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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    I'll go first with a question, do many of these guys really want to be Jack'D Famous? Or are these just attention seeking catfish?
     
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    Do you think its important to show your face and shirtless torso in your profile? Why or why not?
     
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    I wont front. I had a shirtless pic on my jakd pro, cus I was trying to cut the bs layers. As open as I am, esp now, to a guy who might not be a thirst trap, I got tired of having to politely let guys know every 5 mins that I just wasn't interested.
     
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    How ironic you make this thread. I just made an account earlier this week and my initial reaction to the app overall is a lot of these dudes are full of shit, catfishing, and/or wanna play games. For example...

    Why is it the holier than thou types that writing these long ass dissertation about how "they're not interested in hook-ups" that turn right around and be the first one's sending pics? :mindblown: That shit annoys the fuck out of me!!! Like, stop frontin' you're on here to bust a nut like the rest of us. Get over yourself!



    I won't go over all the details of my first sexual encounter, but apparently, I'm very good at eating booty. Might just have to try this verse thing out after all...LMAO
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    Btw, to state the obvs, it def didn't work the way I thought it would. I still had 112 lb manboys inboxing me. I lasted for all of a week max before deleting my acct.
     
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    What i found even more perplexing, was how EVERY dude w a nice body claims to be a top on there. And the essays. I just couldn't deal.
     
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    I often get how fem are you question.
     
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    Or they will assume I have private pics and allow me to see theirs and immediately hit me saying, open your privates.
     
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    Had it on my phone for all of one day before I realized it wasn't the place for me and deleted it. Ain't been back.
     
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    Well I tried it in college and saw my roommate's profile... deleted immediately...
    Reinstalled years later and occasionally there are some cool dudes there.
     
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    I've been amazed by just how much negativity there is on this app....I see a bunch of angry emoji filled profiles on Jack'd...

    Like, I understand that everyone had their preference, but reading these dude's profiles you would think they are being virtually grouped in the pussy just be merely being messaged.

    If you have a thirst trappy profile, why are you mad on your profile that ppl are hitting you up? Just ignore them or block them.

    When I'm on there, I read these angry profiles, and move on because I don't wanna bother talking to someone so negative, even if we might be compatible.
     
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    Same. That's the issue tho. Why would I play my hand if you throwin up brick walls off jump? Then dudes wonder why they can't find quality. I'll never understand this crazy shit, bruh. Dudes are worse than females, in my experience.
     
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    I liked Jack'd. I delete it during the work week then i reinstall on the weekends.
     
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    ? Why are u doing that, weekly?
     
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    I hope ur speaking in past tense. Unless ur literally looking for 'right now', (hey, we're all grown...I guess) the lines for communication aren't there. Unfortunately, everyone has alrdy decided that no one on there is worth messaging tomorrow.
     
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    I literally loled at this.

    Why not just disable notifications during the work week?

    When I was on jackd , and I guess thinking about it I technically still am bc I did not delete my account , I saw many Xs looking for X+1s and wondered who really fit their limited lanes of acceptable suitors .

    I get wanting a specific type for hookups but one may want to cast a wider net when they are seriously looking for a relationship.

    Bothered by so many notifications? Remove your photo or put up a less Sexy one . When said notifications come in from someone you've decided isn't up to the standard , a simple "I'm not interested . " will suffice . Only after that if someone is being pushy or butt hurt about the rejection do you have to go all full throttle with the block hammer .

    Including the words "don't hit me up " regardless of reasoning in the profile is a turn off .
     
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    Is EVERYBODY A FUGGIN BOTTOM?! My God!

    No, seriously...I HAVE TIME for this today and I have 5 questions...

    1. Why on Earth in this year of our Lord 2016 are people still catfishing? Like WHY?
    2. Why is your screen name Lick'mlow&spread'mwide69, yet your entire profile is about how your don't do random hookups?
    3. WHY IS EVERYONE A FUKN ESCORT?!
    4. Who in the entire hell told dudes that just because you're not seen as the desired "type" in the community (old, fat, fem etc.) that you are expected to pay for for attention/sex? GTFOH!
    5. Why do the people with the WORST grammar and NO sense of punctuation have THE MOST to say?

    Please let me know, lol.

    At the end of the day, most of time I'm on Jack'd because I'm bored and curious, which I realized a HUGE percentage of others are too. I don't mind the app because I've met some interesting people. However, it always seems like more trouble than it's worth and can be quite discouraging, especially if you're the type that feels the need to be validated by others. I've actually written about this in a poem about how outside of the pics, nudes, profiles, preferences, shade, and views...we're all alike a LOT more than we're different. Unfortunately, the biggest downfall to using apps like this, if you don't look a certain way or fit a certain type, you're not even acknowledged! :mad:
     
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    **BONUS** HOW DAMN DARE you have this long ass list of requirements, but you ain't got an INTH of what you're requiring??

    Beat it. lol
     
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    It all stems from the instant gratification that gay men have come to expect as normal. No time for communication, just 'hurry up and come share ur dna w me...it has to be today...because..well...tomorrow i have to be able to start this process all over again w a different guy(s), and i don't have the patience to communicate w you w/o us having sex'.
     
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    THIS RIGHT HERE!!! I DON'T GET IT!!! *rubs temples*
     
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    That's why I'm looking for an ooooold man who just wants some company, and is willing to make me his beneficiary on his policy! If I can't get a mofo w some follow thru, I'll settle for a mofo w some dollars!
     
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    You know what...you got a point!! Now, I feel like a hypocrite to my own post! lol.
     
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    "If you have a thirst trappy profile, why are you mad on your profile that ppl are hitting you up? Just ignore them or block them."
    Because they assume only other IG Thirst Traps were gonna be the ones hittin' them up ad nauseum, then overtime get tight from having to instead, reject tons upon tons upon tons of "undesirables". Side effect of being a IG Thirst Trap on a hook up site, is most of them are so f#&kin stuck up they don't reach out to anyone else. Their egos force them to wait to be hit on, so they rarely hit each other up. In the meantime they got all the
    "Fats/Fems/Blacks/Asians/Golden Girls" hittin them up and they salty LOL
     
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    Probably because that "ish" is toxic for your phone. It slows it down and takes up storage space. I dont think you can clear the cache on it or some sh*t. When you delete and re-install periodically it does it.
     
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    # FACE - For me, I VERY rarely entertain faceless photos. Even if the body is on point. Im 38 years old and I'm not a parade marcher but I dont duck and hide in closets either. Too grown for that sh*t. If dudes want to participate in the app but remain "discrete" by hiding their face, to each is own. But thats automatically not my type. Its almost like and ego thing I take from them. Like everybody cares they on there or all of a sudden they the damn president and the fabric of the country would be torn apart if its discovered their gay. Most people could give a fvck about you being on there. Get over yourself. LOL.

    # SHIRTLESS - Anyone who claims body isn't important is either delusional or have body issues themselves and proclaim it as shallow for self protection of feelings of being not being wanted or desired. A fit, well proportioned body will always be celebrated more than not having said body. I think shirtless photos are cool if its down with some thought. Headless torsos are corny to me, but a tank top or shirtless photo to show you give a damn about your body is awesome to me.

    Bottom line, I think a great face with a t-shirt or tank on is hot and ideal. And thats the door opening. Afterwards, a decent conversation can keep it open. Or if its just mutual attraction and you both just schedule a hot FVCK session. Thats ok too. My thing about hook up apps is, I dont over think it. I just have fun for what it is and the rest falls into place.
     
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    It depends on what I'm using it for:

    When trying to hook up:
    The shirtless thirst trap pic was there to communicate my wanting to hook up. It was accompanied by a relatively short bio and minimal other pics. The thought behind it was minimal and really just focused on hooking up.

    When trying to date:
    I had pictures where I was showing my face, pearly whites, and fly threads. They were accompanied by a decent bio with my interests and willingness to go out and date. The thought behind it was dating and meeting guys, not trying to fxck.

    I've had success with both types exclusively. I had less success when I combined the two, and I can understand why. It does kind of read as bullshyt to be about both.
     
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    Im on there when im horny...then my pics end up being banned.
     
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    ...speakin of Jackd, can one of yall Kappas get yo frat brotha? i don't even know where to begin with this one.

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    Yall must have iphones.
     
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    Yes, my face is on Jack'd. I can't imagine it any other way.

    No, it's not important to show your torso. I've never taken a picture of myself without a shirt on. My arms would probably look funny.

    The strange thing about Jack'd...how quickly dudes get lost in the 'sup-chillin'-wabouuyou-chillin'-wabouuyou-naw much-wabouuyou' corn maze of conversations. LOST! And as much as I want to help these poor souls find their way to the moon harvest, we both know that they're gonna stay there and die of exposure. So I save myself.

    There's an easy way to make sure this doesn't happen- put something on your frigging profile page. Seriously. Anything. Literally anything. You like watermelon? Cool, I HATE watermelon. Let's talk it through! You like cheesecake? I think it's the devil's work. I could go on you know- I have very strong opinions. We'll talk and maybe go for drinks and laugh. Or maybe not.

    Maybe I'm too trusting and give too many chances.
     
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    Negro u know u can't find a mofo on the apps who wants to 'talk it thru'!
     
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    NOT. A. DAMN. ONE!!! lol
     
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    But these dudes have nothing on their profiles to start a conversation and that's the problem . People treat apps like they are a club . At a club I may approach you based on looks only but I won't know you like underwater basket weaving . On an app you have the opportunity to put that on your profile . We can talk about basket weaving and basket weaving accessories but if I ask you anything beyond "sup? " I'm getting "all up in your business ? " GTFOHWTBS .
     
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