Happy Father's Day

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  1. OckyDub

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    Yes I'm kinda being a dick and trolling @ControlledXaos and @Omega Level. I'm very aware that many many Black men are not only in their children's lives but in the homes as well. Nonetheless I've lived in the hood and also very close to public housing projects and can tell you regardless of the reasons, these were matriarchal communities. Is it controversial simply acknowledging that this example (image) is typical and abundant in the Black community?
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    You are right.

    Happy Father's Day to dem hoes. :franko1:

    In all seriousness, yes. A lot of women are head of the household and there's plenty of reasons why the fathers of these households may not be there that are beyond their control.
     
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    Umm...is that woman wearing a negligee in her family pic? I know Sears is slowly going out of business, but I didn't know Victoria's Secret bought out their family portrait operation....
     
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    Hell on Mother's and Father's Day, I'm like "Fuck that punk ass abusive Ike Turner muthafucka"; referring to my father.

    My moms held it down but the thing is though she stopped at two kids because she was broke. When my moms left my pops she was staying with grandma. Point blank grandma was like "you get pregnant you getting outta here." Moms used contraception, started working. Kept applying for different higher and higher paying jobs and gained her independence.

    I understand mistakes happen but you're supposed to learn from them. There are multiple free forms of contraception out there for women. If you're struggling at one or two kids, why keep having more and more children knowing that the responsibility and burden is gonna fall back on you.

    To me this goes well beyond the phrase, "stop picking no shit niggas". There is nothing wrong with fucking a "no shit nigga" to get your rocks off but you don't have to get pregnant by him.
     
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    you peep'd that too huh
     
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    That was beautiful Ocky. :rudy: LOL.

    I understand for the most part what you are saying in this statement. But heres the kicker, when many women fuck these "no shit niggas" they often don't have the power to NOT get pregnant by him. And specifically in the heat of the moment.

    Like you, I have a hood background and hood shit in and throughout my family that still exist today. Trust me bro, I have seen it time and time again the POWER OF DICK with many women. When these pretty face, sexy men want them, (and by want I mean wants to fuck) they often lose all sense of who they are. If they ever knew in the first place. And as a result, that dick is raw and shooting all up in them. And as a result, their getting on the train with a baby in a stroller (that they need help with going on the stairs) a baby holding their hand, and one on the hip. And all because she couldn't tell that fine ass dude to strap up. As well as her taken birth control.

    BTW, of course Im not saying this is the case for every single mother. But I guess I am saying that the ladies need to have control of that raw dick in them because they ultimately have all the power.

    But I digress. I'll be nice. Like @ControlledXaos said, Happy Father's Day to dem hoes. :franko1:
     
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    *Putting words in your mouth* so you saying these same emotions are in play with homosexual men and HIV?
     
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    But on the real though... why is the mom's dressed like she ready for Valentine's Day night with her man?
     
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    Bro you see that right? Mama wasn't playing with this pic. She gonna crop the four of those kids out later to send to that sexy ass dude she been wanting. Next year #5 gonna be in the pic.

    And you see the oldest daughter face not here for it? She like, "Yea, I don't know what to say either with this woman. Let me just smile" :heh:

    Side note - Only thing I got from this pic is, I need to listen to Foxy Brown Ill Nana. That was a hot album.
     
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    In play, doing hop scotch, freeze tag, and all other play. Hell yeah the same could be said about many gay men if we were talking about them. I have said for a while that men gay or straight have very little control over not wanting/doing raw sex. Its the most natural form and desire of sex.

    Result - Women with pregnancy. Likely unwanted but just disregarded as an outcome because the desire of the dick or man was too strong.

    Result - Gay men with HIV and STI's. Definitely not wanted but just disregarded as an outcome because the desire for dick or ass or man was too strong.
     
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    Imma send this thread to MadamNoir. That'll learn ya.
     
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    Okay...so if we follow the logic trail...in all fairness, these emotions are in all genders and sexualities I would say. I mean this is what prevents the dude (gay or straight) from using condoms right?
     
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    Im not sure if I understand the question. But I would first say, yes, those emotions are in all genders and sexualities. If by emotions you mean the primal urge for sex to be "organic" without the use of condoms.

    But if we are talking about condoms in particular the responsibility is 100% on the receiver. The vagina or ass hole getting penetrated. Once the receiver is adamant about the sensation or whatever feeling you get from raw dick isn't worth the result that may come from it (pregnancy or STI) and they demand the dude to strap up, THATS IT!!! Either he says, no I like it raw and zips up and leave or he grabs the condom.

    Receivers have all the power. Unless you are talking about rape which of course is another topic entirely. Im not sure if I answered your question. Clarify it I didn't.
     
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    LMAO @ this pic. I'm glad I had an old school mama.
     
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    I agree with your point.
     
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    The problem is instilling self-worth in these folks. When you love and care about yourself, you're much less apt to put yourself in bullshit situations. But to instill self-worth, you have to start shifting paradigms in the community at large.

    I say this time and time again but shit won't change until we change as a people.
     
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    wait one mofo second... they all have on the same shoes. LOL
     
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    This picture evolves with each new comment lmaoo
     
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    Whole family rocking Jordans
     
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    I definitely didn't notice that before lol. But in her own way, at least, she's trying to keep her kids looking on point and the girls have very nice dresses. Just don't know why she went with "Boudoir Baby Mama" look for herself...
     
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    Debunking the most pervasive myth about black fatherhood
    Debunking the most pervasive myth about black fatherhood
    There's a very pervasive myth about black fathers: that they're more often than not absent from their children's lives. But if you look at the data, it turns out the truth is far more complicated than the ugly stereotype suggests.

    New York Times columnist Charles Blow previously took on this myth. Blow started with the basis for much of the idea: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention data that showed 71.5 percent of black, non-Hispanic children in 2013 were born to unmarried women, compared with 29.3 percent of white, non-Hispanic children.

    But as Josh Levs pointed out in his new book All In, 2.5 million of 4.2 million black fathers — or about 59.5 percent — live with their children. Levs's numbers suggest that it's not true, as the CDC figures suggest, that 71.5 percent of black dads are absent from their homes — but rather that many of them are simply unmarried.

    And when black fathers do live with their children, they're just as, if not more, likely to be involved in their kids' everyday lives. Blow cited CDC data that showed black fathers are more likely than their white and Hispanic counterparts to feed, eat with, bathe, diaper, dress, play with, and read to their children on a daily basis. While some of the differences in the data aren't statistically significant, the figures indicate that black dads are at least as likely to remain involved in their children's lives as those of other races.

     
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    Happy Caitlyn Jenner Day to all the madres out there holding it down.
     
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    Agreed, but where do we start with that?
     
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    Maaannn, it's so multifactorial. Pick an issue and try to run with it, is all I can say.
     
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