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    What do you think about their discussion?

     
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    Ive never really been a fan of AconnectionTV but the title definitely got my attention (the i like fat dudes part). The first part was really interesting, it was refreshing to see two stereotypical attractive guys so bluntly vocalize their attraction to big dudes. Such admissions are left to the anonymous DM. And the undertone fem guy in the middle had a lot of good points, his filters example was spot on.
     
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    This part wasn't actually surprising to me at all. I often see fat dudes claim they like fat dudes and many times I can see right through them. I feel its a self projecting, defense mechanism that internally says "i like big or thick dudes, because I want to be seen as sexy and liked as well". The moment a lean dude or nice body man that works out and eat well shows them attention, their once proclaimed taste of liking "big dudes" go out the window.

    The dudes that say that in this video may not be big boys, but they aren't small either. I don't buy it.
     
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    I wasn't speaking of big dudes that say they like big dudes, in that aspect i completely agree with you. Most big guys will risk their 5 year relationship just for the opportunity to be dug out by a local stripper.

    These two men to "me" have more of a soft gym body, which is the typical attractive body type among the black gay men in my area. So for me I have never seen men that look like them openly express an attraction to fat dudes. I was just giving them a little credit, not a pass.

    P.S. So are you a big dude, and are you attracted to big dudes? #askingformyself
     
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    I feel you. No I am not a big dude, nor am I attracted to big dudes. They are usually not my type, although many times I am their type. Thats why I said I don't buy it.

    When you are dealing with black grown men, many of us do not keep up with staying in shape or we are naturally thicker and heavier and don't do much to shred it out. Maybe it can be laziness or maybe we like that shape. In either case, when dudes try to make it seem like they "like" FAT men or go for "FAT" men, its always makes me think "GET THE FVCK OUTTA HERE". Because I personally know over weight fat men and while some may have a piece or two they have hooked up with, they are typically very lonely and are not the first type of guys men run up to and try to holla at at a party, bar, or club. Also its the basis of clientele for male escorts. Many of escorts main clients are overweight fat guys who have to pay for action.

    I think these dudes in particular with the "soft gym bods" are basically saying they go for their body type because most men in their area are shaped like them. Or they would accept better body if offered to them. But if TYSON the model tried to hook up with them and REBUN STODDARD from american idol tried to. They would go for Rebun because they like "fat" guys? FVCK OUTTA HERE. :heh:
     
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    One said he's into fat/chubby guys and the other said thick. The two aren't the same, no? I was under the impression that a lot of dudes like the stocky, beefy type of thick, use the term to describe big ass/thighs or the female/feminine shape type of thick.

    They talked about religion towards the end. The bald guys def. going through something and the group pretty much said all that needed to be said.
     
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    You rang?

    One of these things is not like the other. To me, it's subjective to make the determination for many. It's just something that I know when I see it for me to say a dude is 'fat' versus 'thick.'

    My definition of fat/chubby:

    A dude who is overweight and has very little muscle tissue. This guy would be soft all over.


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    My definition of thick/stocky:

    A non shredded look but still has a masculine looking body with a combination of muscle and fat. If a man has big muscular arms, chest, and thighs and probably could be really fit if they put down the sugar and carbs for a few month would qualify as 'thick' in my view. You need a higher muscle to fat ratio.


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    Guys on the borderline:

    He's overweight, but not so much so that you'd say he's obese. His stomach isn't that big but he's also not really muscular either.

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    This guy has muscle but way more fat. He could drop weight and be definite "thick" but could put on weight and be straight chubby.
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    The guy on the left here is more 'thick' than chubby. He too could go either way depending on how the rest of his diet and metabolism goes.

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    It is really subjective.

    As a thick guy myself, I am attracted to more thicker guys but that has always been the case, even when I was thinner. I like a variety of guys as far as being physically attracted to them goes. I used to be really turned off by skinnier guys but now, I have started to find many of their bodies attractive as well. So I think tastes change overtime or maybe if you start to notice different things about different body types, you can form an appreciation for them?
     
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