Best Posts in Thread: 10 First Date Deal Breakers For Gay Men

  1. SB3

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    What I like the most is that the author is genuine abt the fact that this list is very subjective. My thing is, as Ive said before, I think gay men are soooo ready to find a reason to say no to a 2nd date. I call it 'red flag hunting'. So used to sht not working out that one begins to approach every sitch trying to find out their reason why date 2 wont happen. All based on hurt from the past...smh I think a lot of 'deal breakers' could exit the list if mofos would just learn that there's nothing to lose by just communicating your thoughts and feelings abt sht!
     
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    A lot of these things can be worked around....

    For example being unemployed doesn't mean you are undateable. I have been laid off and sometimes it takes a while to get back to the job market in your field. But this seems like something that would have come up before the first date.

    Too many times people don't compromise on temporary situations.
     
    #3 ControlledXaos, Oct 6, 2015
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