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  1. hannibal

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    Ok, so I got rhis question from another group. Why would a top have a dildo? If he using it on hinself, he aint no top and if he plans on using it on a partner...thats just dumb. Why I need a dildo with you standing right there?
     
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    Straight men get prostate massages and "Milked " doesn't mean he wants some dude on his back.
     
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    Hmmm. Honestly, for me, if I found a Top that had a dildo I'd make him toss it and get him an aneros instead (somethin I've been reading about). I think it's much more sexier for a top to have one of these while he's banging you & is much more effective in hitting his P-spot. The thought of a Top hitting a high like a little helpless man is interesting and sexy.
     
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    I should make a list of all of the things I learn about on this site. You guys are always dropping knowledge about shit that I have never had any reason to think about like an aneros, the internet famous, other interesting websites, younger entertainers, etc.
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    True this is even a trend of hetro-sex men getting "pegged" by their female partners.

    Everything is about taste and preference. Just depends on what my partner would like.
    I would be open minded to trying something at least once.:yeshrug:
     
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    I mean why do people want to be limited in what they get off to? Differently people have different kink. As a verse guy these lanes some guys put themselves in seem constricting.
     
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    What's the big deal? I guess he could get a side eye if he's talking 'Im a total top/i hate all diks that aren't mine', but otherwise, he might just be hip to that prostate massage nut. Every man deserves to experience it at least once in his life.
     
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    Pegging is the only thing I think is weird because I don't think any man that gets pegged is straight. I think if he wants a woman to peg him, he's thought about getting f**ked and women don't have peens. He might as well date a tranny.

    I would believe that the easiest way to loose a woman is make her feel like she's a man.
     
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    Idek what pegging is.

    Speaking of dildos tho, have yall seen mrATEinchez on phub? Apparently he's 100% straight, and he could continue to be 100% whatever he wants to identify as, in my bed, anytime. That man puts in that work. Praise gawd!
     
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    That's when womez wear strap ons and screw they menz.

    I don't watch straight porn I may run upon it every now (less than "every now and then ") but my rocks don't get off to it like they used to when That was all I had.
     
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    There's more to sex and pleasure though than who's doing what to Whom. It's really short sighted to say these men should get a tranny just cause they like some butt play.

    I don't want a MtF at all but I'll consider a FtM. I don't think a FtM with his beef curtain intact is going to make me straight..
     
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    I still enjoy straight scenes sometimes, but only because the dudes are 100000x sexier than blk gay porn dudes. The biggest hurdle for me is finding a scene where the woman isn't doing the ridiculously fake moaning. Im 100 % into verbal, but that loud ass soprano screeching drives me nuts.
     
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    I still enjoy straight scenes sometimes, but only because the dudes are 100000x sexier than blk gay porn dudes. The biggest hurdle for me is finding a scene where the woman isn't doing the ridiculously fake moaning. Im 100 % into verbal, but that loud ass soprano screeching drives me nuts.
     
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    I am in agreement .Straight porn men look like men and got cakes but them bitches they be phuccin.... Stop all that hollerin! Lol
     
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    I find those terms Uber confusing though because female to male are still women who desire to be a male but were not born men & no matter how much surgery or medication they get and take they were still born women.

    They just have the outer apperance of dudes. They can't produce sperm, they don't have prostates or any other distinguishing trait within them like guys so how are they male? Some of them are attractive but that's because well..I think guys are attractive but idk. Maybe that makes me not as open minded as I thought I was about it or "bi-leaning"?

    I was saying the whole straight guy get a tranny thing because natural women aren't born with penises yet he wants a woman to put a strap on and pretend she has a penis and pentrate him. I get what you're saying though I suppose. I mean lesbians use strap ons as well.

    I suppose my disdain may be from the fact that heterosexuals detest homosexuality because of the things gay men do but now you have straight men doing it (& trying to make it mainstream) and it's pretty much like the trendy thing to do.

    I had went to a Pornhub to read some of the comments and saw men saying I need a woman to make me her sissy. Just reading the comments were strange. I realize I need to stay in own lane though with fetishes like that.

    This led me to googling more strange fetishes that people have.
     
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    I do not want a top that likes having thing up his bunghole.
     
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    But if someone wants to experience a stimulated prostate nutt and they are straight what do you suggest they do? Like as a gay man I can understand viewing a video of a man losing all control with an aneros in there while he's catching that nutt. However I can see how a straight man would be intrigued about it as well.

    I'm attracted to the male form so that's why the F2M would be something I'd be OK with experimenting with. But few f2m are trying to catch dicks.

    A straight man still doesn't want a man on his back. He just wants his prostate stimulated and that epic nutt those guys are catching on porn hub. he Does not want to kiss a man or love another man. He's attracted to females still.

    For some being dominated by a woman is the kink.let's say A man who is in control of a company, has money hundreds of employees is in control 97 percent of the time. He needs that 3 percent to be out of control so that he doesn't have to think about being The Boss. That's how he gets his nutt.
     
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    Look, ionno how else you eant me to say it. I want a top, not a potential verse.
     
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    it seems less about ppl limiting themselves and more about how we police or even shame other ppl's desires via odd notions of purity and authenticity -- i.e., real top, real man, "no one has ever touched his ass". a bttm can top several times and remains a bttm. yet, a top is fake and/or tainted if he admits to or engages in anal play of some kind, even if it was just once or twice.

    this mirrors how women who've experimented w/ other women remain straight, but if men do the same, they are permanently tainted as gay. it seems most true for blk men. our manhood/masculinity is so heavily policed, even by us. no other group contends with so many rules and restrictions on behavior than blk men. but we often complain that it's difficult to get brothas to be honest or open up in conversation.

     
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    So since we're here, what is it about a "pure top" that make it to be your requirement and what's so bad about a top who dabbles? Let's say he's 90 percent top and 10 percent verse? Is that OK? What's the threshold?
     
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    Wow - that nut would be fucking amazing.

    *stores in back of mind to search later*

    Bingo. The hypocrisy is astounding and the constraints are taxing.
     
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    I dont want a man looking for what im looking for. I dont even like tops that ask for dick pics
     
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    Daammnnn. If I was a strict top or had to fit those parameters, I'd be better off dating women. It's almost like what's the point? Well I guess maybe if you're very attracted to masculinity and the bottom happens to be masculine but then again, some would say that wanting to only bottom makes you much less masculine.
     
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    Haha..Nah, can't find no gay Top like that. Tops these days like to suk penis. In fact, Top are supposed to suk peen and booty. The only thing that makes them a Top is that they like to penetrate.

    I understand what you mean about getting his booty manipulated.

    I wouldn't say it's a requirement but it's not a deterrent either, in my case, just as long as he not one of those Tops with a moon crater for a hole.

    And then you be having these Tops that be trying to make you tap out for hours...Look, King...You need to hurry up and tap on up.. ain't nobody got time for all that.

    I'm sure if you keep looking you may find the exact guy you're looking for. I think there are a "few" men that may be like that
     
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    No, it means i know what i want snd you aint gotta worry about me changing the game mid session
     
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    So tops who don't mind bottoming 10% of the time, don't know what they want? lmao
     
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    Not if they into flip flopping. Im.not here for it
     
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    True they maybe sexier, but men in straight porn are props which makes them boring and that's the fuck up. You can't be sexy and boring.
     
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    LMAO I respect your resolve
     
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    Well, that's a pretty blanket statement. Either way tho, a large part of the appeal of porn is the visual aspect. So, just like one person is getting theirs off of watching a 110 lb bottom beg to get his pussy beat up, being physically attracted to a performer and the fantasy is sometimes what gets the rocks off.
     
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    FWIW, as a verse guy I'm usually ready for both ends of the spectrum so to speak. I'm down for the flip flop or I can take on one role But TBH I am a spontaneous one for sex so if it leads to me topping this session likely I'll be on the bottom next time It's give and take. Then in a relationship you should be able to be open and free with your partner.

    But hey if you find those unicorn in tact booty hole tops who don't even want they ass ate, have at. As stated everyone has different kink.
     
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    I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.
     
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