Do You Care if a Woman Sees You Naked?

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  1. ControlledXaos

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    For the gays but I you bi bros can chime in too.

    So for the last two times I have been to the gym, in the locker room, female janitorial staff have been present. Now me, since folks like to take photos, I'm always covered up if I'm there and happen to need to take a shower. Of course, some dudes do not care. D!cks swinging, a$$ all on display.

    The first time, the lady announced she was in there because she was training and she asked men as they came in if it bothered them. The second time, a different lady, no one asked but there was a guy who was gym staff but clearly did not work janitorial who was with her.

    I did not care. It wouldn't have phased me in the least. Not that I'm one to show off, I just would not have cared if she saw me in my drawz or hell, she could have saw me in my glory.

    So back to the my question.... would you care if a female saw you naked? Does it depend on the circumstances? I can understand clinical nudity as in doctor visits and nurses. How would you guys felt in this situation?
     
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    The quirky dude I am, I don't mind when strangers of either gender see me naked but it gets weird when someone close that's not an "intimate" friend has.
    It tends to get weird and complicated afterwards.
    But random female, hey if she wants to see, go for it.
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    Internationally, I don't mind communal bathrooms and showers (In my experience there are curtains or dividers to discourage shenanigans; they're not like open locker rooms). Janitors/Custodians outside of North America are often female as well. Americans can be so prudish about nudity so while I wouldn't be bothered by some random woman seeing me naked, it would feel a little weird (akin to being an exhibit at a museum of natural history).
     
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    Well Americans sexualize just being naked but I think that's because people are always covered up. If more people were naked, it would be no big deal.

    However in this case, both were doing their jobs and I also think they probably were not super eager to see naked men either. I can imagine they would be uncomfortable. Mind you, this wasn't during peak hours.
     
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    Right!!! lol
     
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    I wouldn't care unless we have some type of personal relationship.
    Would it make a difference if you and the close person were both naked. Say, you went skinny dipping, were preparing to get into a public pool, or visited an onsen or Asian-style spa?
     
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    The skinny dipping scenario is not very likely, since it would only happen on a vacation and all of my vacations involve a four year old.
    If I were going to a public pool, I'd more than likely already be wearing my suit.
    Not the spa type, so that's the least likely to happen.
     
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    No it wouldn't bother me if a woman saw me naked. Particularly the situation you described. Like others I'd be more freaked out by someone like say a female relative saw me naked as opposed to a perfect stranger. Besides the janitor is there to do a job so it's really not a big deal.
     
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    Well I mind. I don't look like Mehcad Brooks so I don't feel comfortable with anyone man/woman, straight or gay seeing me nude..mostly an insecurity thing, it could Change but most likely not..plus I do believe in Modesty in most circumstances anyway. I understand if it was her job though, I like that the first lady would at least warn y'all first, I think it's best to give people the courtesy.
     
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    Personally Ive never gotten comfortable with the idea of communal spaces and try not to fully become nude if need be in public spaces. When I went to the gym I would just wait and take my bath at home. I also tried to come to the gym when it was not crowded rush hours because the locker room could become so crowded. When I use to go to the gym on the reg I was more of a in and out person. Im not an ig tumblr model or porn star lol. So if we aint family, close friends, or lovers its no reason for you to see me nude.
     
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    Sometimes a little modesty is appreciated. The build up to the final reveal will be like, Booyah! also you'll be one of the few that when scrolling through Tumblr, won't pop up nekkid :)

    I used to go to the gym mid morning after I got off work and would wait to shower till I got home, there were a lot of shower creepers.
     
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    There are just as many showboaters as creepers but that's another subject.

    Yeah I would be freaked out if a female family member saw me but not so much about random stranger. I think it's because with the relative I'd be in her presence on occasion.

    I may never see the Stanger ever. There's comfort in that.
     
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    I remember when Adam4Adam was new and I was seeing a whole lot of dudes I'd known over the years as friends, acquaintances, buddies, neighbors and one or two coworkers suddenly fully naked and vice versa is still strange and weird for me.
    With strangers, there's no awkwardness to get over.
    I also like the mystery of not knowing and wondering rather than it just being out there.

    The only family member that's seen me naked as an adult at least, cuz I was a streaker when I was a kid, was my Mom.
    Unfortunately I've seen the bulk of my family fully nude at some point.
     
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    LMAO! I'm one of the "Show Boaters"
     
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    I wouldn't have a problem with a non-related female seeing me naked. It didn't matter being younger in the tweens and single-digit days, tho.
     
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    @Tyroc I actually saw one of the departmental supervisors at one of my old jobs on Adam. I was surprised he had his full Johnson up there.

    I actually saw the mayor of my hometown in the gym too. He was impressive his wife was one of my teachers in high school. After seeing it, I'm wondering why she was always uptight looking back. o_O

    @alton see...

    But I used to have a more liberal policy, after realizing no one was checking for me anyway plus I'm not the type to just be naked like I'm at home in the locker room. But coming from the military I could see that. Not necessarily showboating, but spending more time naked, undraped, or not fully covered.

    Hell this is Atlanta so I'm sure there were some dudes who would have justification been naked around the janitors just because. Nothing surprises me here.

    As far as a Asian style spa or onsen, I'd probably be okay. I mean if everyone else is naked, less attention would be focused on just one or two folks. When in Rome and all.
     
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    Hell no! If it was my fault then I might be held liable in court to have to pay for therapy for their recovery..'what has been seen cannot be unseen' and all that. When I was younger, depended on when it was-at some times....meh.
     
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    "As far as a Asian style spa or onsen, I'd probably be okay. I mean if everyone else is naked, less attention would be focused on just one or two folks. When in Rome and all."
    There's a spot here in Queens called Spa Castle, a Korean Bathhouse type deal. There's a "Mens Only' area downstairs (VEEEEERY nice area) where everyone is nude however, I don't like walking around children naked, and there's always kids there. For them (Asian culture, and almost every other culture in the world) it's nothing, but I get really weirded out walkin with my d@#k swingin in front of a 7yo boy.
     
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    Yeah that would make me uncomfortable as well.
     
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    Yes! I totally agree, that's why I don't really care for the whole sending nude pics thing before you see the person. Ruins the surprise. take Chad here for instance:
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    If I saw a guy looking like this in the locker room vs if he was fully nude I would probably stare a bit because you can obviously tell he has a nice body..that happy trail leading down to the lower regions just makes you want more!! If he was nude, nothing's left for the imagination, it's not as interesting plus I personally would get too frazzled and nervous to see a hot naked guy to have fun with it. I probably wouldn't even look to avoid suspicion lol!


    This was totally not an excuse to spice up the thread btw honest! ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
     
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    Could have been a case of serious frustration, just because it was a nice showpiece doesn't mean she was getting to polish it behind closed doors.
    like a hanging Christmas Tree ornament.
     
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    LMAO!!!
     
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    Yeah but we all have seen Chad nude and more! lol But I understand what you are saying. 'The penis' is ..well...overrated? If I liked him, I would like what he has down there I guess.

    *And NO WAY to being nude around kids like a seven year old. I have dealt with too many 'gays are pedophiles' idiots over the years for that. It would be uncomfortable enough and that would make it worse. I am just leery of being in any kind of position where I might be accused of something.

    Sucks that stupid stereotypes and people's bigotry have left their mark on me like this, but this is the way it is. I have babysat for people with little kids before and even that would be a little weird for me- even though the parents were fine and everything was fine.

    I guess this is kind of a holdover from a different era?
     
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    He's got enough for me! :sass2:
     
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    I mean if I was his age and all, and he was a nice guy and looked like that especially, I could not care less about what he 'would have'-I have just never been like that. I guess not bottoming maybe has something to do with it?

    Yeah what he has is nice but if it was different in some way big deal. I have seen PLENTY of them and they come in all shapes, sizes, colors etc and with a few (freakish) exceptions they have all been good enough.
     
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    OOh me too lol
     
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    It would depend on why she was in the locker room. If she was there as part of her job then no problem. If she was in the locker room while I was naked just to prove she could, I would be pissed.
     
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    If i was asked this question back in middle and high school, i would have said "i would be uncomfortable". I would feel shy just to take my shirt off in the locker room. But now in the locker room of Crunch Fitness, im taking showers and showing it all. If a female employee walked in, i dont think i would care
     
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