Question Of The Week: My Pockets are Stacked but His are Wack

The real question is does money really matter in a real relationship. I've been in both Ken and Sam position financially. If you're in relationship based on money it will never work. I try to meet people who have the same intellect as me not money. Intelligent people find money and are able to build a secure savings that both can use to better a relationship. Being mental yolk is far more important to me than being financially yolk. It's about building money not spending money in a real relationship. Prime example would be Oprah and Stedman.

 

I have a friend who is hell bent, and relentless abt being a part of a gay power couple. He isnt even into a solid salary, he's totally into titles n the status quo. Would never even give a good, blue collar dude a shot (as is plumbers n garbage men don't cash solid checks). Smh

We dont talk so much anymore....

But yea, I'd honestly date a dude who was working _____ if he had a plan that he was actively working toward. Im not gonna just foot the bill, but if u meet me at ur level (as I'd do if I was dating a dr/accountant/youth counselor/security guatd), n ur a good dude, Im not running.