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  1. alton

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    Dude...Im so fkn over all of it. Crazy sht is I decided to hop on Grindr a few months back, and notice that Im getting hit up by some pretty fly azz dudes but, I have NO interest in hookin up (for a myriad of reasons). Not to knock anyone that does, by all means, do you, Im just at a age and mindset where I got no time for that sht anymore. LOL
     
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  2. Nick Delmacy

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    In my youth, I did the hookup thing maybe about 2-4 times a year...just to purge the monster outta my system...Then I would go back to blending in with my hetero homies who were getting casual sex left and right.

    One of my straight roommates had new girls doing the Walk of Shame every weekend.

    I was unnecessarily paranoid back then too...which is ironic because nowadays you’re much more likely to be “exposed” than back then since camera phones, text screenshots and all that were not as common.

    As for now, I don’t want randoms coming into my space and seeing all my belongings...and I don’t want to go to stranger’s homes either.

    I’m okay with casual sex if it comes after a first date or doing something in public...but the whole meeting someone (possibly a catfish) on an app and going to their home (to get robbed or worse) for a random nut isn’t my thing.

    Props to those of all ages that go above and beyond to bust one with another person though. I have my own pleasures that I will jump through hoops to get as well (ie: sense of accomplishment in finally finding a torrent after searching for months instead of just paying the .99 cents from the beginning :tears:)
     
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    Hook up in this thread means a casual sexual encounter that was initiated by any means, including dating apps, cruising, club met up, sex parties, etc. This sex includes any sexual activity such as penetration, felatio, masturbation, frottage etc.

    I'm curious to see where the squad falls on sexual frequency as it relates to casual sex. I guess I'm on the verge of getting back out there but at the times, I REALLY want to have a sexual interaction with an other male human, at other times I'm good with going to MyPornsterHub beating off and keeping it moving.

    I know I'm not looking for anything that would be serious. I just feel like my body's constantly humming the Almond Joy /Mounds jingle.
     
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    Ive had very few stranger hookups in my entire life. Ive just never liked the awkwardness. I voted 3x a year just because it's not like I haven't had them. I do feel like Im missing out and letting paranoia get the best of me sometimes, but Ive accepted that my fear of catching EVERYTHING from touching a man's thigh isn't going anywhere anytime soon.

    It's actually kinda crazy when you think about how much more comfortable a little bit of convo can make you, since a mofo could obviously still be feeding you a bunch of lies.
     
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