Yup. I need some sort of signal that you're alive and I'm not sleeping with a corpse. Make manly moans, curse, scrunch your face up, announce shit. Just make sure that it's natural and not forced. If it sounds like you're trying to be a fake porn star, shit's a turn off.
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Question - Do you like an "Ejaculation Proclamation" when having sex?
meaning = announcing when you are cumming at the moment you are cumming.
I for one DEFINITELY do.
Im a verbal guy. I find being verbal hot and I prefer to be verbal and have it returned to me while doing the do. I think it makes the act even hotter. Especially when it's done right. The key words being DONE RIGHT.
Because there is indeed an art to verbal sex. Anyone who likes verbal sex knows what their trigger words are. As well as knows their "un-trigger" words that may make it shit wack or turn them off.
Now communication in any other dating or relationship area is key, but NOT when it comes to verbal sex in my opinion. This is an area where you CANNOT communicate your trigger or un-trigger words before having sex. It spoils the fun. You have to go in hot and just go for it. Start talking mad shit and see what sticks. And its not just the words you say, its the tone you say them, the facial expression, moves, it all plays in concert.
(Now back to the thread topic)
I feel that an announcement of cumming is soooo fuckin hot. That "OH Face", the shakes, calling on god, etc. That can actually make me blast off as well if its done and said right.
One sex partner I had the past always laughed hysterically when he came. Like every time. Very weird. That wasn't a turn on. As well as a white sex partner I use to deal with would always say, "oh yeah, thats the spot", and picture the most white man voice you can possibly imagine. That too wasn't a turn on.
But I will say I would take both of those over a dude that remained completely silent with just a small grunt, if even that. Maybe something in me needs the validation. Who knows.
So what say you squad. Am I alone on this?
(by past conversations I wouldn't be surprised if I am. I kinda noticed Im one of the only squad members that is sex positive. Or at least one of the only that admits it. )
If I'm on bottom, I'm a little more vocal and expressive. If that spot is getting hit, I'm a lot more verbal. If I'm on top I'm usually more quiet because I'm thinking about and analyzing my performance.
However no matter what, when I'm about to nutt, it's about to be some names called cuss words said vibrating rotating gyrating contourting trembling seizing going on.
Just don't say pussy or boi pussy or derivative and I'm good. It's ass. Now I'm no longer loving "this pussy" and I don't have a pussy for you to eat So why are you asking me if you can eat mine?
I actually HATE when guys start laughing after they nut in porn. I mean, I know a part of it is my hangup because they ARE the sex life when watching, but at least stay in character if yall wana claim it's 'work'.