Brehs, we present to you a new episode of the CYPHER AVENUE PODCAST where you’ll hear us give updates, engage in heated topic debates, interviewing interesting homosexual men of color and us verbally adding on to the articles posted on the website.
The episodes will be available in three ways: You can listen to them on the site, watch on YouTube or download a MP3 version to your computer for listening on you commute to work or while you’re at the gym!
In this podcast, Ocky Williams and Nick Delmacy join five members of Cypher Avenue to discuss dating, sex, relationships and the Cypher Ave article “The 15 Reasons You Are NOT Relationship Material.”
Cypher Avenue Guests of the Podcast Include:
00:00 – Intro
00:35 – Happy New Year
2:30 – Roundtable Guests Introduction
5:43 – The 15 Reasons You Are NOT Relationship Material
16:40 – Rox808’s take on how to be secure in dating
24:03 – Drewski, the youngest guest on the show, gives his take on the article
26:58 – Jonah encourages gay men to have a “Hoe Phase”
34:19 – Long Distance Relationships
35:38 – When did you shift from being a Hoe to wanting a Relationship?
42:35 – Do Self Esteem Issues and Insecurities get in the way of Dating?
50:25 – Are All Gay Black Men OBSESSED With Relationships?
58:05 – Our Parents Weren’t Perfect…Is Seeking A Perfect Relationship A Delusion?
1:01:00 – Is focusing on Career and Money instead of Dating a BAD thing?
1:06:00 – Why can’t you have sex or sexual contact on the first date? What’s the big deal?
1:21:56 – “Time Fillers” Dating men you have no intention of keeping
1:24:33 – Does MASCULINITY matter when choosing men to date?
1:32:33 – Wrapping Up & 2014 Outlooks