Are Hetero Men THAT Desperate? (Warning NSFW stuff inside)

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  1. Jai

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    So I'm sitting at work, working (obviously not since I'm doing this random topic on my phone) But I know this is a mostly gay/bi environment but something I've been noticing is a lot more exposed or "bait post" of straight men. I.E.bI have questions and whatnot.

    I've heard that straight men will do anything for a chance to get a woman to show her vagina to them. The men depicted in this tiny collection of media I uploaded below are heterosexual (the for the females only, no g-y shyt type).

    So do you think that straight men are so horny that they do things like this?
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    I've heard (or read) that straight men have been baited by people behind profiles posing as women (I have no idea if any of them are actually real women using profiles but I bet it's probably just a gay man or something).

    After looking into this more, I've seen claims that straight dudes have showed their ass (no big deal), twerked, spread their checks apart, put objects, like toothbrushes or a plunger up their anus, fingered themselves and what not. I guess it's okay, or whatever. I mean I've just coupled that fact that Str8 dudes are more into ass play these days? Since it's not taboo (or taboo-boo)

    This man identifies as strictly straight but rides a dildo better than any bottom I've ever seen. He States than when no p**sy is around he likes to stimulate his prostate(I like that phrase)....No biggie.

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    But aside from this. I've heard of straight dudes kissing each other, grabbing each other peens, sucking each other. From asking a few women (rather cleverly). I asked them does the sight of a mans anus turn them on, or playing with a man's ass. None of them seemed to be into it or even watching men jacking off. It could be that they do it to satisfy their men but can you blame them for not wanting to? After reading that Straight dudes don't know how to wipe their ass thread..

    I'm aware that some women might like it; but if a heterosexual woman asked a straight man to grab, kiss, or lick his homebois peen/buns to get some va jay jay, would they do it so readily?

    Granted, I've never slept with a woman. I hear puss is a powerful thing. That straight men will do anything to get a glimpse of it, but are straight dudes THAT desperate?

    Also, as far as baiting. Why would a woman bait a man and then sell his nudes or bootyhole pics online? Is she making a profit off of gay men and women hole lovers?

    Are any if you against lables? If so why are you? What do you identify as. (You can't say human. Even that can be broken down into sub categories.)

    Also, I hear sexuality is fluid.No wonder everyone is so thirsty...anywho, if you were trapped on island (gay guys) with a woman, do you think you'd have sex with her over time when you became really horny?

    If a woman wanted to give you oral pleasure, would you be turned on to it? Or like some straight men say, A mouth is a mouth? But do gay men seek out women, if a mouth is just a mouth and they want head or are straight men just horny?

    Total Gay Tops: if you had to choose between pentrating a woman or changing to a full bottom, which would you do? Neither turns you on but at least with a woman you still get to fufill that "role"

    Bisexuals: If you had a woman and a man that liked you equally, which would you gravitate towards and why?

    Gay Guys: Would you consider dating a transman? Would that make you bisexual?

    Bisexuals: Do you consider transgender women, actual women, or see them as men posing as women?

    If you see them as men, does that make straight guys that like them actually bisexual or are they just attracted to the sight of a woman even if it actually isn't a woman?

    Would you date one that identifies as a straight woman?

    Do you think lables are stupid?

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    Being horny will make men do stupid shit regardless of their sexual orientation. However I don't think the dudes baited in these pix/GIFs are straight. At the very least they're undercover bisexuals. I don't see a straight man sticking anything in his ass. Gay dudes be doing the most, like claiming they fucked a "straight" dude. Straight men are not sexually attracted to other men and they certainly don't have sex with other men. That is the antithesis of what it is to be straight. These f***s need to quit. They bagged a garden variety DL dude. These gays that are online pretending to be women baiting supposedly straight men are the online equivalent of gays who chase after "trade."
     
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    That's what I was thinking but this Tumblr profile started going off saying things like plenty of women like men's assholes and blah blah...but I was like is this a female account or what but some said that it was a man using a female pics... Makes me look all wide eyed.
     
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    Your GIF is EVERYTHING! LOL!

    In the world of gay porn, it is safe to say that it is a business. However, since the first days of the Internet, the amount of money someone is being paid to do porn (in general) is sooo low to non-existent. With that, the Gay for Pay bs gets all kinds of side eyes. And for any man that is actually straight that has, is, or will do gay porn, they are assholes to walk away from a set going into their personal life acting as if nothing happened. Straight men aren't lining up like people trying to get into a homeless shelter or the line at the club to do gay porn, not even to just get their dick sucked. The porn side of the adult entertainment industry ain't throwing dollars out like that at all. People who are managing the many different porn websites are helping us enjoy free porn at our disposal.

    The physical act of sex can't affirm someone's sexual orientation. You can fuck anything or anyone, regardless of gender (even a Transgender person, pre-op or post-op), but the act itself is an activity. Your sexual orientation is affirmed by your sexual attraction to either or both genders. When it comes to bisexuality, that's where sexual fluidity comes into play, because even on the Kinsey Scale, bisexuality is a libra scale for some people.

    Bottom line is, don't invest in determining who is gay, straight or bisexual when watching porn. Just take out your lotion and get your life.
     
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    I know I fall somewhere on the Kinsey since I identify as Gray-Ace. I was curious to see the viewpoints of several Cypher folks. I always find time to notice Attractive men for their sexiness, I just don't have sex with them.

    I try to say I'm more Demi than full blown sexual. I have to be attracted to a guy physically and form a bond before considering sex. I find it hard (no pun) even trying to hook up with a guy. I try to enjoy porn but most of it doesn't appeal to me. I often find gay black porn repetitive and boring. Of the three-four times I've had sex, I felt it (especially the first time obviously) but it was very empty afterwards for me.

    I know gays are often ridiculed for being sex demons..lol
     
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    I generally agree, except when it comes to prison or other situations when there are no women. Also remember the quote about the British Naval Tradition( “rum, sodomy, and the lash”)? lol.

    I also think that if mind altering substances are around and a straight guy is horny enough, he might let a guy suck him off. I don't think straight guys are sucking dick though-if they do that they are not 'straight' but are somewhere on 'the spectrum'.
     
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    What about a gay guy and a woman?
     
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    Well there is bisexuality. Anyone can have sex with just about anyone-sex can just be sex and not about real attraction or what people really want. I would say that a gay guy who has sex with a woman and is really into it, enjoys it, and is attracted physically and sexually (and is able to be attracted romantically as well) is probably not a 'gay guy' after all-maybe bisexual?. Lots of gay guys have had a sexual encounter with a woman (myself included-I was young and closeted and horny) and I am gay. as. fuck.
     
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    I haven't had sex with a woman, can find women & tits nice but vaginas don't turn me on in the slightest (I wouldnt even get hard). Strictly dickly. I strongly feel (& this is just me) I will not have sex with a guy just to have sex. The only way I'll have sex with a guy (if I ever decide to again ) is if I am attracted to him both physically and personality wise.

    Now, I did slip up and let curiosity about trying sex get me. The guy I first met was cute but that's about it...major douchebag afterwards.

    Even though I often talk like Sir Thotness on here, I find the idea of having sex with a guy or girl just for the heck of it not my cup of hot chocolate. I guess I just put to much emphasis on bonding and sex, since I feel like in order to "connect" physically you have to the other way as well.

    Hm, I guess I feel like one person is treating the other like an "object" for their own gratification, but I guess if both folks want the same thing, that makes sense, too.
     
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    Niggas are stupid. I'm not putting shit up my ass just cus you cute. I'm not about to twerk my ass just cus you cute. Cute motherfckers are a dime a dozen and I'd rather save my money.
     
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    this.

    Ummmm probably not. No, it wouldn't, partially cuz he would identify as a dude.

    Frigging loaded question. No they aren't stupid but I think we overly rely on them to form opinions about people.

    For example, I met an attractive pharmacist, a dark-skinned dude in his mid 30s, on Jack'd at a professional conference. Dude wanted to get fucked. His profile pic was "I'm not gay, but..." with saggy pants. I could never forget it. We had fun. We kinda stayed in contact for a while, then he said a bunch of dumb shit and I was over it. The last person he dated was a woman, though he was sure he'd somehow end up with a guy (not sure how). He lives in the midwest and is extremely closeted- not out to friends, family, no one. He's both the rock of his family their Captain Save-a-hoe. It was...sad. But after talking to him for a few days/weeks, I realized that I didn't have a label for him. He probably was bi but I wouldn't call him gay or bi...just confused, lonely and stuck. He was not someone I was gonna waste time and effort on.

    So regarding labels, my best label is 'gay'. My parents told me not to call myself that because of the negative connotation. I will continue to call myself 'gay' since that most neatly encapsulates my sexuality. But more than that, it gives a future me hope that I didn't have while I was growing up. Allowing myself to be partially defined as 'gay' works to normalize the term. I'm not advertising. I'm not flamboyant. But in 15 years, I want a future me to google my name, marvel that Dr. Nikolai Rimsky-Korsakov, the charismatic polyglot and youngest president and CEO of Johns Hopkins University Hospital, happens to be gay and exclaim, "yeah, I'll be ok."
     
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    There are exceptions to every rule. Prison is a whole different ball of wax. Like I say often straight men go absolutely insane in environments where there are no women around. Those guys who do engage in homosexual behavior in prison it is about power and dominance not eroticism, attraction, attraction, or love. Even then I say those so-called straight men aren’t really straight they’re bisexuals pretending to be straight, like bisexual men are often very skilled at doing. Because if you are really a straight man the sight of a man’s hairy ass with his nuts hanging between his legs won’t make your dick hard.
     
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    But that is generally why they don't go for masculine looking men in prison, and why they will try to get the men wearing lipstick and looking and acting more like women-if they do choose a guy, they are going to choose the one closest to what they deem 'womanly'. They may do it in the dark so they don't have to see the nuts and may have the guy hold/dover them up. They are fucking, not making love here. This is for sexual encounters and not the 'raping an alpha to establish dominance' or anything though. JMHO.

    Just like one third of adolescent boys(at least one third) engage in sexual play with other male adolescents. One third of men are not gay now, are they? Some straight guys will not engage in any same sex situation, some straights will engage in some purely sexual act in an extreme(like prison) or mind-altered situation. It just depends on the straight, but they can all still be straight IMO in these situations.

    Now they start falling in love and having romantic feelings in prison, or are doing these things when not drunk out of their mind and when women are available, then the alarm bells start ringing.
     
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    That dude riding the dildo is always so into it though. I mean I can see a man liking the stimulation of the prostate but still not wanting to be plowed by another man. Look it like how efficient one can be with bringing yourself to orgasm via masturbation versus when someone else jacks you off. And those prostate stim vids have those dudes losing all control and vibrating and shaking and the huge amounts of semen generated by that lead me to think that for the open minded straight man they are OK with ass play. That's why they like to get pegged by women.

    I think for gay men sex is so easy to get that one man showing his ass or dick isn't enough to get me to do anything. Maybe men who are too closeted and don't have sex as often as they like it's a big deal? IDK.

    Less than half of the men who I have had sex with can perform felatio on the level where I lose all control. So a chick sucking me isn't a turn on but if I were in a situation where no men were around and I wanted physical interaction I'd just have to make it do what it do. If I were the last man on earth I'd definitely get with the last woman so the human race could continue.
     
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    I am just too gay for that shit now lol. I would make sure I had the last turkey baster on Earth with me and would handing that over to her when I was 'done' with my part for the human race.
     
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    Yes they are.

    Why? Don't know, well I have ideas, but I still don't know.

    It could be the fact they just feel the woman is that deserving for the guy to act like that.

    Like, "for your eyes only" type of shit.

    Little do they know, most of the time, that's a man pretending to be a woman to trick straight guys into sending them videos/pictures of them.

    Which is the main idea I'm trying to make.
     
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