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  1. Austin MD

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    Many of you know my journey of being with guys over the last few months and my rendezvous with my coworker bae (who we are going to refer to him as Dame). Well I shared with you all that I am spending the weekend with him. He’s actually helping me tell this story to lol.

    So anyway, me and Dame been having some serious fuck sessions the past couple of weeks. The last few times we’ve been at it, I’ve noticed Dame has been getting a bit handsy and playing around my ass. He did informed me that he’s technically versatile so I already knew one day he would want to fuck me. So earlier today we were about to go at it again. We’ve been drinking all day, lounging around and horny. Dame flat out said “let me fuck you!” I don’t know if it was the drinks or what but I agreed.

    Mind you I have already heard of the horror stories of anal sex but I’ll admit I kinda dabble with it even with my ex girlfriend. I didn’t let her use a strap or anything but there were times she fingered me and I also used a 2 inch butt plug a few times so this wasn’t the first time anything went up the back door. So I got up and showered and used douche. (Sidenote: douching is really a mood killer when you are like ready to go now lol). After the clean up, I was kinda hoping he would have move on from me getting fucked but nope he was already game. I let Dame know the deal that this is my legit first time and his ass better be patient with me or I’m going to literally punch him in the face. He grin and said alright but I knew the mf’er was lying.

    So I am going to bypass the foreplay shit and get right into it. He had this numbing lube and put some on my ass. It tingled me but I was so nervous and my heart was racing. He finally put some lube on him and position his dick to my hole. His initial entry didn’t feel bad at all. It just felt wider that my little butt plug. He asked how I was the whole time. Then I got a little impatient and told him I’m ready for him to put it all in. He did asked a couple of time if I was sure and I said yes. He did and when I tell you I let out the loudest yelp. Just imagine a crying goat. Or when Castro bottoming. That was me. He was smiling the entire time too. I did have moments when i enjoyed it. Like I don’t know if I was was turned on by knowing another dude just as masculine as me in me. It just did something to me. Bro I was sweating and waiting for him to be done.

    It seemed like it took him forever to cum lol. Then he just laid on top of me for a while. I have gained a new respect for both him and others who do this shit regularly. It really takes a lot of concentration. It is a humbling experience hahahaha. Like I was so worried the whole time about the obvious but I see that he didn’t stop so I guess I was good. You couldn’t have told me I would have ever did this even a week ago but here I am. I think every guy once need to experience this (even though I know a lot are going to decline lol). I wanted to know from others how were their first bottoming experience and any tips for me in the distance future (if I decide to do this again).

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    It seems like everyone enjoyed my ass pic lol! But yeah, I cannot complain too much on my bottoming experience. It was fun, safe and I am glad it was with someone I connected with.
     
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    glad you had a fun weekend with ol' boi. I have bottomed once in my life. It was terrible and there's nothing else to say about that lol I definitely have tremendous respect for the dudes who bottom on the regular. The physical and mental prep alone is a lot, but who knows maybe one day(soon) I might decided to take some lessons :nerd:. A verse situation would be dope; I hate feeling limited within my sexuality.
     
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    Well yeah .it's definitely intimate to have another person inside you. But I think it says a lot about how secure you are that you can submit to being penetrated and still not be submissive. I'm throwing it back like I'm fucking the dude. Lol like in my mind I'm like "knee grow, I'm finna MAKE you nutt." lol

    There's a certain amount of self assurance that comes with being masculine and able to bottom. I think it's sexy.
     
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    You can write the hell out of some erotica..

    Anyway, look at you! I feel like yall just found out about each other like last week lmao. I'm glad you've enjoyed your time on this trip (and hopefully there was some condom use, hmph)

    I'm not too big a fan of being on the receiving end so I have no real stories to tell - maybe that'll change with the right one. At any rate, I salute you stepping outside of your comfort zone and also sharing with us.

    P.S. your ex-gf was pretty open...she must've been something else other than black hahaha

    P.S.S. - *smirks* whose booty is that up top?
     
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    I’ve bottomed a few more times now and I am coming around to enjoy it. I just say it’s a gift that keeps on giving
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    Look at you, educating the chirrens on how to be solhos. It takes a village...
     
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    Singing my life with your words

    Oooo @Rico , that's so personallll - lol sike nah, the thought it hot..again barring STD concerns.

    Three thoughts: Yall Miami/Lauderdale gays are a whole other species. You must have went to Morehouse *smirk*. Atlanta is probably the best place to get a black gay education lmao

    Two thoughts: Yall chronologically-mature mthfkrs be knowing shit. That's exactly what it feels like and I could never describe it, "sense of fullness." I don't like it at all. But you're right, it takes knowing your body and what to focus on. AND you're description was hot
     
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    Great story. Look at you breaking a gay rite of passage. Seems like you were definitely more savvy than my first time.

    For the sake of not being long winded let me give you the abbreviated version as much as possible -

    I grew up in the south. South Florida to be exact. Ft. Lauderdale. Always knew I was gay, but was completely oblivious to any sort of gay world around me. Not a popular thing to be in the black south. Upon graduating high school and going to college in Atlanta, I again had absolutely no idea of Atlanta being a gay world mecca. About 20 years old. Working on campus. Fellow campus co-worker that was an older student that came to college late. I think he was about 26. Very attractive and masculine. Would flirt with me and I just thought he was corny and played too much until I accepted his offer to come over his place to chill and watch a movie (very pre netflix). I was unaware that gay man can be masculine. Again, naive southern boy thinking to be gay you have to be a queen. 30 minutes into watching the movie, he leaned over and kissed me, I froze but tried to kiss back. I'm sure it was a very bad attempt. He got the remote. Cut off the TV and ushered me to the room. I was shaking but wanted to go. Got nude, oral, he put on condom, put something that felt like gel in my ass hole that was cold as fuck, got on top on me, and I felt the worse pain I ever felt in my life. He couldn't finish of course so we just did frottage. (side note - his dick wasn't even big either. just hard as fuck)

    Went back to the dorm later and went in the bathroom thinking I had to shit and the pain was so unbearable from the mere attempt of him trying to fuck me, I cried on the toilet. Not a good first experience.

    Afterwards, my best friend (which I kinda knew) came out to me as gay. I told him I was too. We got an apt together. Did our first gay clubs. Met all kind of gay men in Atlanta. Got my Atlanta black gay education from the EXPERTS. And the years that followed, lets just say I was able to due squats on that future peen.

    Tips? It's many tips I can give about bottoming in general. Prob too many. So the main tip I would say is, be sure you are committed to doing it. Its ok not to bottom if you don't want to. Because there is nothing worse than a dude that really doesn't want to bottom. It shows in every movement. As a vers, I have committed to being good to great at both. Convincingly enough where I have been told its hard to know what I like better. But bottoming isn't for punks. So if you giving up that ass, be sure he can GET THAT ASS!!!
     
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    Congrats on having a positive first bottoming experience. In my current relationship I top most of the time. Every time I try to bottom for my boyfriend I just can’t get into it. I’m able to get past the pain and relax but there’s an absolute absence of pleasure. I like seeing him happy but I just wish I enjoyed it more. It’d make it easier to get through
     
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    Damn...shit just turned into an after school special

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    Honestly I felt like I was gonna shit. I could’ve deal with the pee feeling more. And yea I made Dame cum with no hands and that was sexy. That’s low key a goal for me too lol!
     
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    @takeyourmeds91 To answer your question, we were safe. And you are right me and Dame been with each over consistently since last Wednesday or Thursday so a little over a week. It was bound to happened if you seen my other posts about him. And shocker, my ex gf was black. You’ll be surprised at what some girls are into especially when you’ve been dating a while lol.
     
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