Which is the Worst Turn Off?

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    1st...Even though I post them as well, you can tell when a meme is created by a black women or black queer dude.

    2nd...Not everybody likes weed, video games or have been to jail.

    3rd...At some point many have been broke or lacked finances, and had a hoopty of a car.

    Even though I've been to jail, my answer would be F - Final answer.

    Using my own assumptive baggage, a jail bird to me is a street dude with a street mentality who can't get his shit together to stay outta the streets and jail. Even though E reminds my of a christian DL dude who would be in the closet.

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    It's one thing to have been to jail, but a jail bird is a 'thing' all it's own. And if u always broke, that's ALWAYS a problem! Employment is always avail. It might not be the most glamorous, but u get 10 more points for having a consistent check. Those are equally, the worst, in my opinion.
     
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    F would be the major turn off to me. With a strong E as the second turn off.

    How are we going to work on anything if you in and out and back in jail? nah bruh, date a dude in there. And if we can't get past anything we dealing with because you have to always involve yo mama? kick rocks

    A,B,C - I'll try to inspire different behavior through example. Maybe they'll see the benefits
    D - Hell, its just a car. He could borrow mine while we work on options of getting his own.
     
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    F. :camby:I DON’T DO HOODs! Sorry but No No!
    Im not trying to go to jail or prison. I enjoy my freedom too much. So if you constantly in jail That means you don’t know how to make responsible choices to enjoy your freedom.
    :patrice: I never get why ppl find ppl like that attractive. You do know they will rob you right? upload_2017-11-1_3-23-31.png

    A. As long as they use a vapor and the stuff aint too loud in smell

    B. As long as its some classic vintage 90s stuff n some new sports games too i want to play too lol

    C. This is something that can actually be changed. Like is dude in school now? Ruff patch in life? Paying of student loans. As long he has ambition n goals. Once dudes gets the right paying gig he gone be good;)

    D. Depending on the city he might not need one. Does he travel a lot? Saving to pay off student loans? Can he use uber/taxi, car sharing service or car rental.
    E. Im good with mamas they usually like me. All I have to do is use my southern charm:kiss::shades:

    F. Cant be fixed sorry. Don’t have time for it. :mad:
     
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    All you Jail Bird haters just need a little imagination and patience:

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    F doesn't even compute for me. So, can I just disregard it? Like, how would such a person even know where to find me? The thought is so foreign and perplexing...just no. Like, seriously...da fuck?! How are we gonna build our lives (OUR lives!) if you're in-and-out of jail? Please.

    If I can't disregard F, C would be a close second. I'm all chivalrous and shit and will probably get the bill cuz I'm balllllin' or whatever (not as balling as @questforknowledge, who I plan to seduce when he's back in DC) but I really need to not feel like I'm obligated to take care of u. If the set-up is that you're chronically broke, it means you're living far beyond your means and need to decrease costs or increase income. So which one is it? Do you see how this relationship became very unequally yolked and how the dynamics got really weird really quickly? Yeah. I'd prefer this not come up.

    Now regarding A...well, c'mon, I live in DC. I can look the other way; I can get over it. And I'll start by telling my roomie that his random mid-morning fuck friends need to smoke on the balcony and not leave a huge plume of weed smoke wafting through our shared kitchen/living room.

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    ummm...contacts or is the lighting/camera-work drastically better?

    Also, this lite-brite had to wait 12 yrs for his cheekbones and jawline to appear. And now that God has smiled favorably upon him and made him look juuuuust foreign enough (Middle Eastern? Mediterranean? Eritrean? Mixed? who the hell knows!) he gets a modeling contact in Paris or Milan or other far-flung locations. How many dark-skin dudes are gonna get a modeling contract after 3 stints in jail, regardless of how they look? I'd venture to say none.
     
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    This one is easy.....
    Bigger turnoff
    1: Weed habit. It's an endless money pit that normally comes with other bad behaviors.
    2: Always broke. I can deal with a brutha not having a car. But no money...."Houston we have a problem." I got a car so we can make it work even if he doesn't have one it's all good.
    3: Jail bird. Even though a grown ass man that is overly dependent on his mom is annoying. A dude that is constantly in and out of jail is even more of annoyance. Since they more than likely have other turnoffs like no job, since they have a criminal record, always broke, no car, smokes excessive amounts of weed.
     
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    1. F - I can't afford to one day get caught up in his mess, plus that's costly. Overall, It's just too much baggage.

    2. C - It's cool if you're broke in the interim but marriages dissolve over finances...

    3. A - I used to smoke mad weed so I get it but them are some of the laziest, non-fun having ass niggas. And some folks get moody af and start making weed the center of their life.
     
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    Right.....mellow yellow got a pass because he's light skin, light eyes, and Eurocentric features. Had he been a regular degular brown skin or dark skin brutha with dark eyes and negro features he wouldn't have won America's next top model jail edition. This brutha ac9e4a5b9a462ba5bb82f8fa3d681c44.jpg
    got a pass because he has one blue eye. All he had to do is shed a few pounds.
     
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    Well hot damn I stand corrected. Maybe I need to retract everything I said lol. I was cynical about the world...but dudes are getting fired for attacking women and hella dark black dudes are getting into modelling post jail. Lawwwd the possibilities are....ok not endless. Please don't go to jail to get a modeling contract friends (and boys and girls)! It seems like a rather precarious route.

    Though i gotta admit- the one blue eye deal is startling. And thus, photographable.
     
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    I think your are right in your original assessment. But there is an exception to the rule. I think this dark skin brutha became a model because he has one blue eye. Had both his eyes been brown he would've been looked at as just another negro prone to criminality.
     
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    I could be wrong, but something about this tells me you've dealt w an ain't shyt dude or 2 lol
     
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    NO WAY!! I cant be paying my students loans while also paying dudes commissary and lawyer fees. You know how dem fed lawyers cost? I don't have all day to wait for a N*** to act right.
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    I've seen every episode of LOCKUP RAW... I'm not that picky lol
     
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    Your passionate disgust for F had me literally LOLing!
     
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    This thread has me dying! Idk why these responses are making me laugh so much!
     
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    Re-reading that, he did kinda go in lmaoo
     
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    To me none. I don't know.

    A. I smoke weed myself. I don't care if he does it, doesn't do it more than I do. I just ask that he be accepting. Because I also drink and smoke cigarettes as well.
    B. If he likes video games, that's okay. I like video games as well. Only concern is that he doesn't think of the game more important than me. Even then. If he needs time to play his games. Then I don't care.
    C. In these current difficult times, I think this is difficult to assess. I mean. I'm not rich myself, so why would I complain about another guys finances. As long as he's good to me, that's all I care.
    D. This is one I notice people shun on other people. I don't care. If he doesn't drive/doesn't have a car. It's okay.
    E. I lost my mother when I was very young unfortunately. So if a guy is attached to his mother, that's fine.
    F. We all make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. I wouldn't judge a guy on this.
     
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    I read somewhere a few years back (I think) that people with two different eye colors tend to lean to the psychotic side LOL But yeah, you right...had he had no unique features he'd probably still be in the system. smfh
     
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    This nigga is not attractive, can we dead him already.
    Whatever bruv! Heterochromic Bae is :hearteyes:
    Lol, I didn’t make it a quarter down the paragraph without laughing yeh. I was like who hurt him?! Lol
     
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    F's are typically encompassing of A-E.
     
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    lol u been to prison? for what? never pegged u as the type.
     
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