Learning the Hard Way.

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  1. Jai

    Jai I sexual person that doesn't have sex...Slap me...
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    Have you ever experienced any penis malfunctions before? I mean... erectile dysfunction, or are you currently suffering from any of it? Ok. Touchy subject, I'm sure no one wants to admit their dick gets bored easily, but still...

    A long while back, when like Jesus was at the table with his boys talking about betrayal & stuff, I made a post about porn & it ppssibly subconsciously affecting the brain or something of that effect. Basically, you're going to have to watch porn to maintain an erection for a while. So is chronic masturbation via porn a dick desensitizer?

    I'd been reading that some of E.D. is caused by mental focus but things like diabetes, stress & such can cause it too.

    I think it's really important to find someone that really turns you on & that you're really into mentally & physically.

    Aside from that, have you had any slip ups when it was time for you to slide in?

    What was your excuse as to not being able to provide a flagpole to salute to?

    Men are so attached to their dicks...well, yeah, I mean they are literally, but if it goes down so does you.

    I have a dick chart (which I won't post since this is outside the locker room) but it is a size chart of different (actual) peens (which will come in handy for descriptions when I start on my erotic (sex) stories.

    I also posted a while back about kegel exercises, which do (most likely) turn you into a shooter. I've heard that it strengthens your dick but, I dunno for sure.

    My boyfriend: I don't think I can stay hard for very long..

    Me: Do them kegels...NOW.
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  2. Rico

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    This fits into a larger narrative of men (gay or straight) being honest and not wimping out when discussing your health situation with your doctor. ED could be occasional and psychologically based, or could be a symptom of a larger problem (cardiovascular, diabetes, etc. manifesting in penile problems). Ignoring problems does not make them go away. You’re more in line to solve a problem by facing straight up, rather than being silly and thinking it will just disappear because of your wishful ignorance.

    Another component is finding a doctor or health care practitioner that makes you comfortable. People forget that, ultimately a doctor or therapist relationship is still a business relationship. If you are not comfortable or feel you can be honest with your doctor, you are free to find another one that is a better fit. Doctors are human beings and bring emotions, prejudices, and beliefs to the doctor-patient relationship. Find one that will clinically discuss your life as a gay/bi man from a clinical rather than judgemental perspective (e.g. is she/he up on lgbt related health issues like prep, stds, increased risks for certain conditions or cancers). Quality of care given is as important as access to care.

    TLDR: Don’t dick around with a doc that don’t know dick about dick.
     
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    I had an ex who masturbated way too much. He admittedly had a porn addiction.
    He couldn't stay up. It was very frustrating and often made me wonder if he was cheating.
    I learned that the more you masturbate, the harder it will be to stay up. So, take it easy on that guys lol.
    If your case is different, see a doctor about options.
     
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