Too Small, Too Big, or Just Right???

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  1. over-it

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    Ok....here we go...

    Soooo, I see no one has posted on this particular topic, so I'll start. Whether you're a top, bottom, verse, verse-top, verse-bottom, or oral, what size penis do you prefer on a man? Small, medium, or large? (YOU define what's small, medium, or large) You can answer in various ways:
    1. What you like to SEE on another man
    2. What you like to suck
    3. What you like in your rear
    4. What you like your man to possess
    5. What you like to jack/play with
    6. What just turns you on
    Don't be shy... We're all adults and we all like men. Guess what? Men have penises! It doesn't make you less of man if you're a top who likes large penises! AND, it doesn't make you a whore if you're a bottom who likes them big!

    Personally, I like to see a hefty one on another man. No micro penis please. (I've date a guy with one though)
    I'd prefer to suck a larger member. Now as it pertains to taking one in my rear, I don't want to end up wearing Depends as a old man! I prefer a "just right" penis for that action. Small might even work for rear entry, especially if the guy was super confident (but not overly), swagged out, and very attractive. (Don't judge me) There's internal bragging rights for me knowing that my dude is packin', so I'd prefer my man to possess a large one. It's not exclusively a deal breaker though. I'd play with any sized pecker and what generally turns me on is a guy with a nice piece. I guess I've been spoiled, because most of the dudes I've dealt with have have nice size wangs. I don't consider myself a size king, but I like what I like. Feel free to comment however you'd like!

    BTW...I'll pose the same question for the ass lovers...I LOVE a phatty! A flat ass IS ABSOLUTELY a deal breaker for me. Sorry...
     
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    I'm..uh...not quite experienced enough in this area to really have a preference (virgin) but I have read that the average is around 5.5 inches so that's the basis of comparison besides porn which is so skewed to larger sizes for a certain "look".

    Y'all don't mind me...I'll just be in the back....lurkin'....XD
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    The big ones look nice and all but my limit is the average size... 9 :shaq:
     
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    Now see...I was kidding btw. I'll get back to you on this one. :)
     
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    Damn, I thought we were all adults here...:sass1:
     
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    *looks around* Is this BGC?
     
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    Maybe the size kings want to remain anonymous. It takes away from the moment...

    #Noslutshamingonthissiteplease :whoa:
     
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    So I guess the THIRST TRAP posts belong on BGC too..:lawd:
     
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    Yeah the GRANDES are cute to look at and play with but I can't handle it all, especially when they get excited and start to lose their mind back there LoL. Give me a good ol average size (7-9) and we can do some things. That's never really been a deal breaker for me though. A good sex partner should've be based on the size of the equipment but what they're willing to do while in the moment...
     
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    Bruh, I am definitely the LAST person who will slut shame somebody. That's not even slut shaming. I was cracking a joke at the way members responded. On BGC, this post would've probably got a lot of hits with explicit detailed responses. I guess the environment of CA is a little different from BGC. Brothers will talk about sex here and have no shame, but there are different levels to it. Not that I necessarily agree, but it's just the reality of it.

    I'm not saying anything does or doesn't belong on here or BGC. Post whatever your heart desires. Some brothers will respond, others won't. Simple as that.
     
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    I don't mind explicit adult discussions on the site, my reaction was purely based on this being the VERY FIRST thread that @over-it has created (with only a handful of quick responses to other threads) and it was a long CA After Dark post about taking and sucking large penis sizes...

    This thread was our introduction to him, lol. My initial reaction was:


    But I agree with @acessential, no shame, but there's levels to this.

    Anyway, everyone discuss away, I'm out!


    P.S. :merchant: at the dude who said 9" was only "average"....I see I def need to get out more...
     
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    Please lets not turn this site into bgc
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    Yoooo..yall are grimy..lol
     
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    I was hoping I wasnt the only one confused by that '9' avg...
     
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    How many people have began relations with someone was was like "Oh No, that's too big or Oh No that's too small?" I think we all like fantasy but for the most part we all working with and enjoying average ass penis sizes....
     
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    its no often that I bottom, but when I do I prefer that the dude be around 6 or 7 inches. I would like to remain tight. Anything bigger, (which I rarely get) just goes in my mouth.
     
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    Meeeeeee! One dude in particular was an absolute "NOPE." He was cool. We could have probably dated a longer but I knew I just couldn't keep dating him because I wasn't going to accommodate something that equates to a Monster energy drink can the length of sheet laptop screen.
     
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    9 inches is average to you? Wow my dude. Good luck with that. lol. I know you are kidding but there are truly some some size queens out there that believe that.
     
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    7" - 9" works for me anything smaller or bigger than that just doesn't work for me. Uncut is a plus.
     
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    I lost my virginity to a guy that was over 9...& that was....well something like a scene from Monster's Ball literally....

    I do like a guy that I can feel...I don't want to get too much into detail. I'll say that if I'm not into the guy, sex will probably be boring or painful..If there's a strong flow of passion, my adrenaline kicks in and things become intense 7-8.5 is a cool size to me but that connection has to be there.
     
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    That's a first.
     
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    No hard and fast size requirements in my mind. My philosophy tends to be "If it fits, have fun with it!"
     
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    I like what I like. But I'm hardly the first. Guys who like uncut are just uncommon. In the USA circumcision is promoted for dubious medical reasons or esthetic reasons. In other places it's done for religious or cultural reasons. Some places it's not promoted at all. It's one of the reasons I liked dating brothers from the islands they tend to be uncut.
     
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    I think its because ppl are often grossly inaccurate when they guesstimate inches. 9 inches is a lot longer than its perceived.
     
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    Then there is no standard way to measure. People be digging into their fat upper pube area with the ruler trying to get every 32nd of an inch. :wtb:
     
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    So if 5.5 inches is the average size for all men, I wonder what average size is for black men. If I had to guess its probably just a little higher mainly because of the theory I heard that hot African climates encouraged growth more than European climates. In any case I personally believe 5.5-6 is good enough.
     
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    7inch to 8 and 1/2 is good
     
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    im a vers dude. Honestly, I prefer just right. its many other components that goes into making sure im sexually fulfilled. Dude with big dick always seem to go for power and the average or even smaller goes for rhythm. Just depend on how they approaching the situation
     
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    Don't bottom very often...haven't in years, but when I was with my last fuck buddy he was 10".

    I always say small is no fun, and big is just doing it for the sake of doing it. What you really want is someone husband sized. 7-10" I say is ideal.
     
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    Interesting discussion. I am seeing a ton of myths and misinformation being quoted as fact and hard fast belief.

    1. We always joke about taking really large penises and eventually getting a loose sphincter and needing a diaper..Not typical.

    2. Average size 9"?? Not even 7" or 8", even for black men. think about this, two men can have the exact same sized penis, however if one is 6'2" and 220 lbs vs. 5'5" and 120 lbs, the penis would look huge on the smaller dude. It is all about relative perspective .

    Everybody is different..and a larger penis on one encounter may feel wonderful, and on another, the me size may hurt like hell.

    I don't measure mine or judge any other. I've never has a complaint. I will never ask you your size.

    I refuse to dislocate my jaw. Orals sex should not be uncomfortable. So it makes sense, orally, you can do more if its smaller

    I have only really bottomed in relationships where we versed..In that case, I am as open to pleasing my partner as he is in pleasing me...so regardless of size, I will attempt to accommodate, as did he.

    All these rules and requirements we have take all the joy and fun out of sex/making love. It becomes a test or contest about living up to the world's expectations when none of that really matters.

    A big part of sex is communicating with your partner likes and dislikes. I find the best sex comes after you've gotten to know each other's bodies... likes, and dislikes...after all pretenses and facades are ripped away.

    Ok..I've strayed off topic enough. IJS...
     
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    I can dig it! :steviej:(No pun intended) :laff:
     
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    damn. based on these responses, no wonder many tops and i do meean many feel they don't measure up. 7 is average for black men.
     
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