I mean why do people want to be limited in what they get off to? Differently people have different kink. As a verse guy these lanes some guys put themselves in seem constricting.
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it seems less about ppl limiting themselves and more about how we police or even shame other ppl's desires via odd notions of purity and authenticity -- i.e., real top, real man, "no one has ever touched his ass". a bttm can top several times and remains a bttm. yet, a top is fake and/or tainted if he admits to or engages in anal play of some kind, even if it was just once or twice.
this mirrors how women who've experimented w/ other women remain straight, but if men do the same, they are permanently tainted as gay. it seems most true for blk men. our manhood/masculinity is so heavily policed, even by us. no other group contends with so many rules and restrictions on behavior than blk men. but we often complain that it's difficult to get brothas to be honest or open up in conversation.
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Straight men get prostate massages and "Milked " doesn't mean he wants some dude on his back.
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