Have You Seen Your Friends Naked?

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  1. No.

  2. I've seen 1

  3. I've seen 2 or 3

  4. I've seen 4+

  5. I've seen every last one of my friends naked as the day they came.

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  1. ControlledXaos

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    Have You Seen Your Friends Naked?

    So if you haven't seen @Ockydub's naked spa post, this is what spawned this topic. You may want to watch that first for context here.

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    I have seen some friends in various states of undress. I do not think that it is a big deal. Though I found it interesting how it was such a big deal for the one guy (Casey) in the video to see his friends junk. We gay men, well most of us, see naked dudes all the time. It doesn't mean it has to sexual though. I found it interesting how the guy who was cool with it (Bart) was like "oh yeah we saw whats his face's dick " cause I'm thinking: ok, dude, who I assume is straight, do you remember all of the details of old boy's bits? Lol Well he did recall the thigh lions.

    "We're not homies unless we've seen each other's dicks. " - Bart Kwan upload_2017-2-22_22-54-13.png

    I think things are only weird if you make them weird. Now, considering the guys in the video were going to the Korean spa where nudity is expected, this context would be acceptable. Or for that matter you all went to the pool, beach, gym etc and you needed to change clothes in near each other either before and or after. Or hell Y'all could be at sex party or nude beach if that's your thing.

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    I'm not a nudist but I think sometimes people can make a bigger deal about nudity than needed. As long as there's no cameras and recording going on, I'm cool. I also think that when we are blasted with images of guys who have 'perfect' bodies, that if you are average, thin, or overweight, body acceptance can be hard if you don't fit that thin lane of what's considered generally attractive. Then, you may feel a little bit jealous of your friends who may be in better shape or have bigger schlongs or phatter asses. Which, I think, should not be an issue. They are your friends. You're not in a romantic relationship with them for these things to mater. Don't forget,that even those 'perfect body' guys have insecurities as well though. We never know what people may be confident on or insecure about until they express it even if we'd think they have every reason to want to hide or be proud.

    There's definitely different opinions/comfort levels here which could be based on what you're used to. Maybe for religious reasons you may not see other nude males. Or you are used to it because you played a team sport and the team used open communal showers. So you are used to seeing dicks and asses swinging and jiggling in the wind. However in the video mentioned, I got the impression that they were all just bonding as friends. You could tell that their being nude at the jjimjilbang wasn't even a big deal to anyone.

    Though, I imagine that someone out there in cyberland probably has turned pouring ice cold water on their penis into a fetish.

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    So, have you seen your friends nude? Was it weird? Was it no big deal?
     
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    I'm gonna say that I haven't seen my friends nude because I'm not including "friends" who I have slept with at one point.....

    As far as strictly platonic friends goes, I think I've been socialized to think it's just weird to see them nude. I'd rather not, and just have everything left up to imagination. Even with dudes I'm interested in romantically. Yes, I'm visually stimulated like any other red-blooded male and if we're dating, I do wanna see you naked at some point. But I like to get to know you first. I don't even want to receive dick and ass pics. Maybe I'm just a prude.
     
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    I prefer not to see my friends naked and vice versa. Though I have seen friends naked, even straight friends before. The times it did happen they were really drunk and it was never a sexual thing.
     
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    Again, context. But I'm not gonna be saying "Aye! Can you send me that photo you sent to muscleVerse1989 on jackd?" Lol or would I be like gratuitously naked with it all hanging out if we were in the changing room of the water park either.
     
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    I think this is more common for (straight) guys who are athletic and/or participate in group sports a lot. Those locker room showers and shenanigans allow for it. I remember those the open nudity back in the locker rooms at gym class in high school. I can't imagine that it would change much for adult athletes who happen to also be friends.
     
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    Only my females friends. I would LOVEEEEEEEEEEEE to see the one male friends I have naked. But I am always horny and feel strange being naked with any man platonically.
     
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    Ive never seen any of my friends nude. Even w the recent SB3 Brooklyn shenanigans that SB3 had nothing to do with, I didn't actually see anything other than the 'guest', lol.

    But, as a performer, Im very used to seeing both men and women nude due to constant costume/wardrobe changes. I just can't say the same for any of my actual friends.
     
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    Your female friends just treat you like one of the girls, huh?

    "oh it's OK, Quarnitra, he gay. Hen't worried about your tiddies, girl. " lol
     
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    Hmmm, I think for purposes of this exercise I will use the friend loosely. I have seen a decent amount of friends. naked both straight and gay, all in non-sexual contexts. I attended naked yoga with some friends a couple times...my military days there was a surprising amount of nudity. My college mates were always naked in a straight bro kind of way. I went to a bathhouse once and saw some dudes from my friend group get naked but none of those situations were sexual from my perspective. I don't understand our complex with nudity in America, shit a dick is a dick. LOL.

    I have seen a fair amount of my "Girlfriends" naked. They all seem to think it's appropriate to get naked in front of me because I don't happen to want to have sex with their lady parts...
     
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    But it's not like they are buck naked backstage with one leg propped up on a chair while leaning in to talk about last night's episode of Special Victims Unit. More like pulled off drawz, an ass or dick flash, put on sweats, and keep moving. That's more what my line of thinking was with this post.

    Sure the dudes in the video are down to the the Korean spa, a non sexual spa/bathhouse setting. In that case I wouldn't have a problem with it because it is goes with the territory. So if the crew was like : let's go down to spa and chill out. That would be OK for me. I'd probably not be down with the nude beach tho. Some places sand doesn't need to be. Nor would I be down with running a train on someone with the crew. I would prefer not to see any platonic friends' sex faces.
     
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    LMAO!
     
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    I never have but wouldn't care if I did. I would even be the dude that say, "look at you bro, great ass" or "nice dick" and laugh. Once your my friend and in the friend zone, you can seriously be fine as Fvck, and I would NEVER look at you in a sexual way. Therefore, if I saw you nude, its nothing to me.

    As far as the nude thing in general, I respect others if their uncomfortable with it. My personal take is Im very European when it comes to nudity. Dont see the big deal at all. Its a human body. Its always funny to me when America or Americans portray it self as such a free, liberal, country but in so many cases we can have the biggest hangups, are so conservative and downright prudes.
     
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    Actually, I just remembered that one of my str8 friends from college shot a poorly lit amateur porn video. It was just a camcorder sitting at a distance while he had sex with some random girl, changed the angles occasionally....she knew about it though. He proudly showed it to me and our other roommate.

    Although I thought he was attractive, it was my homeboy so I never really thought of him sexually. Besides, he was a pussy hound. I knew he had a decent body, but it was only after seeing that video that I realized just how "blessed" he was in that other area for a short guy (he's 5'6"). He eventually moved back up north but we're still friends, we talk/text all the time.
     
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    I have seen almost all of my high school friends naked because i went to boarding school and we had this huge open showering area...
    it didnt start being weird seeing another dude naked until i moved to the U.S. I certainly would be nervous to accidentally see a dick of someone I am attracted to, but I've conditioned to think "geesh it's just a dick and balls, every man has them".
     
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    It's a small sample but I find it interesting that the poll is pretty balanced.
     
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    I have seen plenty of my friends naked. Again, it’s no big deal to me either. When I was a freshman in college, my residence hall/dorm had open showers so it was nothing to walk into the shower and see naked dudes. If anything, it taught us to be comfortable with our bodies or to be comfortable with not having friends due to the stench of body odor all because you didn’t want to shower around other dudes. I’ve seen a couple of my best friends naked and it wasn’t awkward at all. What was awkward was changing in a big tent after a race with one of my best friends and seeing another dude literally stalling around so he could see what I looked like when my towel dropped…
     
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    Went to a bathhouse with a boyfriend & my best friend years ago. They were both packing & I’m average at best but to see my friend naked didn’t turn me on or make me feel strange, but when he looked at my BF’s peen before he wrapped that towel around his waist….I felt a little odd. My first & only time in a place like that. I felt like I was gonna have scarlet fever, diphtheria or some other nasty shit once I left that place. Nastiest place in the world!
     
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    DUDES SEEING DUDES NAKED IS NOT A WRONG OR BAD THING. SAYING HURTFUL THINGS ABOUT A DUDE’S BODY [EVEN IF IT IS TRUE] IS NOT COOL. YOU WOULD BE SURPRISE THAT SOME FELLAS DON’T MIND WHEN YOU HAVE A WONDERING EYE. EVEN STRAIGHT GUYS TAKE A PEEK FROM TIME TO TIME. SEEING MY BUDDIES NAKED IS COOL TO ME. ITS ALSO TRUE AFTER AWHILE IT DOESN’T MATTER BEING NUDE. GUYS IN THE GYM LOCKER ROOM MAKING A ISSUE OF BEING PEEKED AT IS SOMETIMES UNCALLEDFOR. MOST FRIENDS , NUDITY IS NOT AN ISSUE , IT’S JUST FUN WHEN THERE ARE LOTS OF HOT MUSCLE MEN AROUND THAT ARE NUDE. LOL
     
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    I think my logic would force me to make it a non-issue but here is a thought...

    What about co-workers? Meaning men in the military or athletes (high school to professional). I've never heard of an issue with them.
     
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    I think as far as pro sports players and military goes, you just have to deal with it.

    A pro sports player has been seen naked around others dudes for his whole life. People in the world military may be different but then in both cases, a rookie and a new recruit don't know any of those guys personally until I get few weeks in as they get to know people. I'm guessing people in the military who may not have had those experiences and get broken down in a way just have to deal with it until it becomes the norm for them I'm guessing.
     
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    I think it's generational too. If you're 40+, they answer is most likely yes, you've seen friends nude. My grandfather's generation grew up when males were actually made to swim naked in high school gym classes and at the Y, let alone the usual locker room changing. It's 180 degrees different with millenials. It's interesting to see how culture and mores go back and forth. You can see the corkscrew turning of history in terms of male nudity. Relaxed attitudes in the 1890s (many of the first films were Edison et al filming nude men in athletic motion), 1920s, WW2, 1970s, 1990s; conservative relapses in the 1910s, 1930s, 1950s, 1980s...
    Until Fairly Recently, The YMCA Actually Required Swimmers To Be Nude
     
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    I've only seen two guys naked and that was back in high school when i was on the volleyball team my freshmen year but other than that i haven't seen my male friends nude, though i do picture what some of them look like without clothes...
     
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    Most of my main friends (5) and I belong to the same gym and we shower and change in the same area! We swim in our pools and sit in our Jacuzzis together naked and do not bat an eye for anything. These are my friends not my sexual interest, there are boundaries which we as SGL men need to establish. Just because you see a man naked does not mean that sex is involved! If so you may need help! Please start thinking above the waist and not below the waist and your life will improve greatly. Most of us have partners and there are no other issues but the "Real Friendship Relationships” which we share and enjoy! We feel natural with or without our clothes on, some of have been taught that once you are nude then sex plays a part. Re-think and Re-wind your thinking, these are your friends not your lovers, sex partners or sexual interests. If this happens communications has never hurt to be honest to explore why? Sometimes when I am at home I like to walk around my home naked and if one of my friends comes by, they are not intimidated, because they know me; we are “REAL FRIENDS”; we have communicated and shared our lives together in so many ways. I guess maybe it may have something to do with my upbringing; my brothers and sisters and I always ran around the house naked up until the age when innocence ran out due to each of our own understanding. Now if you were to tell me that you feel uncomfortable about my nudeness then I will respect your wishes, but please give me a sound reason as to your point of view… We can work this out together that are what “FRIENDS ARE FOR…” THANKS…
     
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    I agree with this because in the gay community especially black in this context because the guys automatically think that seeing another guy nude means sex and that isn't always the case. This is an interesting perspective and viewpoint
     
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    I definitely agree that non heterosexual men need boundaries. However I think what's kinda twists things with us since we don't or didn't date and court early in adolescent stages like heterosexuals, a lot of us don't see other naked males until early adulthood. So if someone isn't used to seeing what they are attached to on the regular, I can see where nudity itself is sexualized.

    For me at least, when I was in college my freshman year, I didn't take showers until late at night or extra early in the morning to avoid the possibility of things "waking up" in the open showers if someone came in. I was full of hormones at the time, never saw any other guys naked in my age group, and couldn't control things at the time. But as time marched forward, I got used to seeing naked guys and got over the newness of it.

    I think some non hetero guys are compulsive when it comes to association of nudity with sex and never really disconnect the two. I wonder if these same guys get on rock at the doctor's office lol
     
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    I had an older cousin from my moms side and an older cousin from my dads side (both married with two kids) show me their dicks when I was little. Maybe they knew something I didn't and felt the need to show off? One let me touch it when he had just pissed. One cousin isn't attractive, the other isn't, but both had big ones. My light skin attractive cousin with green eyes dick was bigger tho. He the one that wanted me to touch it. lol.

    I saw my line brother's dick at the strip club before I knew I liked dudes. It was one of those bathrooms with no partitions and the urinal was low to the ground. First time I saw a light skin dude wit a dark skin dude's dick. lol.

    In a similar situation, while hiking, I saw a friend's dick when the one restroom at the park had two urinals, separated by two inches. These shits were literally right next to each other. He is bisexual as well and while there was never anything sexual between us, he def gave me penis envy...his ole alabama snake ass. smart af too! yale undergrad, harvard grad...

    But what takes the cake for me as far as seeing friends naked, I walked in on a friend who was changing in my living room. This was before I knew I liked guys too but really soon before I realized it. I'm sure this was one thing that helped push me in that direction.

    I've worked out, do the whole gym thing and have seen plenty of guys naked in that context, but I have never seen a body that makes your heart drop. Lol. Like, I walked in and turned quickly back around because i realized I had gotten a little weak. Dude was a friend of a friend from college who recently moved to the city, we started hanging out, and he's on my roster of folk i kick it with. (this was back in my young urban professional days when I went out every night of the week. Literally.) He was not very attractive,, so even if I was into guys at the time, I wouldn't have looked at him like that. BUT, I didn't even see him in the front or what he was working with. What is saw was his shoulders, back and booty. He's African, dark skinned and was built like an MMA fighter. To this day, I've never seen a body like his...in my presence. Lol.
     
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    Unfortunately.....I've seen them in a state of undress...Or doing other things that require nudity....

    None of my friends have seen me naked...Which is strange..
     
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