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Discussion in 'Dating and Relationships' started by Nick Delmacy, Nov 4, 2016.

  1. King Zorro

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    I'm slowly seeing that Jack'd is not for serious relationships (lol I know, stating the obvious). I'm in my mid-20s and I'm looking for more so I only log on when I have time on the weekends. Like you guys stated, it slows my phone down a lot and I use my phone for business purposes.
     
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    No I helped pay for dinner. You made me chug down 4 drinks tryna get me to do thotish things.

    And did you use those damn coupons or whatever?
     
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    Idk what ur talkin about. I was at prayer circle all of Saturday night. I don't have drink tickets from sleazy gay bars.
     
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    Im hella late to all this back and forth (Specifically between Nick and SB3). But I just saw this one comment Nick made and I had to ask a question to anyone who may care to answer.

    Do you guys REALLY care that much about what people think of you and in particular the gay community?

    When Nick said,
    I scratched the hell out of my head thinking "Hmmm, I am the only one who could care less about the judgement of people I dont even know?"

    Yes, I know a bit of discretion can be useful at times, but IMO in this age of social media and apps and the like, I respect people who put certain things out in the open instead of hiding in shadows for FEAR of judgment and caring that deeply about what others think.

    And your face is one of the things I respect. Show me who the hell you are negro. As oppose to a picture of a stack of cash, a blunt, or a celebrity you will NEVER look remotely like. Even if your face is next to a "peen". We go to clubs where a half naked man may be dancing on the bar, a house party where the host or attendants can be some of the biggest whores in the city, a gym where dudes are fvcking in the locker room, etc etc..... Just because your body or face is present amongst other "socially un-acceptable" things, I do not view that as an automatic judgement of the person.

    Being judgmental is one of the most disgusting traits I think a person can have. True as humans we can all have a level of judgment just in us. But I know I actively work at curbing that and I respect those that do the same. If a dude is judging me because I have my face on an app, he considers me "on the prowl" in a gay bar or anything like that I am grateful not to talk to that judgmental a$$hole. I consider myself dodging a bullet with that guy.

    I take people as they are once meeting them. And evaluate them based on our interaction and getting to know them. As far as them having a "reputation" with being on an app, in the gym, gay bar etc is of no importance to me. Especially when its possibly stemming from self loathing, socially/dating/sexually challenged gay men who are on the apps and in the bars all while they constantly critique the gay scene that they themselves are participating in.
     
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    Now that ur back in Atl, can u n @Nick Delmacy just go on a date where yall can debate yalls night away, and then go have hate sex?!?!
     
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    There's a such thing as hate sex? :dahell: lol. Doubt i'd be into that.
     
  8. OhSheit

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    Torture porn
     
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    Its when u and someone who ur constantly arguing w just end up messing around because yall are attracted to each other and the testosterone build up has exploded. Then yall wake up n start arguing again. Sumthin tells me you've been there before.
     
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    Ha. Nope haven't been there at all. Arguing isn't a turn on for me. Not one of those dudes.
     
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    You ain't never lied. And why come they never wanna talk to you on the phone before meeting up? Maybe because they know the voice doesn't match the image portrayed in the picture? So deceitful.
     
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    AND on snapchat and instagram videos they pose and make dumb faces instead of saying anything. lol
     
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    I just recently deleted my page on jackd. It is an entertainment/hookup site. It is what it is. I tried taking my chances to see what I could find. The only thing I found out was that I wasted my time entertaining that shit. I'm good for a hook up as many would be. The problem was the lying, game playing, and just overall lack of quality of dudes I came across. The worst problem is the dudes that be asking for much more than what they can offer themselves.
     
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    I deleted Jackd. I have no shame in saying that I can be quite a photo whore though with "suggestive photos" (as they call them) that gets me promptly deleted. Actually, Jackd is more entertaining than it is for hook-ups because most dudes have way too many hang-ups.

    I used it for talking to the boring obnoxious men until I got tired. I've been cursed out, threatened, reported, stereotyped...I even had one dude who was a DL church boy tell me God doesn't love me because I take suggestive photos, while he has a Bible in one hand and a peen in another.

    Other than that, I only met one guy I kinda liked...but as expected, he just wanted the nookie...
     
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    One of my homies is wifed up now. Met the mofo on jakd! leme find out Im the only single one of my non CA friends...
     
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    Why do ppl put their IG handles on Jack'd if their IG profiles are private?
     
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    Super Saiyan forms of Jack'd
     
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    Hot!

    I'm trying to get my dancer sexy back. That may be irrelevant to the post, ijs...
     
  21. OhSheit

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    :ravetho: it's so damn generic and corny to me.
     
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    Those torsos are nice but they are probably all in the same room having a menage. Lol

    But it's hook up app so you're gonna put your best assets forward.
     
  23. OhSheit

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    I'm just saying... SAME poses, same cut-offs and everything lol
     
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    Negro please! Stop acting like the visual isn't hot. I don't know them from a can of paint, and they could be murderers, but that doesn't stop them from being physically 'sexy'.

    They might be dumb as boxes of rocks, or neurosurgeons, but the point is the physical image is still good.

    U don't have to look like this to find ____, but Im also over ppl acting as if there's something wrong w having a nice body.
     
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    Right. These bodies are Sexy and attractive to me and that's without seeing a face to go with them.

    I agree they could have more variety but ain't nobody trying to get all artistic on a hookup app photo. Most of gay men at least appreciate a well built masculine body and out of that same set of men, another group is trying to be that body even if others are happy being thin average or overweight.

    I don't even hate the guys who clearly tryna show off as much as I rag about thier actions. If your body is right, it doesn't matter what you wear or don't wear, people can tell you're in shape.
     
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    I think you missed my point. I was just pointing out a cliché and how perfectly aligned they were for me to snap and caption it.

    and they're alright I guess, that don't get my dick hard for too long, but does anything? :yeshrug:
     
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    Negro stop! None of us would kick one of them out of the sack
     
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    You don't know my type, I'm hurt. Bad friend!
     
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    Well it's all how you put yourself out there, in my opinion. From seeing some profiles (i.e. having body pics, the classic 'no fats no fems', masc4masc when you're not even masc, lying about your sexual position, 'no BS no drama' when deep down you're prolly full of it), some people shouldn't even be complaining. And if people come in your inbox all certain type of way, why do you even respond?

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    A lot of the hook up app scene is complete bull shit. I have read a few comments where the app guys ignore you there but then step to you in real life.

    Some guys don't like that. I would not care. I'd prefer someone approach me in real life and would appreciate the On Second Thought gesture. Too many people want things to be Just So and they are missing out on potentially good dudes over nothing.
     
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    I have a shirtless torso pic how else am i supposed to get people to message me lol? Jack'd is kinda low population here so grindr is better for me, I don't display anything about top/bottom or the size of my penis. My strategy to finding people who want to have proper conversations is to try to bore them by going into depth on all your none sexual interests like your anime philosophy theories.
     
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    Because dating apps allows people to hide behind the screen and also gives them the impression that they're shopping for men like an art gallery or on amazon; they get ruder pickier and more superficial, looking for the model/celebrity looking guys. In a real life setting like a club, house party, gym or any public place they would be much nicer and more likely to talk to you even with the same face/body that they ignored on the app because it's not socially acceptable to be that superficial.
     
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