Biggest Turn offs?

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    I would have to say one physical thing I hate is sagging pants, I think that is so juvenile and immature.


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    You have to have a sense of humor with me, I don't like a guy who is so stuck up that he can't take a joke or laugh at something that is clearly funny.
     
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    Physically I find men who are overly pretty men to be unattractive. I've never liked those light skin pretty boy types that most gay black and Latino men piss their pants over. They strike me as too made up and unmanly. I'll take an average looking brown skin or dark skin brother any day. Personality wise I find overly emotional men to be real turn off. If you can't master your own feelings how can you master anything? I guess I'm just old fashioned. I find sensitive and emotional men to be annoying and just plain bitchy.
     
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    Oh. Also, men who cannot dress. A reference is the picture at the top of the thread. NO.
     
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    Physical turn-offs:
    1. Consistent bad hygiene. Everyone is entitled to an "off" day, but if you're constantly stank (breath/body) you'll be shown the door...
    2. Consistent bad personal upkeep. If you constantly have on dirty/stained clothes or shoes...bye! If you constantly wear ill-fitting/wrinkled clothes...bye! If you constantly look like you need a haircut/shave/retwist/edge up...bye!
    3. Extra feminine mannerisms. A tad bit soft is permissible, but if you're on fire....bye!
    4. Total lack of concern for health and physique. If you refuse to go the doctor and the gym ever in life...bye! I prefer naturally muscular/toned/slim guys. Obese and not trying...bye! Bony and not eating/lifting...bye!


    Character Trait/Personality turn-offs:
    1. Always angry. MANAGE THAT BRUH!
    2. Constant attitude/Moody. Dude, lock that $hit up and man the f#ck up!
    3. Bitchy behavior. (i.e. whining, complaining, snapping, popping,...etc...)
    4. Indecisive. Dude, if I ask you where you want to eat, don't always ask me what I want to eat or change up when we get to place you decided you wanted to go...
    5. Lying for no reason. Dude, you don't have to lie about drinking my Arden's Garden! It's not that serious.
    6. Treating your family like $hit without good reason. Bruh, I know they hurt you, but don't disrespect your mom/dad in front of me.
    7. Sneakiness. Bruh, if you want to cheat, hang out, sext other dudes....DO IT! Just be clear that I'm not gonna be down with most of it. I'm gonna find out eventually. And don't try to grab my phone to see who I'm texting. I pay my bill! If we're on that level, I'll GIVE you my phone to look through!
    I guess I'm too picky...:rolleyes: That's why I"m single now....:laff: Oh well...:shaq2:
     
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    conceited, vain or arrogant men
     
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    Physical: bad personal upkeep, slouchy body... BAD BREATH, SMELLY PITS.
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    Personality: Clingy, Desperation in matters of love (Don't say I love you within a week, or in one actual experience of mine, THE SAME DAY), Disingenuous Communication.
     
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    Long dirty fingernails... unless you're coming home from work or camping there's no way your nails should be long and dirty. Just bad hygiene in general.
    Lack of communication, arrogance, bad sense of humor, bad tempter, controlling.
     
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    U hit the nail on the head w the nails comment!
     
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    Boy you came prepared huh? LOL
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    I ain't mad though...couldn't find a single one I disagreed with...I haven't met a guy that does the whole "can't figure out what to eat" bit I HATE that lol! Most of the time it's women.
     
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    well damn :dead1: guess that covers the physical and personality in one.
     
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    Lol that one word answer FTW!!!
     
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    I hate guys that are prejudice, bigots, and stuff like that. I hate bullies, and I don't like those who are complacent.
     
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    I CANNOT stand dirty finger nails or nail biting. I am not a germaphobe but the one thing that grossest me out the most is people who constantly touch their face or have their fingers in their mouth. Do you remember back when Obama was first elected and we were experiencing a H1N1 outbreak and the President was like wash your hands with soap and water and keep your hands off your face....that is the best way to keep yourself from getting sick.

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    My biggest turn off is someone who doesn't have any kind of ambition or any self-identity. I am a firm believer that you should have your own identity regardless of relationship status...

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    A big turn off is overly pretty boys. The pretty boys who are one step away from being a drag queen. I hate the really arched brows, nickel-sized earrings in BOTH ears, the tight jeans, and everything that falls in line with all of that. There's nothing wrong with a dude being cute, but pump the breaks sir!
     
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    Dudes who are complacent and complain but are not striving to download more. If you are at the upper levels of your career than I'm OK with you resting on your laurels but if you are wondering why you can't get a promotion but been doing the same thing year after year.... No.

    Physically, bad body odor. If I can't stand to be in your nether regions then we can't be anything. And sometimes it really is about pheromones because I have been in close contact with some guys and their natural musk is a turn off.
     
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    And guys with flat asses sagging. If you don't have at least a ham, pull them up. I have to be able to look at something. A nice ass on a man is so underappreciated. #CakeLife
     
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    Ugly feet, bad breath, and no sense of humor.
     
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    Your circle of "friends" is full of your past lovers, ex's, etc.

    Being rude to servers (Random, but that irks my nerves)

    Arrogance.
     
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    About the ex as friends thing...that is fairly common. I think we are allowed one and anything more than that is suspect. Especially if that was a college friend or one early in your dating life and you realized it was better to be friends than lovers.

    If the totality of your friends and you have bumped uglies you need to be on someone's couch discussing issues. Everybody in the room don't need to know what your sex face looks like.
     
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    I understand it's common, but I think that's due to men not wanting to give up on options. I can usually tell by body language if you are genuinely just friends or if one or both of you are willing to fuck again if given the chance. That to me isn't a friend, but that's just me.
     
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    That was going to be my answer. But, I totally agree. I don't care how good you look or if the conversation is great. If, we are together and those socks come of and I see corns and calluses-than I am done.

    The other is vanity.
     
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    Lol. I can actually deal with messed up feet. To me a man doesn't necessarily have to be pampered. The more rugged the man, the better.
     
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    I hear you. Lol. God bless you my friend. I am posting this- simply because I don't like him and it fits the topic.

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    [​IMG] that's some ugly feet bruh. he needs a prayer and a pedicure
     
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    Okay...I could still date him though. I just won't be tasting them.
     
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    No Life goals or ambition
    bad breath
    dirty nails
    bad feet
    over all bad hygiene
    having kids (I don't feel like dealing with baby mama drama)
    To much drama or life baggage
    Being rude to people
     
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    @Michael Honestly, I am not into feet like that...so I don't blame you lol
     
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    lol I wouldn't say I'm into feet, but when I'm with someone I tend do want every inch of them.
     
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    Would you be tasting them under better circumstances, if they had just been buffed and polished at the salon?
     
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    Rugged is welcome. Im not a mani/pedi kinda guy, but come on... i was kinda bein silly n playing off of the comment abt dirty/long fingernails. Its not rly a deal breaker, but i def give it a looong side eye lol.
     
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    Perhaps...
     
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    Nah he needs to cut them off n start over
     
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    Lol maybe they work with their hands...a lot
     
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