Wassup guys. I’m 25 turning 26 in November. I’m currently exploring my sexuality lately trying to figure out what I want. I’ve been suppressing feelings so long and not living out what I am. Hope you all support me on this journey. I must admit I am a bit scared and hesitant of. Hope you all can answer my questions and be straight up with me!
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The 100 Daps Club
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Yo! What's going on fellas. Haven't been on this site in YEARS. Finally tired of FB, and other mainstream Social Media outlets. Saw and email from this site, and figured I'll use this as a replacement. You can call me Mell. I am 30 years of age. Recently relocated to Alabama from Florida with my partner ** cough (roommate) cough**. I am a laid back kind of dude. Love sports - mainly college football (Go Canes), game on my xbox1 every now and then, enjoy going out here and there, but mainly I am at home, if I am not at work. Looking forward to many conversations on here with you all.
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Supporter
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Thanks for the 'Welcome' Nick Delmacy. I am sure I will learn to use the site comfortably before long. I an a VietNam era veteran, retired educator, Grandpa and I believe a good human being, I enjoy R & B and POP music the most but get something from all types of music. I'm not a vegetarian but like veggies more than meat. Enjoy sports watching especially B-ball and Football but not a die-hard fan of a particular team. I am quite political and and a die-hard Liberal Democrat. I am recently out of a relationship with a younger man that I thought was the real thing again. I was separated from my first partner in 2005 by i death We had 31 good years. Took me 10 years to re-emerge . Looking forward to chatting and sharing with the members here. Again, thanks for the welcome.
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The Great Debater The 100 Daps Club
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I've been with this family since the Discreet City days and it helped me figure out so many things about who I was at that time and ultimately the man I wanted to become. I don't always agree with Ocky or Nick but I always appreciate their ability to stand by their feelings even if they aren't the most PC. I'm proud to see what DC/CA has transformed into over the last couple of years and I'm elated to still be rocking with the best as things are only going to get better.
Age: 25
Height: 6'2
Location: Chicago (by way of the greatest place on earth and my hometown New Orleans, Louisiana)
Occupation: Finance
Education: Xavier University (A.S. in Psychology), UCLA (B.S. in Finance & Account Management.) and Booth (Masters of Business Administration.)
A Bisexual Triacial Dude w/ Some Opinionated Nigga Tendencies.
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Hey fellas...I lurk therefore I am
39 jax Florida blah blah whateverBodicontak, Duke_Skywalker, Pawl See and 6 others dapped this. -
Whats up CA family. TheEdge
About: Big music fan (Hip Hop/Rock/Pop.. anything goes)... so expect lots of music posts from me
Age:24
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Hi, I’m Kwezizuva
I’m a student, artist, barista and am trying to break into the world of YouTubing or podcasting. I found out about this site through the podcast. I’m interested in talking to different kinds of people and having new experiences through the site.
I love to sculpt, paint, draw and make music. It’s all more of hobby rn, but if it ever takes off, a professional career would be great. I’m originally from Zimbabwe/South Africa and I’m in school for pre-law and Communications.
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What's up my dudes,
Franky here, new to the site.
I'm a little bit country, a little bit rock n' roll. A little bit reggae and a little bit neo-soul.
Age: 35 years old
Height: 6' 0"
Occupation: Screenwriter
Interests: I love a good movie, especially horror. Bowling, Billiards, Shuffleboard (the bar version not the cruise ship version) Lol. I enjoy travelling to new and familiar places throughout the year. I also love Charter fishing on the lakes.
Drinks of choice: Whiskey neat, Merlot, Domestic beer, Mojito
Looking forward to chatting with you guys.NewAfrikan, Winston Smith, Nick Delmacy and 5 others dapped this. -
Ash Lurker
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HI THERE!! I finally decided to step out of the shadows and introduce myself.
Born and raised in Mississippi.
I'm 25.
A graphic designer.
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Infinite_loop Is this thing on?Bae Material The 1000 Daps Club
LOL have been a longtime lurker and reader of CA and slowing coming in the playground to join the other cool kids
Age: 25
location: Seattle
interests: Technology , Music (the new "new" RnB/Hip-Hop a la Kendrick, The Weeknd, Jhene Aiko,..) , movies, outdoors, entrepreneurship, and finding a man.
height: 5'11"
your concentration in school: Bachelor's in Computer Science, -In Progress- M.S in Engineering Management
your occupation: Software Engineer
the foods I like: Mostly everything . I keep an open mind when it comes to food and so far, it has worked very well.DMVScorp, Aejae, acessential and 5 others dapped this. -
Squad Veteran Most Valuable Player The 1000 Daps Club Supporter
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Age: 25
location: Florida
interests: urban music industry, TV series (Power, Empire, etc), business, healthy living (food, exercise, lifestyle)
height: 5'11"
your concentration in school: masters in anesthesia
your occupation: graduate student
the foods you like: many kinds like Nigerian (especially since I am!), Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Breakfast (Waffle House!!!), etc
And yes that is my real picture lol.
Random: Life is good but I do feel like I cannot connect with many students in my class at times. Many of them are in relationships (heterosexual) and I just do not find many things in common with them. Not like them being heterosexual has anything to do with it but we lack common interests. I do have some people that are like associates/"talk buddies" but no one I hang out with consistently. I am mostly a loner. I have met some black gay men out here that are very cool to see when I go to Pride Center Florida though.mucluvcuz, Duke_Skywalker, Scott G. Brown and 5 others dapped this. -
BlackguyExecutive Je suis diplomateSquad Leader Best Site Comments The 1000 Daps Club Supporter
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What's good to the usual CA-ers aka Squad Members and What's groovy to those who lurking in the shadows. W E L C O M E
29 - Tampa Bay
US Diplomat & Scholar
I am almost a husband (10/17/15), I enjoy food, I am a self proclaimed foodie, I love learning new languages, drinking scotch, reading books, secretly enjoying ratchet internet videos, world travel, new cultures, photography, and currently learning videography....I may start a YouTube channel or something.
Pet Peeves: People who say "Talking White" and those who are constantly being debbie downers.Franky, ctforbes, Thami Ndaba and 5 others dapped this. -
Wassup fellas
Age:30
Location:Atlanta (old Atlanta)
Interest: I enjoy traveling, swimming,surfing (yes black people surf) real music.
I love intelligent conversations ,good vibes and good food. I'm the Pisces which will always laugh when I'm called Boujee because most misinterpret that word for having standards. Looking forward to meeting new folks which will expand my understanding of this crazy world.thegdthadman, OckyDub, acessential and 4 others dapped this. -
OckyDub I gave the Loc'ness monstah about $3.50Site Founder The 10000 Daps Club
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Scott G. Brown Lurker
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Hi Everyone!
I am new here, and I found this site by accident. I am glad that I did because not only is it entertaining, but it is informative as well. The article that caught my attention was the piece concerning the Black Panther, Huey Newton, who was not only a Civil Rights activist, but a Gay Rights activist as well at the same time as the Stonewall Uprising in which I was a participant 50 years ago. I was only 28 years old at the time. The late Dr. Newton has always been one of my greatest Icons.BlackguyExecutive, NikR, Cyrus-Brooks and 4 others dapped this. -
Thamijhb Lurker
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Wassup everyone. Thami here
Age: 34
Location: Johannesburg, South Africa
Interests: just about all types of music (I'll try it before I knock it), cooking (it calms me down) and all things Africa v2.0 (clothing, art, furniture, opinions ect)
My concentration in school: 1st degree in marketing and business administration. 2nd degree in risk and compliance management.
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Thami Ndaba Lurker
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Howzit to all the grandpas, millennials and everyone in between.
Young lawyer from Johannesburg, South Africa here.
Just passed my quarter life crisis, so I'm keen to meet new people and hear about experiences of sgl men on the other side of the Atlantic and of those fellow brothers in the other parts of my continent who remain victims of homophobic laws and oppression.Franky, Infinite_loop, acessential and 4 others dapped this. -
Kyle Lurker
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Lusi Lurker
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Hey guys.
My name is Lusi. I'm from Port Elizabeth, South Africa
Age: 23
interests: Poetry, literature, foreign cultures, learning new languages (I speak five for now). I like weird things that contribute to my spiritual, emotional and intellectual growth.
height: I'm about 1.78m I think that would make me around 5'11" in American terms
your concentration in school: BA in Media Communications and Culture
your occupation: Freelance Public Relations Specialist and Stylist.
the foods you like: Hmmm, this is tricky I like anything that doesn't have tomatoes, onions, beef, lamb and mutton. Yeah, I know I'm full of s**t lol.
I'm a bit of a free thinker, anything that should bother me probably won't but I do tend to have witty and sharp comments.
Random: I come onto these kind of platforms to find people who think in somewhat the same wavelength that I do or maybe that challenges my mind. I only have few friends that do that in my life but that's because they tend to want to start their own farming communities, smoke weed and end capitalism LOL.
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Marix Lurker
Wuzzup peeps.
Laid back, conversationalist with a desire of visual stimulation. Heard great things about this space, so I want to check it out. Welcoming all good vibes.Franky, Tunda, acessential and 3 others dapped this. -
I'm Marco.
I'm a professor and author and drinker of booze. I live in Boston, but am likely moving to HomosexualMecca, ATL. I'm already looking for cars I can't afford and trying to become bitchier. j/k.
No, but I enjoy long walks to Target, Super-ratchet Youtube videos, philosophy/science/tech, indie music, and self-improvement. I've also been a long-time lurker on this site and a long-time listener to the Podcast.
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OckyDub I gave the Loc'ness monstah about $3.50Site Founder The 10000 Daps Club
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Hello from the burbs of baltimore, I heard about your site and I listen to the podcast so I decided to sign up.
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BLK_Sprewce ~王~ Traversing ∞
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Happy New Year, Everyone!
My name is Drew,
I'm 24.5, livin in Milwaukee, Wisconsin
and I'm gettin my sh!t together.
I have a burning passion for food, plants, & reading/studying the occult & spirituality (as a whole).
Currently aspiring to relocate & thrive in a climate where I can grow outdoors & share with ppl year-roundNikR, ColumbusGuy, ControlledXaos and 3 others dapped this. -
Luke Evergreen Squad Member
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Hi everyone, I'm a new member from Trinidad and Tobago in the West Indies, I listen to the podcast but came across and article on the site in google after a search on why I'm "gay and lonely" so I decided to sign up and join the community.
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Been a reader of the site for a few years and decided to join the site.
I am a bi-sexual male in my late-twenties who just moved to the Atlanta, GA area. Somewhat of an introvert.
My interests are music, anything technology related and reality TV. I especially love watching the recaps and reviews online.
Still trying to figure myself out and what I want from life, so this site has really been an eye opener on helping me on my way.Thami Ndaba, Nick Delmacy, cypher21 and 3 others dapped this. -
Desh92 Squad Member
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I'm 23, from Chicago.
Great interest in health, been a veggie for 6-7 years, love food and cooking.
Right now I am working at lawyers office as an assistant admin.
Majored in International Relations & Spanish, in the near future I want to start a totally different grad degree program. Yes I am scattered a lot of the time lol.Thami Ndaba, cypher21, ctforbes and 3 others dapped this. -
I think I realized I was a lurker when I received an email telling me not to be a lurker LMAO. Rest assured my lurking days are over.
-Byron Paisley
-24
-Grad Student- MBA, Focus in Marketing
-Interests: Traveling, reading, technology, sci-fi, movies, photography
Cheers Gents
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Lurker deep in the shadows of Jamaica. wadup
lover of all things chill.. chillstep, idie ect. quiet observer and lover of all things design. currently studying architecture with a hint of photography on the side
Proud Jamaican and game head.. and a firm believer in going with the flow. Repping that island love.
image of the lurker below
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Hey Everyone,
Age: 29
Location: DMV
Interests: Politics, fantasy, sci-fi, business, movies, books, travel, food, music, philosophy, religion, comic books, art
Height: 6'
Concentration in school: Working on my MBA in International Business
Occupation: Membership & Operations Coordinator for a trade association, entrepreneur
Other: I just enjoy being around authentic people who want to learn and grow from each other and life's experiences. I live life by the golden rule of "do unto others as you would have them do unto you," which has worked out pretty well for me. I'm looking forward to getting to know each of you.KritiKal Analysis, ctforbes, Nigerian Prince and 3 others dapped this. -
tigerbreaux Polymath In-trainingThe 100 Daps Club
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Hey whatup,
I'm 27, recently moved to Atlanta, but I'm from New Orleans. I work for the federal government, I'm a Virgo, love music, food (love to cook), and all things pop culture. Watch way too many movies and TV shows. Went to LSU for undergrad, and I just finished my masters last week!Juan-Carlos, Infinite_loop, NickAuzenneNOLA and 3 others dapped this. -
My name is Andre
I like Music,Laughing,Cartoons,Astronomy, melted snow cones ,and Martial Arts
and sometimes I do hoodrat stuff with @SB3 as I am his cheese supplier
glad to make your aquaintance
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BlackguyExecutive Je suis diplomateSquad Leader Best Site Comments The 1000 Daps Club Supporter
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@African King if you ever in the Tampa Bay area be sure to hit me up!! I remember what it was like to be a Graduate Student trying to make it. You can most definitely have a few single malt scotches on me!!
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KritiKal Analysis "Be the Standard, Not the Substitute..." DMCuretonSquad Leader The 100 Daps Club
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- Dating:
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Age: 37
Location: Triad Area, NC
Occupation: University Professor/Administrator
Interests: Sleeping, Traveling, Reading, TV, Music, Fashion, Technology, Animation
Height: 6'3
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