What or How Long does it take to fall in love?

Discussion in 'Dating and Relationships' started by Kouncelor, Oct 23, 2015.

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  1. tigerbreaux

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    It is possible for someone to flourish in a relationship, but usually only makes the relationship exponentially harder for various reasons. The key phrase in your last reply is "working". You can be in a relationship and it not be working for everyone lol.
     
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    In my experience, the younger men (especially the young bottoms) are MORE eager to commit. Its the older masculine versatile men who like taking their time or playing the field...Just my experience though.
     
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    So, for these younger bottoms, would you consider them thirsty to confess their feelings for you a bit earlier than you might expect or like?
     
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    Thirsty for expressing feelings? Have you read any of my posts in this thread? LOL

    Being worried about Thisty People is for Instagram Narcissists. "Thirst" shouldn't even be in a dude's vocabulary if you're on the market and actually dating someone. He's not "thirsty," he's dating you and decided that he doesn't need to test drive the car for 6 more months before signing the lease.
     
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    And I say all this as someone who's not really fantasizing about being in a relationship like many dudes...But I am one of those "shit or get off of the pot" type men now...

    This kinda applies to all situations. Even when @ockydub tells me to "pencil him in" when asked to hangout. I be like, "Bitch fuck you then, invitation rescinded." LOL Either you can do it or you can't.

    That's how I feel about dating now too. You're invested or you're not. If we both say its just casual, I'm telling the dude straight up that I'm still on the market and looking then...You not about to have me off the real estate market when you already know you don't want to buy the house. Someone else may be willing to buy now with cash in hand!
     
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    You seem reminiscent of an on and off switch lol
     
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    Nah I'm just a very busy 38 year old man who has grown to learn that there are decisive people in the world so no need to continue wasting time with those who are not.
     
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    I see decisive people on here, but in them streets not so much. I'm still kind of waiting.
     
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