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  1. Cyrus-Brooks

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    I can understand where you're coming from. When I was younger I didn't understand or get the whole transgender thing. How I've come to understand transgender people are just people who feel their brain doesn't match their body. That has to be a really fucked up feeling. So as I've gotten older I try to be empathetic. It doesn't bother me that there are some trans men who can pull off a very handsome and masculine look. Hat's off to them. Nevertheless on a visceral level I just don't find a vagina attractive so I can't ever see myself being with a trans man. Oddly enough I have watched porn with trans women and trans men. I think it's more curiosity than anything.
     
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    I kind of understand where your coming from but I would probably sleep with a transman but never a transwoman. I'm not attracted to vagina specifically but I've seen some vids/pics of transmen that turned me on. The trans situation is interesting and is very complex. I feel like some want to be just considered a regular woman but is that fair to biological women and the men who want them? idk. In sports wouldn't a biological male naturally have an advantage ? I assume so. With that recent Ginuwine incident, I didn't like her trying to force him and then label him transphobic. If a straight person turns them down because they are trans, no matter how unclockable and beautiful they are, that's not transphobic to me. Also I don't get those videos when they talk more fem like then switch to their "man voice" to emphasize don't mess with me I'm still a man. Doesn't that just goes against what they are fighting for? So many questions, I just hope they stop getting murdered and putting themselves in those positions to get murdered.
     
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    I don't mind trans-individuals and I'm quite comfortable but it does become really odd for me to see what I thought was man, turn out to have woman parts down below. I just feel like if you're going to go for it then go for gold and be the opposite sex.

    I think the thing that forces me to be comfortable is the idea that I'm not only black but I'm gay - both were once absolute abominations and still to this day are unacceptable in some circumstances. How can I wield judgement on someone else living their truth?

    The issue then becomes extending truths to folks like pedophiles...but that's a completely different conversation.


    Edit: this post reminded me of a thread I created a lil while back - go look at your posts @Jai lmao Have your views changed at all since then?
    Pregnant Trans-men?
     
    #3 takeyourmeds91, Jan 31, 2018
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