Free porn ruins men’s sex lives, but not women’s

You just never know, I try to limit my shit. I feel like porn can limit your zest to get out there and interact with another human. It's too easy to catch your nut within the comfort of your own crib and that's some dudes' downfall.

 

I guess my long standing engagement to myvidster explains why I give 0 fuks about sex w a real life person... Well, that's not totally true. While I can't say that I'm in any way active about pursuing what I want, I just never seem to encounter it, so I say fuk it. The most quality gay guys I know are now friends of mine, and I don't want to become that guy who stays hooking up w all of his 'friends'.

 

Four years ago I probably would've {reluctantly} disagreed with you but...here I am, four years celibate. LOL NAh, it's not totally because of porn but, it definitely contributes to the complacency.

 

Myvidster hasn't been the same since the ads to watch ANY video

 

But do you need to have 'quality gay guys' to 'hook up'? Maybe so...what is a quality gay guy when it comes to hooking up?-is it different than for a relationship? I guess it would be for me(if I cared about that stuff still). I would not want to hook up with quality gay friends, but damn when I was 'active' about hooking up, 'quality' was very subjective then(back when we rode dinosaurs and all).


Also they did not discuss incorporating porn into a real life sexual relationship. Is there a place for 'porn with a partner'? If you incorporate porn as part of sex (like adding food, role-playing, toys, etc) does it make a difference?


*hookups are supposed to be kinda sleazy...that is part of it being a hookup. How can you have a 'walk of shame' if there is nothing to be ashamed about lol? All of you younger gays are too 'clean' and all about sex. Hell if I survived as nasty as I was at times you all can too. Nobody...no sane people want HIV or some STD...but there is a middle ground too.

 

Huh? Have you seen modern day porn with these "younger gays"? Clean is the LAST thing the younger gays are about sex. LOL

 

I am not fully sold on the ever-present horrors of pornography. However, I do think there is a growing trend that people, in general, are having less sex and that is a bit concerning. Do I think porn is the root cause, No! I think porn should be categorized with all of life's indulgences, if it done in moderation, you are probably fine.

I don't think there is a shortage of sex to be had and getting sex has become increasingly easy...I think a lof of this is laziness and preoccupation with other "more meaningful" activities such as bringing Netflix on a Saturday night.

 

Not for me. Don't get me wrong, cus I have def had some hot hookups/partners ;-) but in true honesty, Im just not into the randomness. Like I said, there's a world of difference for me between meeting up for drinks and then deciding to go back to my place, and you showing up at my door w ur poppers n just starting to undress. I find a lot more comfort in one over the other.

 

U need the ublock add-on bro

 

We (people) might need to come to grips that the reality about actual sex is that its at many times VERY overrated. Lets be honest, some sex hookups can be awesome, but many are just blah or downrite, I could of did this myself and had a better time.

Which is why with the easy access of porn these days and the filthy but oh so good content of porn, men are like "fuck it, i'll handle this and I'm good".

Nobody to make awkward small talk with as they wipe off and take too long to find their shoes and underwear, no dick size disappointments or oooh ouch can't take the dick shit, and no "I'm on my way" and 2 hours later they ring the doorbell. And no worries about stds.

Real sex is good, but I just wonder how many people have Good Real sex!

 

Well I kinda meant 'you all' on here...and yeah 'younger' being relative to my age. To to the average gay thot most of you are ossified as well lol.

 

"Ossified" LMAO

 

So I need to pay for porn, because it won't ruin my life?