What Not to Wear on a First Date

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  1. OckyDub

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    I recall going on a first (and only) date with a dude, whom after I saw him for the very first time thought..."WTF are you wearing??" At any rate, if I went on a first date with a dude and he wore this shirt....I can only assume there wouldn't be a connection because most likely he will identify as queer in addition to feminist while over using terms like 'problematic' and 'woke'. Would this shirt turn you off or what would be something a dude would wear on a first date that would turn you off? #nothankyou

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    How about this one:

     
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    As an admitted fan of a taste of booze every once in a while, I feel like this is indirect brunch shaming by associating unlimited mimosas w dudes who wear 'feminist' shirts.
     
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    I remember you (or another member) posed this question a while ago concerning this shirt.

    Would I wear the shirt....nope.

    Do I think its a appropriate shirt for a dude trying to make a statement (Fucking Awesome Guy)....cool.

    I think we all have a thing/s that irritate us or gets under our skin. One of those things for me is queer male feminists ideologies and that to me is what wearing the shirt represents.

    Like could you see me going on a date with Son of Baldwin? Does that even make sense? In my mind, he would wear a shirt like this.

    FYI... In my hast of creating this thread at work, I should have concluded my opening paragraph with the now updated last sentence (Would this shirt turn you off or what would be something a dude would wear on a first date that would turn you off?) Also the dude in the first sentence of the thread, showed up wearing something kinda like this on the first date.
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    LOL say what
     
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    I re-posted the image because of the title of this thread...If I showed up to my Tinder first date at a sports bar and a dude was wearing a shirt that said F.A.G.....That would be our last date.

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    [​IMG] I really can't get with this trend. It just looks...dirty...to me, for lack of a better term. Then sometimes, they have their nipple peeking through one of the holes tryna say hi...
     
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    lol out of everything posted on this thread, I could go with the grey shirt with some of the tears in it but that is as far as I will go hahaha
     
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    So... Are ironic t shirts back in style?
     
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    This shirt is an immediate turn off. I find feminist ideology to more about being anti-male, or anti-masculinity than about women's rights/equality. Feminism in the American context also has a disturbing racist component as well. Another thing I noticed about feminists they want to be equal only when it's convenient then in certain situations they want the benefits of chivalry. You can't have it both ways, GTFOH! I find gay allies of feminists to be equally annoying, reactionary, and ridiculous in their demonization of masculinity as the women who call themselves feminists. Finally people who consider themselves "activists" or advocates for any cause or ideology annoy me to no end because that type of person can't seem to take their activist hat off. They just can't relax and and have a good time. I don't wanna waste a perfectly good evening listening about how "patriarchy" has fucked them over.
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    If I were younger and dating, skinny jeans that look like leggings/jeggings(damn I hate seeing hot guys wearing those-just looks awful on ANY man). Also anything that is overly pretentious or expensive like whatever the latest trendy expensive thing to wear is...I despise that kind of 'look at me I am so on it and have money' way of thinking(probably just fronting anyway and living in Nick's flophouse).
     
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    (Would this shirt turn you off or what would be something a dude would wear on a first date that would turn you off?)
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    Half Steve Harvey-half Prince. R.I.P. to the latter but um-no. He ight as well wear a shirt that said "*Lowkey* Feminist," showin' off his breastesess like he didn't proofread his outfit in a mirror or and open but yet honest person. Whether I had the body or not, I would not. It's like going to a church stripping function. I don't like it, but he seems like a good hearted person. I'm not attacking him as a person. I'm attaching that drainer of a shirt he's wearing. You know you gotta explain the difference between the two here in 2017. Otherwise you'd be looked as a "hater"sasmith
     
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