3 Important Life Rules by Iyanla Vanzant   

-Be honest with yourself and tell the truth.  Don’t lie on yourself or on others.

-Be able to forgive yourself and others for past deeds.  Holding on and carrying angry bagging will only hinder, slow you down and hold you back.

-Make choices that honor you and your integrity.  Don’t be afraid to say “NO” or hurting someone’s feelings, if it means the decision will compromise your honor and self respect.