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Fuck all this heteronormative bullshit. "Bottom" and "top" are sexual positions. Not gender or personality roles. People need to stop equating them as such.

 

I think bisexuality is taboo because it forces people to see sexuality as a spectrum and not a category.

 

Nahhhh that's santorum, heavy on the lube. The colon (and rectum and anus for that matter) is not a vagina. Im not aware of it producing all manner of secretions during sex, like female organs could.

"But but but, doesn't the colon have mucus cells?" I hear you ask. Yes, there are mucus-secreting cells there, but when you look at the histology of the colon, the tissue is mostly cells that absorb stuff (water mostly, a lot of what the colon does!). The mucus is there mostly as protection.

So, naaah. Naaaaahhh. Any wetness down there is gonna be santorum or the dudes nut. Dudes need to stop calling their booties *ussy or bussy or mussy and whatever the hell else they do these days. The booty just doesnt work that way. And youre not a woman.

Now imma go back to..um...investigating those vids.

 

Me watching Lesbian porn:

 

I have a couple fetishes. I am a top that likes guys bigger than me in stature and "down there." It's a psychological dominance thing that turns me on...being the aggressor when physiologically, I am not, in comparison. I'm kind of a nerd, and am reserved, laid back and pretty chill. My sexual alter ego is just the opposite, so the dominance thing, I guess, just fits into that. My other fetish is hands. I notice hands and become attracted to a person because of them. I kinda think that has something to do with the fact that I play piano; hands are something that just kinda stand out to me. But my junk will get hard if I see a guy with nice hands.

I once dated a guy who liked to ride me and would turn around to grab my feet when he was ready to nut. Feet were like another sexual organ to him.

 

"“Today, I’m not only sorry for what happened, but I condemn it. That’s why I looked for help and I am certain everything will be cleared. Likewise, I’m following the process and am always willing to collaborate with authorities to prevent the evil that resulted from this big mistake. More importantly, I ask my family for forgiveness. They are my life’s priority and I will continue to fight for them always.”"

I wish I knew what the apology was for or why it was needed. What exactly needs to be cleared? WTF do you need to speak with authorities about?...to prevent evil? Oh now I get it...

Translation:

I jacked off in a film over a decade ago that was apart of a gay film and since the world (God) hates queers and fags, (but not big booty whores, simulated fornication, drugs and liquor in music videos) I'm so sorry for being 'attached' to some gay homo shit. I'm not gay I love women (see my music videos) and my team (via PR firm statements) will get to the bottom of why I needed money to jack off on video while seeking fame and stardom.

Fuk him and his Kevin Hart apology.

 

I could, but I'm weird. I don't think most could. I'm more interested in other things instead of making sure you can dick someone down or take dick. The way I see it I'm not going to be fucking when I'm using a walker and falling over and shit. I need someone that'll help me up not pound me further into the floor.

 

There's nothing wrong with beugh a masvjmasc total bottom.

I think because people have associated bottoming with femininity and the fact that mostly fem bottoms tend to be visible in the media, it's harder for people to imagine masc total bottoms especially black ones.

Just do you.

 

I just wanna drag my ball sack across his face....sexy ass fucka.

 

'Tops' havent gone anywhere, we're just inundated n overwhelmed w dudes who wana be treated like ladies. Grab ur fukn nuts n man the fuck up! Shyt pisses me off.

 

I'm going to take the initiative to start an argument with one of these types of dudes just to see what type of bottom shaming insults they're gonna spew, meanwhile on their quest for raw daddy dick.

 

Naw, this is good topic.

The fact that I don't like anal sex and the thought of STD's keep me from hoeing. School and work keeps me busy.

 

Most time the guys with this mentality are über fems and carry a similar mentality as that of a woman being courted by a bisexual man would have. Other times (I dealt with a guy like this, in the military) it could be a semi masc (if even masc on occasion) guy that feels a vers guy is "tainted" and feels that he'd be allowing someone "less than" to run up in him, despite the fact that he himself gets run up in. Either way, it boils down to hetero-normative, feminine ways of thinking.

I personally don't understand it and have never understood it. To me a d!ck is a d!ck. If I like a dude and I'm feelin him enough to let him run up in me, I don't give a f@#k what has run up in him.

 

Lmfao! WTF is a "real top?" As opposed to a "fake top?" The one thing I've learned is one man's top is another man's bottom and vice versa. There are very few tops who won't bottom for the right dude under the right circumstances and very few bottoms who won't top when the need or urge arises. Unfortunately too many gay men are stuck in outmoded ways of thinking. Total bottoms need to step their game up.

 

Braziliian gay porn... the Carter family approves

 

Its Possible That:

*He has the mindset of a straight Black woman. Meaning if anything has been near a dude's round eye besides toilet paper and soap...he is gay / not a real man.

*He is the type of dude who likes a dude to call his doughnut hole, pussy or man-gina or boy-pussy, etc.

*Its simple and actually makes sense. If a masc dude is versatile or a versatile top and he is a total bottom, that means he feels he would not be able to satisfy his man sexually and thinks the guy he may fall in love with may actually cheat on him due to not being completely sexually fulfilled or satisfied. Relating back to the first point. For women they feel like well, if its another woman, I can deal with that, but how could I compete if he is cheating with another man?

My office hours are Monday - Thursday 9am - 5pm. By appointment only. No Blacks, Asians, Fats, Jews, Fems, Democrats, People from California, Portuguese, Persians, Northern Irish, Southern New Zealanders, residents of Quebec of the last 7 years, people with freckles (gross), those who eat baking soda, people who are scared of their own farts, vegans, vegetarians, Hippies, Protestants, goat herders, Civil War veterans and people who are left handed. All others welcome.

 

Wussies!

I got's no shame so I'll step up.
I've had a few fetishes in my time, mostly involving dress up and role play.
For some reason I've always been turned on by home and auto repair. Watching a dude lay on the floor working under a sink or a car, used to be a really big turn on.
My ex and I used to like to wrestle and cuff and tie each other up.
I also used to like to head down near the bridge late at night and he'd go for a drive and he'd pick me up like a stranger and find a spot where we'd get down and dirty.

 

Mmmmm I think I'm good on the no fap.

 

ONLY women can get a pass.

A woman can eat 1545 coochies with no care. A man cannot do that sucking even 1 dingaling lol.

The way our social construct is set up and the heteronormative, a man is gay if he does anything sexual not with a female. It will have to be dismantled in order to change. Religion and the way society views sexuality ain't helping the effort of doing so.

 

Ha. Just thought about this the other day. I was in my twenties working at the W hotel. I had a co-worker who I could not tell if he was gay or not, but he was very attractive.

He started to spark up conversation with me more and more which made me even more curious. Eventually the flirting and mutual attraction was obvious and he told me to meet him upstairs on the 3rd floor. We both had positions where we had to walk around the hotel during our shifts and could disappear.

Long story short, dude ended up asking me to meet him in the linen closet and we straight up fucked. LOL. Such a slut ass moment for me but I remember it vividly. It was pretty fun and exciting. I still have him as a friend on Facebook.

 

So true. It really depends on the relationship and dude. Like I would prob be pretty open minded to almost anything freaky. But only w/ someone I knew for a long time.

If its a person u want for long term; it's better to wait get to know the person and slowly drop hints, clues, and jokes about what u like.

p.s. when I think of the topic I think if Isaa in the Insecure scene w/ the eye patch. I guess it was a lil too freaky for her
baaa haaa lol

 

I've kind of come to realize maybe many men actually have a bi-sex appetite when it comes to sex. And of course they never admit it. Its actually mind boggling the amount of men that live life as presumably 100% straight that have a fetish, kink, or appetite for men on men sex in some form.

But of course they can't explore that without the label as gay being placed on them right away. When you look at many "DL" scenarios of all races, many men just really like sex and may want or like the experience of sex with a man.

That doesn't make them gay, they just had homosexual sex. They may have no desire to live life with and love a man full time. The whole thing can get very complicated if you ask me.

 

Others here probably have more experience in this area than me, but I would say if you really like this guy I would def recommend having a discussion and making the “sex tutorials” a part of the play. I think there are def ways to have that convo without it coming off like you’re trying to offend him, especially if you also ask him what areas you can improve in for him as well.

 

People forget HIV isn't the only disease out there there is also HPV, herpes, and now drug resistant syphilis......very scary.

 

I think it's normal to draw from past sexual experiences when masturbating without porn. It's natural. You have to find a way to arouse yourself and your memory bank is the best way to do that. It's filled with memories of one night flings, but also if we're being realistic, if you had a longterm partner, you obviously had sex with them on a regular basis and that's going to be a huge chunk of your sexual memory as well. I don't think that's really different from porn. You don't necessarily want to go out and marry the dudes you see in a porn video. Likewise, just because you think about sex with your ex doesn't necessarily mean you want to get back with them.

 

Me...

 

If a dude's ass gets naturally wet like a female, I would suggest he get medical attention ASAP.

I imagine that any wetness you may see is probably a combination of lube, pre-cum, saliva, and sweat. None of it was produced by the ass itself.

The videos you posted look like the dude possibly just nutted inside the other one and kept going. Some dudes have a much shorter refractory period and are able to achieve orgasm and continue going.

 

Well I think that's currently the weakness of masculinity. In hetero-normative society, there are many things a man can do and retain his "manhood." Nowadays, male affection isn't one of them. That wasn't always the case though. Men used to be very friendly with one another.

Male Affection: A Photographic History Tour | The Art of Manliness

Being bisexual also brings "manhood" into question. Too many people think that bi people don't exist. Too many women wouldn't date bisexual men. The threat and shame of being feminized is what keeps bisexual men DL, not to mention all the other implications like religion. I'm afraid the stakes are too high for men to openly be bisexual and retain the respect that a straight man would in this society. That's my take on it at least. Anyone else feels the same or different?

 

So I have a question for well I guess everyone. Would you be able to be in a relationship with someone that is the same role sexually as you? Why or why not? For the vers dudes a.k.a. Divergents would you be able to be with someone that is not vers? I could date someone that is the "same role" but I think that's only because I don't need to deal with penetration in order to enjoy sex. Then again I could be damn near asexual. I don't necessarily see the point in placing sex as a top priority when we can get that at any point in time from anyone.

 

I think that it's best to let people label themselves. Let them identity as whatever they want to be. If a man has sex with women and wants to identify as gay, then that is their choice. If a man has had sex with another man but wants to identify as straight, then let him. We can't make those kind of choices for other people. Truthfully, I don't really care to either.

 

At this point in my life, I don't think I can truly be with anyone who's a total anything. I truly believe that with your partner you should be open to and try almost anything (within reason). That's not to say you'll like it, but you won't know until you try with that person. I'm a true testament to not liking something with one person, and loving it with another, but I'm all about connection.

Now, have I been in situations with a total __, of course, but I was never quite fulfilled. Do I have a preference, absolutely, but I need options lol. (Even though I've said all this, I can renege on all of it for the right one LOL)

 

Me @ this entire thread

 

"I have a dream that one day Black tops and Black bottoms can cum together...Freak at last, Freak at last!"