Where are the fem 4 fem dudes around tho in the black community?
Way back in the older half of the 90s when I was starting to be around more gays, one of the fem dudes I was acquainted with used to say he wasn't a "lesbian because I want a man, honey, and I'm a whuman. If he swish and sashay like me I don't want him"
Masculinity seems to lose toxicity in the bedroom.