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  1. cypher21

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    Divergents? lol!!

    That's a great question, I think I'm in a unique position where I don't exactly know what my sexual role is because I haven't had any yet so sometimes I wonder how much of a problem that might be down the line. If I'm with a guy and he's expecting me to be a certain role I might not enjoy I don't think I'd care as much as he would because he's already used to one thing. I agree with you that sex isn't the most important thing, but I get why others like to know these things early on though.
     
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    No gold star for me. Shyt, Im 5 mins away from goin str8 again since yall gays dont know how to act right.
     
  3. Juan-Carlos

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    Juan-Carlos has contributed many posts over the years to Cypher Avenue for which we have always been appreciative. He closed out 2019 with a surprise submission that reminded me of one of his first submissions 7 years ago . This time around he has a Q & A with a gentlemen that some of you may be familiar with. I know I’ve watched many of this gentlemen’s voyeuristic ‘hidden cam’ videos over the years with passing questions in my mind about the producer and his participants. Interestingly enough Juan-Carlos was able to get answers to those questions and a few I hadn’t thought of.

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    I’m closing out my fetish article series and 2019 with an authentic interview that took three months in the making to procure. For the porn viewer, user, aficionado, I present….. Dikksukka.

    I learned of Dikksukka’s vids years ago while exploring Pornhub. The video’s premise was a simple one showing a hookup between two consenting men while only one knew of the filming. The fetish element is a No. 2 combo. There’s voyeurism (watching others naked or having sex) and role-play (acting out a sexual fantasy with a partner). This has all the makings of a suspenseful thriller. You have a chance meeting with a stranger, a taboo encounter waxing with excitement and wanes with an explosive finish of carnal pleasure.

    Despite subjective opinion, he has over 8.6k subscribers and over 100 clips, teasers, and vids on his Xtube channel. I thought his story is of value if not wholly fascinating. Perhaps you will agree, disagree or draw your conclusion.

    I present my Q & A with the Urban Legend himself……Diksukka.

    Q1) What motivated you to consider filming your scenes? I like the idea of the scene’s set up is like a “hookup” situation with a stranger.

    A1) The inner whore in me. I accidentally filmed a guy in 2008 whose dick I was sucking and was turned on by his body jerking and his obliviousness of the camera. That made me want to see more guys (the ones that I hook up with) and their authentic reaction to my dome skills.

    Q2) How do you meet or choose the men that are featured in each scene and do they know that they are being filmed? That is another element that is hot for I assume that all if not most are DL.

    A2) The guys choose me. No one knows the camera is going which is why I don’t show their faces. Over the years, guys who love my vids have asked to be in them. So, if it’s one of those guys, then, of course, they know of the camera. I honestly don’t get turned on as much when a guy knows there’s a camera going because it detracts from the authenticity of the video.

    Q3) What city/area are most of the scenes are filmed especially the utility room scene?

    A3) Not gonna say. I’m on the east coast so the vids are filmed from NY down the eastern corridor to FL.

    Q4) Did you ever have a scene go unexpectedly left in the worst way for an example like he changed his mind last minute, expected money (hustler), or got caught recording?

    A4) Yes, not caught like he found the camera but gone awry in the sense the guy was a mental case and pushed me forcibly to the ground and threatened me with bodily harm. I was also robbed of $10 or $20 by another guy who was preying on prostitutes to rob. Those have been my worst experiences to date which are not that bad considering how frequently I meet strangers. [And] not as bad as some horror stories I’ve heard from other free spirits.

    Q5) What was your hottest or favorite hookup or scene?

    A5) My two are titled, “Hottest Boy This Spring” and another vid I lost track of. It was part of a “Hot & Horny” combo, but I don’t remember the name.

    Q6) I know keeping your identity secret is personal while filming and you extend that courtesy by blurring the face of your partner in each scene. Has someone who you’ve hooked up with within a scene ever seen themselves online and if so, how did they respond or react with you?

    A6) Yes, I have had a handful of guys I’ve had to tell me they saw themselves online with me. I’ve had some guy troll the area I’ve met them in and threaten me (only to follow behind me and make me another video…LOL). I’ve had other guys follow me (to the cam ready utility room) only to stop before entering where they know I’ve filmed us before and insist on a different suck spot. [And], unfortunately, I’ve had a guy tell me that I was the cause of his relationship ending because his boyfriend recognized his dick and voice in the video.

    Q7) Being an avant-garde entrepreneur, is there another project in the works and how long would you consider in continuing the “Diksukka” series?

    A7) Yes, the other project is years in the making. I’d say the “Diksukka” series is over. I haven’t posted in years and the website ( www.diksukka.biz ) I once had is no longer around. I might post more diksukka vids in the future as I have so many more vids that haven’t been posted. But, as for now, it’s over. There will be occasional specials in years to “cum”.

    Q8) Has anyone ever recognized you or discovered your alter ego and if so, what happened?

    A8) Yes, LOL, actually, my best friend’s boyfriend. It was awkward. My best friend, who is like a brother to me, didn’t appreciate his boyfriend approaching me on some… “I like your videos” type shit. The boyfriend stopped. However, when my response wasn’t positive, he and my best friend continued their relationship until it ended. I don’t believe I was the reason for their relationship ending. But, I am aware my best friend didn’t like the fact that his boyfriend was a fan.

    Q9) I know monetizing your work maximally is the goal for the endgame is making $$$. Is it a
    challenge to do so on the porn sites and how do you keep your work and postings proprietary?

    A9) I’d say it was the focus when I first started (making money), but now, I don’t care. Proprietary in this day and age is very difficult. My premium videos can be downloaded for free off of several porn sites. Once upon a time, I’d fight and contact all of the porn sites like Xtube and Xvideos.com to remove my vids from a user’s profile because of copyright infringement. Nowadays, I just appreciate the love.

    Q10) Sexual health is of everyone’s concern and responsibility. In your videos, you always have your partner use a condom. Have you ever been exposed to any other STIs from performing oral pre-condom?

    A10) To my knowledge, I’ve never had an STD or STI. I am, as of today, HIV negative and have no STIs I know of. One thing I always have in my pocket is Listerine. I gurgle until it burns my mouth after every suck. I rarely am anally penetrated without a condom. So, I’m sure these practices have kept me from contracting sexually transmitted diseases and infections. [With], that said, I’ve gotten weak and have allowed guys to penetrate me raw. I’ve always felt guilty and paranoid about catching something after each shag. I get checked monthly at free clinics and have no problem telling the workers at the clinic that I’ve been exposed to STDs so I can get a penicillin shot. [And], yes, I have had sex (sucked dick) of men who are HIV positive. It is not a regular occurrence, but it is something I’ve done in the past when I was caught up.

    Q11) Have you ever tried or considered to maintain a regular and or dating “relationship” with anyone you have hooked up with?

    A11) No, men are generally dogs and I don’t mean that condescendingly. I just understand how men operate in general. [With], that understanding, coupled with my thirst for multiple and new dicks does not make well for relationships. So, no regular relationships for me. I’ve fantasized about some of the guys who are my regulars, but they’re either with some chick or got multiple baby mamas who be in their men’s phones. So, no, I’ll stay single.

    Q12) Have you ever hooked up with a celebrity knowingly or unknowingly and if so what can you share as a blind item without outing them?

    A12) Yes, 3 or 4…knowingly. One is a Jersey native and has a big dick. That’s all I’m giving away. The other 3 had nice dicks and are not originally from the NYC area.

    Q13) Now, a personal question from me, if you don’t mind to oblige? The hottest scene if yours is when you were with this guy with a red fitted, athletic build, and a nice piece on him. I imagine him being sexy af with a mean swagg. What can you share about how you met and set up that hookup?

    A13) I wonder if you’re talking about the vid, “Hottest Boy This Spring?

    Q13) Yes, that is the one and he is mos def memorable.

    A13) This is pretty accurate and exactly how I remember and I was in heaven. I see this dude walking home from a BBQ and I say to myself, “I gotta have him.” I don’t know what it was and I usually don’t ever approach but I made it a point of catching up to him as he was walking. When I was close enough, I sorta zipped in front of him with only the cutest booty jeans on. LMAO. I’m so dumb but he was so phine. Okay, so now I sound like I’m back in school. So, as I smiled and looked back he smirked and said,” Wassup with that?” I was like, “Huh?” like I didn’t know what he meant. I was like with what….this (pointing and cupping my booty in my hands)? He said that I was wild and started to follow me into a cut. I eyed quick fast as he was following me. I looked behind myself because I love to see dudes following me and getting hot from looking at my assets. LOL. As he was following me, he was grabbing his dik through his jeans. Damn! So, without any hesitation, I moved his hand away once we were in some people’s driveway and grabbed his Right guard can of a dik myself. Oh, my Jesus, I’ve gone to heaven”. Falling to my knees, I did some suk-dik combo on his pipe and all I heard was him moaning and panting like he’d been expecting me. The funniest thing is when I spotted dude, I was with my friend and we were about to jump on the train. [And] when my friend saw me eyeing the dude, he said,” Shit, you better go on and get that.” I’m so glad that I did. So, I tell this phine ass dude to follow me to a better spot and when we arrived, he fucks me like a bitch. LOL I gotta say now that I’m getting fucked more I’m noticing how much of a bitch I really am. I sound like one and for all intents and purposes feel like I become one especially when dudes say,” You’re my bitch, right?” or “This pussy all mine?” Damn, I’m getting hot thinking about it. This was Memorial Day weekend 2010.

    Q13) Hot for sure and he’s mos def my type. I’m not a bottom but oral and jacking definitely.

    A13) Gotcha, he’s a mouthful.

    Q14) I can tell, by his body language, that he is DL or possibly even Bi just by the way he was stroking and where he placed his hands on you.

    A14) Well, I stopped trying to label guys years ago. I don’t know what sexual category he falls into all I know is that he is phine. Most times, when guys are fucking me, are touching my dick and it annoys me but I let him a little and it turned me on. I also remember his sexy voice.

    Q15) Thank you for your time and for obliging me and my questions.

    A15) You got it and thank you, too.

    I salute Diksukka and his bold sharings of his hot sexploits.

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    Cypher Avenue absolutely respects the honesty of Dikksukka and taking the time to reply. We’re also looking forward to what Juan-Carlos will bring us in 2020.
     
  4. Nick Delmacy

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    For years I’ve had conversations with @OckyDub about how ironic it is that we both have a long history of following (and collecting) gay and straight porn, yet we’ve had such a hard stance on smut not being prominently displayed on our websites.

    As seen with Juan Carlos’s recent post on sexually fluid porn stars, we’ve since accepted that we need to live in our truths and discuss smut if we want to, explicit photos and all. Since we’ve become more lenient on pornography being posted and discussed on the site, I felt it was time to give out some belts.

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    We’re planning to drop a Best Gay Porn Performers of All Time list later this year and we need your help.

    For those of us Porn Aficionados in the Squad, which Straight and Gay porn Studios and Performers would you nominate for the ALL-TIME PORN CHAMPIONSHIP BELTS?

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    This is not just Black Gay Porn, you can choose from Latino and Interracial Porn as well.

    Since there are so many, um…specialties in porn (and most of you guys probably don’t follow it as closely as maybe I do), I decided to break the nominations down into a few categories:

    GAY PORN
    • All Time Gay Porn Studio Championship Belt (Myvidster, XTube and PornHub don’t count)
    • All Time Bottom Performer Championship Belt
    • All Time Top Performer Championship Belt
    • All Time Vers Performer Championship Belt
    • All Time Best Porn Body Championship Belt (Some guys have amazing “assets” even though they are not the best performers)
    NON-GAY PORN
    • All Time Bisexual Performer Championship Belt
    • All Time Straight Performer Championship Belt
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    Nominate by posting a comment with your selections below. Vote on nominations by Dapping (aka liking) someone else’s comment. Posts with the most Daps (aka Up-Votes) make it to the Finals.

    Vote for any category you want and if you don’t know the performer or studio name, you can just post photos instead…Preferably nothing ‘too’ explicit but even if you must, this is a NSFW thread, so members should click on it at their own risk.

    Remember these are ALL-TIME nominations, not just for this year. So if you want, feel free to nominate Big City Video and Chocolate Cream,the early aughts studios that both gave us this notorious room:

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  5. Nick Delmacy

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    This is mad random but does anyone have any thoughts on 35-year old biracial porn star Austin Wilde?

    Ten years in porn, he mostly only does interracial scenes...but he's half-white himself, so isn't this fine?

    In an interview he said:
    But all of his boyfriends have been white. Famously, it turned out that he was the porn star that NFL draft pick Michael Sam's white boyfriend Vito Cammisano had dated in the past. And he dated a fellow porn star Anthony Romero for some years...

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    He started his own porn studio (Guys In Sweatpants) when he got fired from two White Porn Studios for disagreeing with their being lax on bareback sex and for wanting him to film orgy scenes with gay-for-pay guys.

    So he has some integrity and became an entrepreneur employing others, many of them Men of Color on his own website (where he has a couple scenes of him having sex with Black men).

    But then again, he had a problem with bareback sex in the past, but now that he produces porn as an owner he has bareback on his own site.

    So, what are your thoughts? :thinking:


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  6. Nick Delmacy

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    For anyone wondering why a lot of Black Gay Porn looks bad and features fewer "quality" Black models:

    Porn Star Hoody La'Vaye puts Black Rayne Productions (Breed It Raw, Raw City Twinks) on blast for not being paid after filming 3 scenes.











     
  7. Fanon

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    Although I found this hilarious, does your first time really hurt THAT much? An inquiring and inexperienced mind would like to know...lol
     
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    So I recently realized that I've seen a lot of my gay male friends naked and have kissed or gone even further with them. Sometimes it was before we became good friends, other times we just happened to be in the same place and horny. It has never ruined any of my friendships and things have never gotten awkward, but I was wondering if that was something other people did?

    I'm a very sex positive person, and I don't shame anyone, nor do I tell others of my exploits, so I guess that's part of the reason it hasn't been awkward. I've also never had full sex with any of my friends, but we have a threesome with others before lol. I've also never truly dated a friend of mine either.

    So my question is, have you had any dealings that were more than friendly with your friends and did it negatively impact your friendship?
     
  9. Jaa

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    I was browsing black bear community-focused MaleMediaMind.com. They had a seemingly short-lived podcast and have an active Youtube channel (and an Instagram and Tumblr filled with Beef Cake of various shapes and sizes).

    Several of their videos are Google Hangouts and reminded me of video-assisted versions of the roundtable podcasts, and these two made me laugh. The sentiments of "there are too many bottoms" and a lack of "real" tops make me wonder about their origin. I've seen comments online stating that several, if not all, major US metropolitan areas are suffering from a drought of tops. It's something I don't encounter all the time so maybe these thoughts are only said by a small, vocal subset, but it begs the questions "Why are there so few tops, or what gives some this perception?" and "What exactly is a real top?"

    I'm guessing it's pretty simple. A) Fem guys are more visible and more often presumed as bottoms, and some vocal men consider a very narrow subset of people to be "real tops". B) These vocal men are really into traditional gender roles and want a man that fits their narrow masculine expectations.

    In the second video, one guy says he's heard bottoms say that, even if their prospect bottomed in an early sexual experience and now only tops, he would still see him as a bottom. I guess he wants a "total top" who would never allow anyone to touch his booty hole, the kind of thinking you hear from those who say Tank is suspect after revealing he likes a tongue down there. I wonder what instills this thinking.

    Anyway, their observations and reader reactions are kinda funny.



     
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    Days after the Kanye/Amber Rose/Wiz Khalifa "finger in the booty" nonsense, Tank is representing for the straight brothers who like a little tongue action down there. In a Breakfast Club interview, he says an older woman introduced him to getting eaten out, saying it tickled at first but, ten minutes later, he was spreading his cheeks and saying, "Get in there!" He declares that he only allows a tongue. I'd think his people and heterosexual standards would make him refrain from such candid statements, but I like hearing people comfortably discuss somewhat taboo topics that will likely make some look at them a little funny. The topic begins around 15:30.

     
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    This is interesting because he is a pretty masculine dude and I was surprised at his views.
    He made some good points.
     
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