Best Posts in Thread: The One Question Men Need to Stop Asking on Gay Dating Apps

I do not advocate criticizing or shaming anyone for being feminine. However I do think many feminine men want to make it seems like a Masculine guy wanting another Masculine guy is somehow wrong and I just fundamentally disagree with that. I am still trying to figure out what is wrong with a man who is attracted to other men, expect them to walk, talk and act like a man. To me, it is perfectly normal for a man that is attracted to another man to find his masculinity as part of the attraction.

 

I do think there's some truth to "femme-shaming" whether blatant or inherent but we're not going to use gay-dating apps as the barometer for mistreatment within the gay community. Anonymity brings out the worst in all humans.

 

And the chutch sayd "Ahmendt."

If Xbox Live has not taught me anything else it's definitely that.

If masculinity wasn't so desired then why do these femme gays not chase after other femme gays? "I don't bump purses" is what I have heard a few say. But there are femme tops and verse guys out there. As are masc bottoms.

It's such a gauntlet to date.....

Masc Femme or In Between?

Positive or Negative?

If Positive is the body hot?
If so are they undetectable?

If negative is the dick phat?
If no is the body hot?

Is he in the gym working on his body to become hot?
If not End Chase.

If so is the Ass phat?
If no then that's OK.

Etc etc etc.

I just don't understand why guys don't get that everyone has their own things that are attractive to them. And they are using the exact same shaming and preferences themselves. It's madness.