NSFW Would you ever think about paying for it? Would you ever think about charging?

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  1. ColumbusGuy

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    Maybe because it is the holiday weekend and I don't have to go in to work tomorrow until the afternoon(instead of 6am!) and because gays/all gays/oldergays/etc. in this city are Not SHIT! ...and maybe with that stupid LOGO show and looking at this escort stuff and all..

    ..would you ever pay for sex? Even if it was just for fun-just like a random thing-not that you would have to pay for it, but you might want to just in one instance?

    I ended up looking at this one escort site after looking at all of that stuff re: that LOGO show and damn, XL is about the best looking escort in the Atlanta area and he is cheap! lol. like $200.00 (there are only like 3 in this entire metro area). Is anyone ever tempted? He is right there and he is XL! lol.

    I never have and said I never would, but if I was still 'out there' and younger I might consider it. I would probably still not do it now-I don't want to be with someone who is really thinking 'Ew' about me and all. Fuk that. But if I was myself at 22, I might think about it just for fun and if I had an extra $200.00 laying around.

    I mean it is XL and all, right? lol
     
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    I have thought about it. But in this day and age, HELL NO! Too much access to free cable (ass) to pay for it, especially in Baltimore and DC. It is a Jackd, Grindr, Tinder, Snapchat, Kik, Craigslist, and phone chat away.
     
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    I've thought about it but prob would never do it. How do you know if the "model" is std/hiv negative or doesn't have any other things (contagious skin rash or mono ect). Is the ad really a police sting set up, or a group of rag time criminals set up, is this "model" cat-fishing some cute Instagram model to just to get clients? I've noticed that some of the escort "models" look like some of the same socialistos(as) that be on Instagram and Tumblr :kermit:
     
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    Yeah that damn STI thing. Even if I could afford PREP (and yeah, I would want that with a porn star escort) that does not take care of the rest of the stuff. And that goes with the regular guys and just hooking up to- even with condoms and PREP you can get some nasty infection- you practically have to be in a hazmat suit. Some of these things recently about some of these things make me think could I even feel safe kissing a guy even if there was one around? I don't want damn mono or some other thing like MRSA because gays are too stupid to take meds like they should or get tested smh.

    Nobody in this area wants anything but sex or dating-if they want that and do not get it they don't want anything-all the gays seem to have their friend cards filled. And yet so many complain about being lonely.

    Fuk this rant. lol. @Dante I would not trust most of those apps or Craigslist-they may work for you but for many I think they are soul-killing and maybe some of them just as dangerous as escorts-just free. And often free is not really free if you get with a psycho.

    Do straight men go through this same shit? Why is it ok for them to hire hookers and it is just a wink and a nod(it seems) but gay men shame the fuck out of eachother?

    I doubt i will ever do it(I may not ever have sex again at this point) but I will be damned if from now on I am ever again going to look down on someone who does.
     
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    Man, I won't even pay for porn, let alone sex. Why pay for something you can get for free if you really want it? The only time I would consider it is if I had a disability that severely hindered my prospects. I know in the Netherlands, the severely disabled are entitled to a few trips a year to their legal brothels under the national healthcare system. That's pretty awesome if you ask me.
     
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    Nothing in anyone's pants,expecially since it's the same stuff I have in mine,is worth 200,or even $2.That's my Doritos money.
     
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    I've always wanted to get a "massage" but I am too "sensible" to get it. Like mentioned before, the idea that it could be a police sting, a group of criminals, they have some kind of infection/disease that a condom won't protect you from... Doesn't seem worth it.

    I don't hate on people who do use those services though. It's a great way to get exactly what you want, when you want, how you want it, with no strings attached.
     
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    Many years ago, during a time when I felt that physical intimacy would be difficult to obtain because I felt undesirable and thought dating, if I could even attract someone in the first place, seemed like a stressful ordeal, I paid an "escort" once. I left feeling weird, unsatisfied and disappointed in myself. So then I spent money on massages instead, which generally left me feeling good but immediately wanting repeat experiences. That was an expensive habit for some time.

    If I had few or no loved ones and friends, really needed some cash and thought I could get away with being selective regarding my clients, I might consider charging. I doubt it would be something I'd do long-term.
     
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    As @acessential mentioned, I think if you have a physical disability, you should get a pass. Literally, all non disabled people could get on jackd or grindr and find SOMEONE who we can bone with for the free free even if they are not 100 attracted to them. If the goal is to bust one with another at the lowest requirement, we can do that. The disabled and 75+ year olds have lower choices so I wouldn't be mad if Mister Grady down to the Shady Pines wanted to pay for a round.

    I'm all for legalizing sex workers because I think it would reduce human trafficking of women and children and it would be safer for all involved and reduce shame. I think the police stings and "operation bunny hop" raids are wastes of tax payer money, with the exception of the human trafficking factor. Nevada already has a system in place so it could be a model for other states.
     
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