What makes a man attractive? Muscles and money, of course

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    What makes a man attractive? Muscles and money, of course.

    Traditional masculine traits are still in style, based on data from a site on which people rate photos of men on London's subways.

    "PHYSICALLY STRONG" and "financially successful" may sound like characteristics that your grandpa's generation would've used to judge a man's attractiveness, but they're still the traits that make men more desirable, according to new research published in the journal Feminist Media Studies.

    Using data from TubeCrush, a site on which people share, rate, and comment on sneakily taken photos of men on the London subways, researchers at the University of Coventry looked for patterns in what straight women and gay men found to be sexy and masculine in their fellow commuters.

    The authors of the study note that despite the fact that masculinity is defined by much more than just physical strength and financial success in this day and age, the site featured far fewer images showing other forms of masculinity, like men holding babies or more emotional-looking men. Instead, flashy watches, nice suits, and muscular physiques are the norm. In short, women love muscles and money.

    In case you're wondering which muscles the ladies love, biceps and pecs were popular focal points.

    Of course, the comments and photo titles are largely written tongue-in-cheek, and meant to be humorous as well as appreciative. Despite that, the study authors bring up the fact that if this site were to target female commuters, it would probably be considered creepy, no matter the users' level of seriousness. And whether joking or not, the focus is clearly on men's physiques and indicators of disposable income.

    "From smart-suited city workers to toned gym-goers flashing their flesh, the men featured in the photographs on TubeCrush show that as a culture we still celebrate masculinity in the form of money and muscle," said lead researcher Adrienne Evans. She adds that it's a problem in a society where we've supposedly moved on from traditional gender roles.

    The TubeCrush site is a small, overly specific setting on which to base societal standards, but the findings are interesting and researchers hope this study will lead to more discussion on what constitutes masculinity.
     
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    Masculinity stay winning regardless on how they try to shame it.
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    It is true @OckyDub that's why you don't see fem and fem relationships very often
     
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    This is awful misogynistic fem shaming. As an ambassador to the queer community, I would expect more of you.
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    #reclaimingmytime
     
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    I do think it is true though don't you think. I don't mean to shame anyone but I do think that most (black) gay men seek masculinity in their potential mates more than anything
     
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    Plenty of masc men or in between men desire fem men. I can't believe you lead pride parades....shameful.
     
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    LOL I never have been in a Pride parade
     
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    But you're right though. I rescind my previous comment
     
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    Once again reality flies in the face of dogma. Despite the calls from feminists for men to be like women. Straight women still want men who are masculine. :obamasip: :save:
     
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    I mean I like masculine men no doubt. I don't care about muscles or money though. I mean if he has a nice build....toned body then yes, I will him all over. As far as money, meh I don't even care. I just want a guy I vibe and have with whenever I decide to date guys. Oh & for him to **** me senseless when it's time to. :)
     
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