Im sorry, but I call BS on all this..."you get what you put out" shit. If that was the case then more than half the nikkaz on this site alone would be in phenomenal relationships, because this site is FULL of good looking, intelligent, level headed dudes that Im sure are well aware of what it is they want in another person. We say this "oh...you have to put that energy out there and it'll come to you Huney" (I dont know why I did that in a gay voice LOL) nonsense because it sounds good and it's reassuring, but the reality is the better majority of muh'fukaz str8 and gay (and women too) ain't shit. The culture promotes "Ain't Shit-ness". Any genuinely good dude with half a common sense that can spot bullshit from a mile away will most likely be single because out of 10 dudes (or chicks), 7 ain't shit, 1 is in a relationship, and one is over the bullshit and don't bother anymore. That just leaves the needle in the haystack. LOL.
And @SB3 You an't shit fo keep putting me in basket weaving activities. Ain't been on here in fi'ty 'leven years and now you wanna jump back in and "shade" me. Chyle, Cheese LMAO
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Well we are more than just what we see of each other online. I'm some us have character flaws which might put us in the Ain't Bout Sh!t column, the No Swag Set, the Too Nice list, or the Poor Social Skills /Does Not Play Well With Others cube.
So while online we may all be the apple of someone's eye, it the real us may not be attractive to admirers in real life.
However, we have a few dudes here who are in relationships and Even married.
I just hate to see people just completely lose hope that they will never be in a healthy loving relationship. So while casting good vibes towards the universe may not be helpful, it's a lot better than throwing the towel in.
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