hot in reality.

    As for thirsty grad students, I didn't realize until years later why so many of them took an interest in me as a freshman. I was such a naive Midwestern kind I actually thought they appreciated me for my smarts lol.

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    Kind of glad I didn't know, in retrospect, as that was right as the HIV medicines were new. Two of those grads were the first people I personally knew to die of AIDS. Had I realized what their and my real interests were, i definitely would have smashed one of them, but would I be here?
     
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    My first time was weird. I was 15 and my boyfriend was 17. Before then, we were at the "let's makeout, dry hump, and grope each other through clothes" stage. But then we decided to just go for it. We took turns doing it to each other and I think we even tried 69. It felt weird. I remember wanting to try it for a while, but I didn't know what to expect when I actually did it. I remember thinking that the concept of having someone else's genitalia in your mouth was a unique experience. Dick by itself doesn't taste like anything. (It's the sweat and precum that does). But I did like the way his mouth felt around mine. Porn is such a bad illustration of sex. After that I just sat at the edge of the bed and didn't say anything. Not fully understanding why I was feeling the way I was feeling. I'll chop that up to still coping with my internalized homophobia. One thing I did notice is that he doesn't pre-cum. This is in contrast to pretty much every dude after him who pre-came a lot. Entirely different experience. Not gonna lie, I do enjoy giving and receiving head. Giving is definitely psychological. Receiving is both physical and psychological. I really enjoy receiving head if the guy enjoys giving it.
     
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    Had my first experience a few months ago actually.

    What went through my mind was the same thing that was going through my mind when I did everything else...STDS. I think that's why I don't enjoy ANY of it, receiving or giving. All of my quick little sexual experiences were bad in general, my sex isn't good. I could produce a five episode web-series based on it.
     
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    Yep, the regret afterwards, that's a whole 'nother thread in and of itself! Once you're in a relationship (not necessarily a long-term serious one, but at least one where medical statuses are known and verified), it won't quite be so awkward. If the mental worries are there, of course, the physical experience will be lowered.

    If you got writing skills, go for it, storyboard that web-series!
     
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    *checks door, realizes it's locked*

    Ok. First time, I was...excited. I wanted dude to know who was boss. LOL and I DID show him who was boss.

    He'd been laying up on my lap, head in my crotch really late at night, while we were watching a few movies. He kept sending these mixed signals- he was the one to move couches to be closer to me, he was the one to lay up all over me, he was the one wearing a jock-which I found out since his face was in my crotch and my hands were down his pants. And he was still playing coy! I was like...negro....seriously? So I had to make the first move- I literally said, "is this where I end up on my knees...or are you?" I'm direct like that. And he couldn't answer. So I flipped him over and pulled down his drawers. And at the end, he said I was a freak, to which I said, "whatever". I didn't even swallow! Cha!

    I think I might be the only person on the planet who might actually like giving head a little more than getting it. By a smidge. But it's real.

    Now, the first time a dude nut in my mouth and I swallowed... well, that story about future official bae is for another day.
     
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    Actually, I'm direct too. Some people find that off putting but I find duplicity and unnecessary coyness to be off putting.

    Swallowing not a big deal, seems like I never notice it's happening except by the dude's reaction. I guess I'm still waiting for that cartoonishly freakish hard peen with throbbing veins to say I like giving as much as getting, but the search goes on....
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    So you never notice dude is swallowing your nutt? Or did I misinterpret that?

    Thank you!! Since I don't have ESP and I'm not a telepath, I'm reduced to the all-too-human asking of questions, especially if dude and I are building a long-term relationship. Otherwise, how would you know anything? How else can you know whether or not to make changes? How else can you know that their spot is "here" not "there". I wanna know your spot mofo. I wanna be hitting it just right, and as often as possible .

    So, again, Praise be to @Rico !
     
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    I started out liking getting head wayyyy more...but eventually became a crazed d*ck sucker lol.* And I admit I LOVED to swallow and I would just tell myself, good oral hygiene(use those hospital swab things and mouthwash if expecting instead of brushing), low(ish) risk for HIV (other STD's, well lets just say that thank Gawd they were treatable/curable ), have a nice strong drink ready(alcohol is antispeptic and anti-microbial..why you use alcohol swabs before giving shots as you know) to wash that stuff down into the stomach acid bath. lol. I told myself a lot of shit. I had a party trick that involved a banana too! lol and had very little gag reflex at one time. Not that into the back end stuff so what else was a guy supposed to do?
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    I love dicks. lol. White, black, brown, Asian, American, Nigerian, German, Malaysian, Guatemalan, Dominican, Venezualan, Italian, Persian, etc. etc. they were/are all good. Oh well, at least I can admit that I have a side that can definitely be called :trash:y

    *Hmmm... started out liking to get not give, then switched. They used to have a saying...today's trade is tomorrow's competition!
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