And Now, Men Explaining Why They Send Dick Pics

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    I have never understood why people send Dick Pics, they all look the same to me. When I am on the Apps and I am sent one, always without asking, I do not think 'oh there is one I would love to taste/have' or it does not add any value to the person in my opinion. I do not see their need, maybe that's why my convo's on the Apps are always cut short after my refusal to send:) I keep regular photos of myself, to share, and a few shirtless ones, even those are a stretch for me to send. Thoughts?

    Got dick pics? At this point, if you don't have a formidable private collection, congratulations: You are basically living a fairy tale by today's raunchy sexting standards. A study by security firm McAfee found that 49 percent of Americans have sexted. Dick-pic sprawl: It's a thing.

    To better understand the mind-set of why men Snapchat us these mini-masterpieces, we asked them.

    “I personally am an advocate of the dick pic, because women who want them are usually a little extra cray-cray in the sack. Being told by a woman that she touches herself to a photograph of your uncircumcised schlong is a huge turn-on and lets you know they're probably on the lower end of the self-esteem spectrum. Nothing more arousing than that. Any fella who says otherwise is totally lying!” — Jason, 24, salesman

    “For me, dick pics are the ultimate sign of confidence. It's important to let a girl know exactly how ready I would be in a situation where she would need me to be naked. When all the hints of my desperation have been sent verbally or in text, the logical next move is the dick pic. My move used to be done purely in person: Get half-erect, involve my dick into the conversation somehow, and then urge her to feel it, under the guise of it being almost scientific to do so. But the dick pic is like sending a résumé or even putting up a 'now hiring' sign. No more having to unsexualize my dick with a half chub and sweatpants to make her aware of what I’m packing, so thank god for my Droid.” — Ryan, 27, cook

    “Dick pics in the straight world seem to offend at an alarming rate. In gay circles and/or networks and/or apps, not only is the dick pic a courtesy, many decide to skip the dick pic altogether and go for the asshole pic, a starfish selfie. Some dicks are deal-breakers while others seal the deal in a few seconds. A picture is worth a thousand words, and we are living in a world of Twitter-length messaging. Get to the point.” — Michael, 39, videographer

    “If you're going to sext with a lady and she shows you a nipple, you have no choice but to send a dick pic. You can't send a nipple pic back or a ball shot, you gotta get your pecker ready for the spotlight. I like dick pics cause the camera makes your wang look bigger. Plain and simple. Take a few, narrow it down to the top three, and send away. Save the good ones to use later, you never know when you might have to send one out when your current dick state is not up to par.” — Mike, 25, waiter

    “God bless the dick pic! My very close straight girlfriend regularly sends me the photos she receives from her conquests, so I reap the rewards too. She's become a size queen over the years, so it's a win-win for us. But it's for that reason that I do not share photos of my junk. Call me old-school, but there's still some charm left in letting someone have an extended glance in a bathroom urinal. I did, however, send out a picture of my peen in 2000 — the days of dial-up internet and AOL. I was 18 and wanted a critique of my package. This was snapped with an external webcam, remember those? It wasn't a size issue, I'm fine with that, I just wanted someone's opinion (this was before Snapchat, obvs). I sent it to two gay friends.” — Charlie, 33, writer

    “Most of my recent relationships have been from online dating sites. Most initial interactions are by phone and text. If the conversation gets sexual, it feels natural at times to give the girl a visual of my arousal. I've never dick-bombed anyone. She always knows it's coming, and half the time is the one requesting it.” — Anthony, 37, baker

    "I send dick pics because — at the risk of sounding cocky (heh, heh) — I have a truly beautiful dick. In a world of tragic penises, I have a stun-gun of a phallus. Women who don't even like me have slept with me and said, 'You're kind of an asshole ... but damn that's a nice dick.' One time, a girlfriend I was living with applied for a bartending job. I knew the gay manager from another bar he worked at years before. I had his number and sent him a pic of my cock. My girlfriend got the job. My dick helped pay the rent." — Kevin, 50, comedian

    “There's little explanation beyond this: I do it because I have to if I want sex. In the gay world, a dick pic is the equivalent of small talk, especially on any sort of sex app. There's usually a hello, a few back-and-forths before showing your dick is the expected next step. At this point, dick pics aren't exciting anymore. I don't even try to take good ones myself because it just doesn't matter — they're more of a sign you're breathing than any real barometer of whether a dude will have sex with you.” — Tanner, 32, marketing

    “The first time I ever sent a dick pic was while texting with a very sexual girlfriend. Her first text to me was, ‘I’m horny.’ Well, that will get your attention. But having three more hours of work left there was nothing I could do right then to help her so we starting explicitly texting about what would be going down later on that night, until she said to send her a dick pic so she can masturbate. I was now horny as hell and happy to oblige since I was now walking around with a stiff erection. I think I sent about four pics at various angles. After that, whenever the mood struck I would send her a dick pic, and it would drive her crazy until I would get home. There have been a few girls who like it and others who don’t. I always feel out the situation to see if it will be well-received. If not, you'll be jerking off alone. I think I'll look up that old girlfriend.” — Jim, 51, mechanic

    “With the wrong cinematography and lighting, the dick pic can be a colossal tragedy. As much as men assume that women will see a dick pic and immediately orgasm, it is yet another of our many failures. If unsolicited, it looks lame and desperate. If solicited, you had better resurrect Stanley Kubrick to shoot it to keep it from looking like a truck-stop memoir. Why do men send them? Because we’re horny. Dumb and horny.” — Rob, 46, software engineer

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    I feel ya. I was just listening to the podcast interview where Ock talked about the creepiness of GPS and apps. Seeing everything up front from a prospect leaves nothing to the imagination. Like eating dessert first and THEN the filet mignon.

    I think the dicpic trend could end two ways. Since the dicpic is more ubiquitous, people will either get more depraved when the thrill of such pics reaches societal saturation and gone and look for more ways to be exhibitionistic ("it's the latest trend: gerbils-in-rectum selfies!!"); or because, as you state, you seen one you seen them all, people will go back the other way to wanting tasteful, erotic or sensual portraits. Instagram's faux polaroid pics was an example of this, trying to give a warm, aged appeal to digital pics (which never change or age).

    As a side note, I think dicpics, apps, and universal porn have made me realize what an overrated hack Robert Mapplethorpe was. His main claim to fame was being a white gay men photographing big black dikks and getting uptight pricks like Jesse Helms hot and bothered (and maybe a little sticky and wet). With the Net and society standards having changed, you realize that, like Orson Welles, Mapplethorpe really wasn't all that talented, once the shock value of seeing black dicpics in an art museum is removed.
     
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    Another reason to avoid dating apps and dating in general. And if guys have to send a dick pic, have some balls(ha!) and send it attached to your body with your face included. Just because it is a dick does not mean it is your dick.

    ^^ And Mapplethorpe was more than just BBC. You have to consider any artist in the framework of their time and their place, not just by today's jaded standards. Not trying to be a dick myself, just sayin' and all.

    *edited cause what i said was kind of dick-like
     
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    I wanna see that ass though,
     
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    Umm, Seriously? Dik pics make you want to avoid apps or dating in general? :wtf: OK....(shaking the hell out of my head)
     
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    Its one thing to say dik pics may not be your thing. But to think its gonna dwindle down or be less interesting, GET A CLUE.

    Its not going anymore no more than porn is. Porn will NEVER get tired, dik pics, boob pics, pu$$y shots, etc will ALWAYS be around and relevant to more people than not. Even the self righttous prudes who try to make it seem like they are above porn and the sort but behind closed doors they are the biggest heathens around.

    I definitely don't think see one seen them all. If you have some of the tumblers I have, those pics are DEFINITELY not see one seen them all. Some of them dik pics can be works of art IMO. They come in every size, girth, cut, uncut, color, man please. I think diks are a BEAUTIFUL thing.

    Ass shots are great as well to me and come in different sizes and the sort. Dik pics just have more character to me.
    I say, keep them coming:pachah1:
     
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    It is creepy...somebody just sending or showing just their dick to you...:scust: especially if they just start off with that. I know for being a recovering slut It must seem prudish and strange, but that is just how I feel about it. lol
     
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    Oddly, there are so many that are quick to send XXX pics (without any vetting/verification of who they are interacting with) but it often takes an Act of Congress just to receive a clear face picture.

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    Getting a dicpic is strange when the dic looks like something from that Promethieus Alien Prequel.

    All penis' don't look the same..some are pretty others are hideous.

    Sometimes though, I think guys that flash peen pics are cocky...
     
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    I see what you did here! lol
     
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    "those pics are DEFINITELY not see one seen them all. Some of them dik pics can be works of art IMO. They come in every size, girth, cut, uncut, color, man please. I think diks are a BEAUTIFUL thing."

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    MY N!KKA!! LMAO I cosign ALL this right 'churr, my dude! LMAO And a$$es are nice, I'm not one to pay much attention to a$$ pics, nor a$$es in general, although I do see some very nice ones in my travels. But, d#$ks definitely do have more "character" LMAO
     
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    Problem is when dudes be straight up lyin on the pipe. Like takin it way past misrepresenting inches. I had one dude send me my own dick pic that I had sent out to some folks on a few occasions a few years prior (which ended up being the reason why I stopped sending dick pics. Somebody used mine for a sex party ad on Craigslist once, but that's another story). This is why sending dick pics can be a game of smoke screens. I blame Tumblr.
     
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    LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    "Hol' up!....this...THA F@#K!!??"...
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    "Nikka this MY d@#k!!"
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    Only because I think it is crass in a 'dating sense' and those apps are just meat market shit really. People are more than a dikk-and I love dikks trust me-that is what the internet and porn is for though lol!!! I look at dikks every. damn. day. but online and stuff.
     
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    Truth about Mapplethorpe. But white folks always find ways to exploit us and come up off of it.
     
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    As previously stated, it's not my thing, but I don't condemn those who engage. As Omega Level said, "They come in every size, girth, cut, uncut, color, man please. I think diks are a BEAUTIFUL thing"...

    To which I add, "I’m not just the president of Dik Club for Men, I’m also a client!”
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    I'm starting to just look dispassionately at the whole thing like an anthropologist.

    " As we can see, the virile hairless primate known as the gay male is, from his obvious stance, now engorged and ready to mate. He displays his genitalia to other potential mates in the wild. Quietly, he awaits other male primates to display their genitalia, as well, showing their returned interest in mating. We zoologists call this, 'presenting.'"
     
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    I hope you had your best David Attenborough voice on for this post. This ish truly made me laugh! Thank you...
     
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    I actually had his name in my first edit. Lol. Yeah, I watched him a lot as a kid on PBS. And I could totally see him at a bar checking out bros furiously texting and sexting on Jackd.
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    Long live the d*** pic! I'll never complain about receiving one. Just make sure it's lotioned and not zoomed in on like a 60 year old woman facetiming for the first time. I think the body is beautiful and people should be less taboo about it. There are big ones, small ones, pretty ones, ugly ones, thick ones, thin ones, veiny ones, upside down ones, etc. Nothing wrong with looking at them.
     
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