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  1. grownman

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    Alright, here we go. I been debating about posting this because it's kind of silly. And I don't want my first post to be something like this.

    Well, there are a couple of people who used to post quite frequently but don't as much now. One, in particular, doesn't post at all and when I first joined they were posting every 5 minutes. But, I liked the threads he created. They were fun. Should I reach out to them and just ask what's up or should I just mind my own damn business? I don't want them to think that I am trying to holla at them. You know what I mean? That is not the case...
     
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    Nothing's wrong with just being like "Hey how u doing? Haven't heard from you so I'm just seeing what's up"
     
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    Yes I agree with Dre, they might be glad to hear from you.
     
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    Sometimes people on forums have spurts. I'll straight up forget to come here on the weekends. Lol but nothing wrong with hitting people up.

    It's a lot more active here than it was a few months ago so maybe when they come back, they will still check out what's new and add to it.
     
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    Thanks guys. You three always give good advice. Dre, you are proof that wisdom has nothing to do with age.
     
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    Well ,I have a few gray hairs.Hopefully my hip won't go out .
     
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    Imagine noticing this trend repeatedly over the last 4 years. Some of the dudes who have disappeared we've even worried about due to them finding this site because they were struggling with their sexuality. Hopefully the reason behind their waning interest is due to them embracing who they are and just becoming too busy from enjoying life...
     
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    I didn't think about that. Wow.
     
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    Honestly, if you haven't interacted with them before and you're not really interested in them romantically or getting to know them more personally, I'd just let it go. Granted, like others have said, it couldn't hurt to reach out, but I wouldn't. Seems kinda weird to me.
     
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    Yea, you're definitely reading into it. I absolutely didn't intend to have a tone and I'm sorry if it came across that way. @grownman
     
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    It's all good. I am sorry for that. I like the fact that you came with an opinion-your own. That's the purpose of putting stuff up like this to see different perspectives. But yeah, I was leaning more towards your thoughts and decided to just leave them alone.
     
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    Yea, if you want to get to know them as people, I'd just approach it differently. If not and you just enjoy seeing there perspectives, just keep watching the threads, I'm sure others will have equally as interesting opinions. Forums aren't really the place for consistency, but it will help you build comradery. You can meet more new people and even take it off line once you've built that. I have a couple dudes from CA that I hang with.
     
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