Heres-what-its-like-to-be-a-straight-man-who-has-sex-with-other-men

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  1. Dante

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    I that a little podcast there? I'll check that out.
     
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    Ok, so I listened to this podcast, and while I'm not into labeling people incorrectly or based on societal norms, those dudes were reaching LOL. While I don't think they are all inherently gay, I definitely don't think they're straight either. I kind of agree that sexual identity should lean more toward who you love and want to be with & share your life with, rather than who you find attractive and have sex with, to totally dismiss that is foolish lol.

    This seems a lot like internal homophobia and societal fear. I wonder if a lot of them would identify differently if the issue wasn't so stigmatized.
     
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    I agree with you sir...(FINALLY...LOL!)

    I only had time to listen to 17 mins, but I think I've heard enough. As I go through Jack'd and Craigslist periodically (as a single gay man), it's true that these "Straight Men with Gayricular Activities" men are becoming very, very common.

    You can have sexual relations with anyone and not be sexually and physically attracted to that person. For instance, there are a lot of gay men on the low having sexual relations with women for many personal reasons, including internal homophobia (as mentioned). These men that were interviewed pretty much came off sounding like, "I like to smoke crack sometimes...but I'm not addicted to crack, so don't call me a crack addict". I've even heard the same thing from men who do gay/bi porn (i.e. Gay for Pay) having been interviewed online getting offended when asked whether they are gay, straight or bi and be like "....Why I have to be gay?....I have sex with dudes for money....Leave me alone...". These guys wouldn't even attest to being honest about being 1, 2, 4 or 5 on the Kinsey Scales (i.e. bisexual by percentage), so it's like ???.

    A man saying that's he's straight, but having had a sexual experience one or two times is one thing , but that's not the case for the men who were interviewed. For me, it's a sub-level of the DL man indeed. And it's the type of man I would definitely avoid.
     
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    I must be living under a rock. Where are you guys finding these shows? It might be because I don't have cable.
     
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    I was about to post another thread when I saw this so I'll just drop this link here....


    http://gawker.com/here-are-the-meds..._source=gawker_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow


    I can see a gay man in a relationship with a woman for appearances but to be a straight man electively having sex with men for income? Knowing the baggage that comes along with being gay just doesn't come off 100% straight to me. There's some fluidity there for sure but that's a reach IMO.
     
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    For a long time, I couldn't understand the Gay for Pay thing, even though I don't care anymore. I know that the "physical act" of having sex and sexual orientation are two different things. You can have sexual relations with the gender you are not sexually attracted to. But as a gay man, but a man first and foremost, since the age of 19, I'm brick city all day just because the sun shines or the rain pours...lol Just the thought or vision of sex, straight or gay sex, I'm on fire!!!! I don't get these "straight, but actually are bisexual (even if they are 1, 2, 4 and 5 on the Kinsey Scale)" and straight dudes going through the motions of medication and drugs just to do gay porn like they are going through some type of hell or that's how they make it seem when being interviewed like the guy in your article. And I also hate their homophobic commentations when asked about doing gay porn to shame gay men and bisexual men and the whole idea of same-sex sexual relations. Like you just had your butt pounded into pieces and/or a sausage shoved down your esophagus and you have the nerve to say anything? #GTFOH...LOL!

    For me, if you are going to do porn either has a side hustle, a one-time thing, or as a career, you need to love doing it, particularly with the gender or genders you are attracted to. The whole gay porn pays more than straight porn/Gay for Pay thing is an excuse and is soo old. And if you are straight and happen to do gay porn "Take It Like a Man" and stop complaining.

    FYI: I still think you still should do a thread on this article in some way.
     
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