NICK'S ADVENTURES IN LOS ANGELES - #4

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    I dropped the ball on updating this series, so much has happened since I've been out here (been to gay clubs, dates, celeb mansion parties, flop house issues, etc).

    Also, I should be careful about posting this stuff since you never know who's visiting the site and who knows who (I'll touch on this later) but here we go:

    So I go out solo to a sports bar for drinks and food...I see a handsome young afroed light-skinned black dude sitting solo as well.

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    I sit nearby, mainly because it was the most free area, seat-wise, in the spot. I'm close to him, but not close enough to be awkward.

    I order a drink and notice that his friend, a slightly older guy, has now joined him...they both move to a different table on the young dude's request.

    This is odd but could have been for any number of reasons. In hindsight, I think it was to give them more conversation privacy.

    They end up sitting in front of me. So now whenever I look forward I see them.

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    This is when my mind starts overthinking. Besides continually thinking how fine this mofo is I begin to wonder if these guys are actually on a date.

    The younger guy (dude in the white shirt) seemed mad comfortable. The dude in the darker shirt seemed more nervous, and he probably should have been. The guy in the white shirt was, tall, tatted, lean muscular and fine as fuck (as far as I could tell).


    Body language says a lot. I've been on and have observed plenty of "first dates" and "app meetups" to tell when two dudes are in that situation. This was clearly one of those moments. What was surprising was that both men seemed masculine for the most part...for the most part.

    The older dude in the darker shirt seemed to be more conscious about impressing the younger dude. Then I noticed that he was also a bit....soft. No I wouldn't call him feminine...more like feminine-ish.

    It was almost as if he was a feminine guy attempting to "butch it up" when meeting this masculine young guy on a first date/meeting at a sports bar. The nikka even wore a sports related shirt, as if it was the only thing he could think of to wear to "blend in."

    But even with a half decade of professional gay blogging under my belt, I still assume that most masculine-leaning guys are straight when I see them out in public, despite the many clues to the contrary.

    But then I notice that the young dude brought what I would consider a purse:

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    True, its just a backpack. But it looks like a designer backpack...like an accessory a woman would wear. I know, this thinking is very patriarchal and heteronormative, blah, blah, blah...But the nikka had a purse. A man purse. A young millennial's murse.

    Bookmark that, we'll come back to it...

    So then I snap the photo because I was like, "I gotta write a post about this on the site."

    These dudes are clearly gay and attractive. On a date. Good for-fucking-them...


    Real talk, I'm at the point where I'm considering hiring escorts...and these dudes are out there getting it in. A young Top found a slightly fem Bottom.

    How do I know who was Top and Bottom? Its circumstantial but the Bottom seemed more nervous...he also didn't eat all of his food, he kinda just nibbled at it...The Top was more comfortable, more masculine, and the nikka Ubered to the sportsbar and brought a backpack (aka millennial murse) full of clothes/toiletries for the sleepover at the Bottom's place.

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    Need more proof? After they were done eating, a group of CLEARLY young gay men came into the sportsbar and posted up near our tables. The young masculine Top instantly recognized one of them, a young fem twink in a baggy sweatshirt.

    The Twink came over to their table and dapped the young masculine Top up...they both talked for a long time. The young Top introduced the Twink to his date but that was the extent of his input in the conversation. The Bottom sat there awkwardly, trying not to feel like a third wheel.

    Eventually the Twink said his goodbyes and the couple left the sports bar. Through the glass windows I could see them walk off in the same direction, even though they had arrived separately.

    I finished my beer, alone, and continued reading fan theories on the latest episode of Game of Thrones on my phone.

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    Yeah...They definitely had a better time than me tonight.

    But its not like I've been sitting on my hands out here. I went out on a couple LA dates. None that I would devote an entire post to though.

    The last guy I went out with I met on Tinder. An intelligent, handsome, young (30s), VERY dark skinned, slim dude with a dope personality...aka Just My Type.


    But the date itself was kinda dry...we talked...a lot...and there was not really a lot of chemistry or spark there. Plus he was kinda boring.


    By "boring" I mean that he was one of those super professional, well spoken, cultured dudes like Kyle Barker on "Living Single."

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    And through conversation I could tell that he was one of those, "I'm very picky" type dudes. Which meant I was likely already in the friend-zone as soon as he saw me. Despite him saying I was really attractive and didn't look my age, there was no verbal or non-verbal cues to give me the impression that he was interested in me sexually or romantically.

    And he was kinda boring...so I had pretty much done the same.

    Near the end of the night, we were talking about gay shit (or something, I dunno) and he asked if I had heard of a gay site he liked called, "Cypher Avenue."

    I said, "Yeah." And left it at that. I had already checked out of the date, definitely wasn't gonna open up that new-conversation-starter and reveal that the "Nick" he was out with was the same guy who started that site (Believe it or not, most guys who actually DO know about this site don't visit enough to know the names of the guys who created it).

    The one good thing that came out of that exchange was hearing the words "Cypher Avenue" said out of a stranger's mouth without me bringing the site up first.

    I say all that to say: Dating for me is not going as well as the Young Top and the Third Wheeled Bottom.

    Oh well, back to considering escorts like this dude:

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    WAIT!!! How did the adventures jump from #2 to #4? Where's #3?
     
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    I genuinely hate AND love this post. Hey, at least ur showing up. Continuing to show up is the hardest part. My coworker asked about my last date, and i honestly couldn't, and still can't, remember the last one.
     
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    Bro Im pretty sure he knew it was you from Cypher Avenue right? I mean thats a random ass coincidence to ask you if you ever heard of cypher ave, don't you think? He is probably a lurker or reader of all the post and knows that your in LA.
     
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    I didnt even think of it, but that's a good point.
     
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    Why is that boy's hat on the side of his head?
     
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    Its possible but in the flow of the actual conversation it made sense...I left out a lot of the details.
     
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    I think I confused myself because I remember writing a third update but I couldn't remember if I had posted it or not, lol.

    I just found the unedited text draft (with grammar and spelling issues) in my Dropbox...I'll re-write it and post it this week:

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