Dating White in 2018

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    No OFFENSE! But their are way better looking men of non-color than that. lol!

     
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    I was going for interest and personality not looks.

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    Ima just stop sharing on here and become a lurker.
     
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    Lol. We can both have our secret mayo crushes with no shame. If I had a time machine, there’s no shame in my Keith Haring game. I hear he liked you NY bruhs...
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    You will never know just how right you are. There are so many blacks you have went with the statement that some have made on here about love is love only to find out the white person they are with, are racist. Yes, whites can be racist even if they have black friend or a black spouse and many blacks find that out the hard way. Just go to youtube and type racist whites married to blacks. I think blacks can date almost any race except whites. Many of us blacks refuse to believe that 95% of whites are racist in some way or fashion and some of them are not even aware of it. It's hard to be friends with whites let a known date them. Trust me, when you get older and experience more of the world, your view will change on dating white people. And this is coming from a mixed black. Like you said "The power imbalance that favors whites in this country and worldwide gives them the upper hand in the relationships" and if you don't know it now, you will find out when you date them. The entitlement will slowly comes out when you date them. It will be subtle at first and progress. Trust me, it will happen. There are many blacks you are dating or have dated racist white but they will never tell you out of embarrassment. They will always make it be like paradise when it will be far from that. I have been my spouse for 13yrs and there is nothing like dating someone who know how you feel and experience many of the things you have experience. There is truly nothing like black love.
     
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    Just wondering, what are the super white things that white people do? I want to know if I do any of them, lol.
     
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    Like hiking and shit lmao - my white and white-adjacent colleagues love a good camp and a hike. Or like putting raisins in their potato salad or putting avocados on every fucking thing. Or even smelling like wet dogs. the list is endless if you let go on
     
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    :tears:haaa negro u fool for that wet dog comment. u been on a roll recently.:weak:
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    lmao - I've been in a really good mood within the last couple days so I had a lil time.
     
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    Like trusting the police are always there to serve and protect and being quick to call the police whenever there's a minor issue. Or thinking gentrification isn't ss bad as everyone thinks and it really brightens up the neighborhood without thinking about how gentrification doesn't solve any problems for the people who originally lived there. Or taking you to a white barber for a haircut and expecting it to just "all be the same." Or just being ignorant of their white privilege in general. Of course, the first two examples I gave aren't necessarily going to apply to everyone And some black folks might fall into that trap too. But I'm just talking about general white ignorance.
     
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    yeah, I can see some of these things. Gentrification is a big problem around here with insane rents and entire buildings empty because they being bought as investments or for Airbnb and not to live in and pushing out the locals driving up rent prices. And the whole NIMBY thing.

    There are not many barbershops where I live. But a white barbershop just opened up down the street from me. I thought about going to it, lol. White privilege does exist, but there are some poor whites also. How much of privilege is based on race, and how much is based on economic class? (this site at times can be very educational, learn a lot on here.)
     
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    I never been camping. I did go kayaking once. I never heard of raisins in potato salad. The avocados are for the hipsters. I don't know about wet dogs.

    What else is on your list? lol
     
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    @Apollo I don't want to hijack the original topic and it might be difficult to have an in-depth conversation in response to your question in a forum like this so here's an article that may shed some light on the question of privilege vs. race: Extensive Data Shows Punishing Reach of Racism for Black Boys.
     
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    Haha I was being a little tongue-in-cheek but @acessential brought up the things that could definitely come up in an interracial relationship
     
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    Never...going past studio city told me everything I needed to know about white people and dating or fucking them.
     
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