Is This Accurate?

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    Close enough. I can do without the 'dating exclusively'. That title alone says we're alrdy in a relationship.
     
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    Pretty accurate I think.
     
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    I just had an argument with a dude about the first phase. I know we use "talking" loosely but to me, once you go on one or two dates with the intent to go on another, you are already dating. What's with this "talking" bs? Call a spade a spade. And yes it is possible to be dating more than one person at a time. Might make you a whore, but you're still dating.
     
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    No, it doesn't make u a whore because ur dating multiple ppl. That's the point of dating!
     
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    Negro I haven't even been on a date since Trump has been in office
     
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    Listen, you don't have to prove anything to me. @Nick Delmacy was the one who called you a whore first. I think he said something like all bartenders and IT professionals are whores. Don't shoot the messenger. LOL
     
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    Just because y'all had a big gay island wedding where @OckyDub cooked the chicken fingers, and none of us base level members were invited, doesn't make me a whore. Your man was my man at one point. Ijs...
     
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    I would say it is accurate. I have not dated much but when engaging in discussion with other black gay men out here in the A, that picture is pretty much their sentiment.

    People are scared of using the word date because of the level of commitment they believe it carries.
     
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    Makes sense to me.
     
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    “Talking” & “Dating Exclusively” can go either way; meaning y’all actually dating or in a relationship. Some nigga prolly created these terms yeh because they hate anything official. Lol
     
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    I got into a debate about these terms a few weeks ago with a friend and described that picture almost verbatim without even having seen it. It's a thing for Millenials.
     
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    I think there's a little room for nuance haha. For me, dating exclusively is like I haven't completely locked you in yet. Do some dumb shit and I'm fine going about my merry way. Relationship means you do some dumb shit and I gotta stick around to work through it =/
     
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    Hell, it's Gen Xers and Baby Boomers using these terms. Lol

    The only difference between Talking and Dating in the descriptions above is sex. You can be dating and have sex with those people with zero commitment. It just seems like a good amount of people think that sex means you're now exclusive and in a relationship when obviously it doesn't.
     
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    You forgot one:
    "FWB"--You hooked up more than once, exchanged numbers and reconnect every 1-3 months and act like you gon hang out but only end up fuckin and not speaking for another month or two or three, except for the occasional text just to exchange pleasantries, but it's usually when you are horny and you're really just checkin to see if they are too so you can get it in again.
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    This is accurate but I don't agree with the when Dating you do stuff "As Friends". I think the as friends part is more so in the talking phase because at that stage you can decide if its going to pan out as a friendship or move on to dating. You can still talk to other people but I personally don't call people I'm dating friends because it can get intentions mixed up. Yes I sideye people that say "oh this is my brother/bestfriend" but y'all also sleep together.
     
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    I guess. I just feel like the minute the term 'exclusive' is used, that means it's only us. Especially if it comes as a step in our relationship and NOT just by default due to lack of options/complacency/etc.
     
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    It's definitely splitting hairs...honestly, you have to be a fuck boy to be well-versed in the rules and regulations...unfortunately *points at self*
     
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