What's the youngest and oldest you'll talk to/date??

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  1. takeyourmeds91

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    Ended up finding this super cute 21 y/o recently and my friends are giving me shit about it lol I'm in the latter half of my 20's. I know I'm trying it though lmao - We went to a bar last night and they were fucking it up on the 1's&2's - straight 90s and early/mid 2000's...he had no concept haha. This was a first for me because I typically talk to guys that are older. Not trying to date him seriously or anything just having fun lol.

    What are you guys' thoughts on dating and age gaps?
     
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    I am 28 as of Nov '17.

    The ideal youngest I would speak to would be 25 then the oldest would be up to 40. I can do over 40 y.o. if he looks like he keeps himself up. There are men between 40 and 50 in Atlanta that put men half their age to shame for real.

    The youngest I would speak to is 22 or 23 (just out of college) but I think between 25 and 40 are good because most men's brains are matured by then anatomically and physiologically speaking. Yep that black nerd in me haha.

    What's your age range?

    I've come across men mid 50s and even early 60s that are attractive but I cannot date a man that is as old as my father lol
     
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    Youngest I would date is 30. Oldest I would date is 55.

    I love looking at dudes between that decade of 20 - 29 and I find them adorable, but its something about when a man gets over 30 that turns me on. (Case by case basis of course)
     
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    When I think of age gaps relationships I think of Muhammad Ali and his last wife Lonnie Ali. This is a picture of them in Louisville in 1963, when he was 21 and she was 6. :gucci:

    To their credit though their from the same neighborhood they lived across the street from each other and their mothers were really good friends. Their relationship grew from friends to lovers years later when they both became adults. Lonnie also as a bachelor's degree and M.B.A (which Ali help her to pay). But people say Lonnie was prob the best wife out of all cause she was more of a partner and protector of Ali (his image and his money). Especially in his failing health later years.

    So sometimes ages doesn't really matter it's more about compatibility .
     
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    Prob for me the youngest would be like 23. I can't go tooo young.

    After working in a high school it would feel weird to date someone the same age as some of my former students. Not that I was that much older then them but it would feel weird.

    Overall it's about the maturity level though.

    This makes me wish I would of started dating when I was younger. :(

    @takeyourmeds91 does he call u Daddy or Papi Cholo :p
     
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    Zaddy Chulo lmao sike nah but yea you're right its really only a maturity thing


    @African King Right now in my life, I'd prefer to date no older than 5 years my elder only because I'm considering kids in my future. I don't want my dude to be old af trying to have kids. In terms of a quick fling, age doesn't matter as much - if you fine then you fine. My lower limit is 25 until I reach 30 then my 5 year rule kicks in cus then I'll be the old nigga lmao


    @Omega Level Good Lawd, that man in your avi is fine as shit
     
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    Makes sense about compatibility. I am 28 so I don't mind dating a 40 y.o. man. Every man and they daddy fine in ATL.
     
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    @takeyourmeds91 - What man? Thats me.

    LMAO. I wish. Thats my dream dude. He is a model / fitness model mostly and his name is Dave Gordon. Thats the man I would abandon my family for and commit a crime just to go on a date with this beautiful creature.

    We all got one dude that'll make you forget life entirely.

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    The oldest person I dated was 20 years older than me when I was 25. He was 45. The youngest person I have dated was 20, I was 27 years old. It didn't work out. A 7-year difference seemed really big when we dated. We were just in different spaces. I am currently married to a man who is 3 years older than me.
     
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    I think that as you may be attracted to the guy, there have to be things you two and discuss and have in common! If you are not able to connect about past times, old shows, movies, humor, and the like... maybe this guy is just someone to have fun with. Not be too serious with.

    Or maybe if he is willing to be down and learn, you can expose him and teach him about your past and things you are into. Maybe he will gravitate toward it.

    In time, you'll know what it is! Good luck!

    For me, age is just a number. but we have to be able to connect on humor, old shows, etc.
     
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    It would be amazing if I find someone closer to my age but I know it'll take some time - I tend to seek out older guys because they are generally in a particular place in their lives where many mid-20's somethings aren't. Might becomes easier in a couple years once they've reached that place.
     
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    im open and the the age where i can say 10 years in either direction and still have some mature enough and not too old.
     
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