CA Podcast #49 – The “Fake Bisexuals” Episode

By Cypher Avenue | Posted Feb 3 2016 | 20 Comments  

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Brehs, we present to you a new episode of the CYPHER AVENUE PODCAST where you’ll hear us give updates, engage in heated topic debates, interviewing interesting homosexual men of color and us verbally adding on to the articles posted on the website. The episodes will be available in four ways: You can listen to them on the site, watch on YouTube, download a MP3 version or subscribe to us on iTunes or YouTube for automatic updates!

In this podcast, hosts Octavius Williams and Nick Delmacy discuss The Cypher Avenue Squad, Straight Outta Compton, Nick’s Adventures in Dating, Fake Bisexuals, Odell Beckham Jr and Their Upcoming 5th Anniversary.

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Cypher Avenue is a direct response to the lack of a single website on the Internet catering to gay/bisexual men that love hip hop, pop culture, video games, sci-fi and mature, open minded conversations. Topics ranging from sex, sports, movies, new tech, science, fashion, comic books, politics, working out, hip hop, booze, television, cars, the outdoors, geek stuff, dating, and relationships; you name it, we have it.

   
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  1. Dante
    Dante | February 3rd, 2016
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    Good podcast! As for the 10 min conversation on bisexuality, there are layers: Bisexuals who are equally attracted to both genders Bisexuals who are more attracted to the same gender Bisexuals who are more attracted to the opposite gender Bisexuals who don't identify as being bisexual:" I don't get into labels…I love who I love…It's not about gender.." For some bisexuals who are more attracted to the same gender, they identify as Gay. And for some bisexuals who are more attracted to the opposite gender, they identify as straight. It's really hard to pinpoint if someone who states they are bisexual is a fake bisexual. Just like there are fake gays and fake straights. People have room to identify as they choose. You have to read the book to find out the truth, not just read the book cover.

  2. ControlledXaos | February 3rd, 2016
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    Good Guys/Nice Guys/Turt Up Guys

    Hummmmm I was really wondering where I was fitting in on this scale comparing what I think to the site overlords' lines of thinking. Lol

    Where would I Be?

    I know I'd still be the me I am today. I'm too old to have a sudden personality change since going from lurker to member. What's different is having connected to others like myself.

    Bisexuals

    I think a lot of straight black folks don't have the concept of bisexuality understood. If you have any same gender sex, you are gay. There's a "1 D!čk Rule" in place for sure. I'm guessing that's due to The Downlow obsession straight black women have. Just seeing FB posts about Milan Christopher, you can see most of the responses are "he gay" even though he's dating this chick now and I have not heard any straight female saying they are checking for Andrew Caldwell and really believe he's been deliverT.

    And I got a lil shout out:
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  3. Dante
    Dante | February 3rd, 2016
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    ControlledXaosGood Guys/Nice Guys/Turt Up Guys

    Hummmmm I was really wondering where I was fitting in on this scale comparing what I think to the site overlords' lines of thinking. Lol

    Where would I Be?

    I know I'd still be the me I am today. I'm too old to have a sudden personality change since going from lurker to member. What's different is having connected to others like myself.

    Bisexuals

    I think a lot of straight black folks don't have the concept of bisexuality understood. If you have any same gender sex, you are gay. There's a "1 D!čk Rule" in place for sure. I'm guessing that's due to The Downlow obsession straight black women have. Just seeing FB posts about Milan Christopher, you can see most of the responses are "he gay" even though he's dating this chick now and I have not heard any straight female saying they are checking for Andrew Caldwell and really believe he's been deliverT.

    And I got a lil shout out:
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    We are not going to get into the Milan "Attention Whore" Christopher BS. Now, I believe he is a FAKE BISEXUAL. Now, if the media rumors are true, he's a clown. I don't understand how people want to make "careers" out of social media and reality tv.

  4. Nick Delmacy
    Nick Delmacy | February 3rd, 2016
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    ControlledXaosGood Guys/Nice Guys/Turt Up Guys

    Hummmmm I was really wondering where I was fitting in on this scale comparing what I think to the site overlords' lines of thinking. Lol

    You're a Nice Good Guy…

    ControlledXaosBisexuals

    I think a lot of straight black folks don't have the concept of bisexuality understood. If you have any same gender sex, you are gay. There's a "1 D!čk Rule" in place for sure. I'm guessing that's due to The Downlow obsession straight black women have. Just seeing FB posts about Milan Christopher, you can see most of the responses are "he gay" even though he's dating this chick now and I have not heard any straight female saying they are checking for Andrew Caldwell and really believe he's been deliverT.

    Yeah, It's odd that the "one dikk rule" applies if assumed straight men have gay sex…but not the other way around. If an assumed gay men has sex with women, even often, they are not viewed as being bisexual. A problem may be that many real bisexuals are reluctant to claim it, they're unwilling to truly advertise their bisexuality. So we have fake bisexuals out here pretending just because they feel it has less sting than calling themselves homosexual. Kinda like the whole male masculinity/femininity thing. If slightly effeminate dudes are out here calling themselves masculine, it kinda dilutes the perception of genuine masculinity. Maybe, IDK…

  5. ControlledXaos | February 3rd, 2016
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    I agree @Nick Delmacy. When people have a binary view of sexuality that's what we end up with.

    I think it's important for bisexual men to be out there if they choose, similar I masculine gay men. That's really the only way to begin breaking down these misconceptions that people have about non hetero sexuality.

  6. cypher21
    cypher21 | February 3rd, 2016
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    Great Listen. Thanks for the shoutout @Nick Delmacy and @ockydub you trying to show out in the podcast but you won't be top KI dog around here for long!

    Need I remind you :sass2::

    LOL Jk had a lot fun though don't play with many friends so that was interesting!

    On the Nice Guy topic I've concluded that people will in fact gravitate towards individuals that make themselves unavailable and make others feel their attention is more valuable than others…until I observe otherwise I'll just leave it like that..

    I can't tell y'all what to do but I think it would be nice to celebrate the 5th Year someway.

  7. bisonboy
    bisonboy | February 3rd, 2016
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    I am the clingy nice guy, sheesh. I typically drive guys away and don't realize what is happening. Dying laughing at "expiration date" on your bisexuality. I kind of have that feeling as well. So what about guys who get married to men who claim to be bisexual, can they still be bisexual if they claim to be monogamous? I am here for the 5th Anniversary Sex Party. I wish there was an app so I could not feel like a lurker so much, even though I comment often. Clearly I have not been paying attention to some of these board posts, time to catch up within the next hour or so lol

  8. DFW Brutha
    DFW Brutha | February 3rd, 2016
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  9. Ockydub
    ockydub | February 3rd, 2016
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    cypher21

    Oh no you didn't!

  10. ControlledXaos | February 3rd, 2016
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    Off topic but kinda not…

    @ockydub and @cypher21 need to go to the Shadow Lab on KI so we can have virtual battles. Lol

  11. Ockydub
    ockydub | February 3rd, 2016
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    ControlledXaosOff topic but kinda not…

    @ockydub and @cypher21 need to go to the Shadow Lab on KI so we can have virtual battles. Lol

    I thought you didn't play KI anywho… out of all the characters I think Glacius is a bisexual alien (getting back on topic).

  12. ControlledXaos | February 3rd, 2016
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    I do. Just not as often as I used to. Then Kim Wu is coming in season 3 so I'm low key excited about that. Lol

  13. Dr. Strange
    Dr. Strange | February 4th, 2016
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    The podcast was cool, nice to hear you guys again. I enjoyed the nice guy/good guy topic.

    I define a nice guy as someone who is somewhat of a pushover. They will tell you what you want to hear to make you feel better rather than give you the real.

    A good guy is someone who actually cares about you.. They will tell you how it is, challenge you, tell you to man up etc.

  14. DreG
    DreG | February 4th, 2016
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    Can I take a moment to say I love @Champagne_Papi and @cypher21 for their signature gifs?

  15. cypher21
    cypher21 | February 4th, 2016
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    DreGCan I take a moment to say I love @Champagne_Papi and @cypher21 for their signature gifs?

    I'm glad somebody appreciates my hard work. (And that you caught that too:sass2:)

  16. Tyroc
    Tyroc | February 4th, 2016
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    My faux over 40 outrage @ the 11:40 mark

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    I have to hang my head in shame as this is kinda unfortunately a truism I've encountered way too many times.
    I've had what turned out to be bad first dates because of (I'll take the blame) a complete lack of interest on my part in either diva worship or my not wanting to exist solely in a gay ghetto.
    I love music so I've never understood the devotion to someone who entertains you and isn't a personal friend or relative.
    I like a lot Marilyn Manson's music but I'm not mad if nobody else does.

  17. cypher21
    cypher21 | February 4th, 2016
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    TyrocI love music so I've never understood the devotion to someone who entertains you and isn't a personal friend or relative.
    I like a lot Marilyn Manson's music but I'm not mad if nobody else does.

    Well not to defend rabbit fans of anybody like Beyoncé or whoever but I think their devotion comes from a deeper place than just liking their music. People get passionate about the things they love and sometimes that happens to be a particular artist. It's about the lives they live, the why way they are personally and professionally etc that fascinates them..y'all know I love me some MC but I don't expect others to feel the same way about her. I don't understand why people would prioritize celebs over friends and family either but then again not everyone has great friends or family…:yeshrug:

  18. CeeJay627
    CeeJay627 | February 4th, 2016
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    ……just call me Lerk Nowitzki……… Hahahaha

  19. Champagne_Papi | February 4th, 2016
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    DreGCan I take a moment to say I love @Champagne_Papi and @cypher21 for their signature gifs?

  20. Lancer
    Lancer | February 7th, 2016
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    You guys were really feeling yourself in this Episode.




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