I don't think Ashtin D'Motta is on the team but regardless, Very Few Black Gay Nerds Like This Exist In Atlanta.... I'm a sucker for a decent looking Black guy that's REALLY into nerd culture.
You gotta come out more. I've met some out in the A. They're not for me but I'm sure they are looking for you lol
Nah, I think the difference is that the ones you've met are ALSO into fem gay brunch-having diva culture, which then kills it for me...
And that's where you are wrong. You are generalizing a whole bunch of people. I have met quite a few gay men out here who want nothing to do about celebrities or going to brunch all the time.
Okay...So youre telling me that if i went to their facebook page right now i wouldnt see any posts about a reality show or a female r&b singer or see pics of them at gay events with men wearing clothes 2 sizes too small?
Yup. They actually exist. They come out to different events and stuff and have a good time just like everyone else. Every gay man is not into diva culture, reality tv or whatever. As you know, I am not an expert on the whole "gay lifestyle" as everyone calls it BUT what I do know is that I have been shocked when I come across more gay men out here who do not fit the stereotype like you and I. I used to be much more anti-social growing up but putting myself out there more has helped me see that there is a HUGE variety of people, not just gay people, out there. The best thing I have learned is to just put myself out there more and sift through what I feel is a good fit for me in platonic relationships and beyond that.
Yeah, re-read the original post...I never said that they don't exist...I said that there are very few of them out there. And I would need to verify that we're talking about the same type of person. A black gay nerd who doesn't participate in fem gay culture may mean one thing to me and a different thing to you. Nick Delmacy's Version of a Black Gay Comic Book Nerd: African King's Version of a Black Gay Comic Book Nerd:
Ok yeah my bad for the word choice. Yeah we are talking about the same person. Maybe the bottom pic is all you have seen. I don't really mess with dudes who do all that in the bottom pic lol.
I've dated lots of gay nerds who are only into masculine. I've never met a gay nerd who would take feminine guys serious. They also like to stay lowkey and are the freakiest human beings in the world. lol I miss my ex
I feel you on that...but the problem is that about 99.8% of them you run into happened to be straight-up weeaboos. And I can't get down with that.
you know, that non-Japanese person that immerses themselves in Japanese culture with the slightest clue or care of appropriation: the ones that call Japan "Nippon" or say "Ittekimasu" when they're leaving.