Yeah. There is a difference between guys that know that bottoming is just a sexual option and "lifestyle bottoms" that characterize themselves with exaggerated mannerisms and characteristics. You see lifestyle bottoms posting weird comments on Myvidster about the lack of "true tops" or how they're disappointed or even disgusted upon seeing a presumed top bottom, like the porn star mentioned in a CA post who apologized to his fans after filming a bottom scene. Lifestyle bottoms seem like they're adopting the mindset of stereotypical "strong, independent" reality stars or the more visible feminine gays and taking the attitude up a notch. I occasionally see lifestyle tops commenting that bottoms shouldn't be touching their dicks at all during sex or that the bottom is there only to serve their needs and should expect no reciprocation besides getting topped.
The notion that a sexual position should define you leaves a lot of people feeling lost and confused in their early lives, or emulating the behavior that has been ingrained in their minds as gay behavior. Nothing wrong with a bottom who happens to be a loud, proud fem guy, but behave that way because it comes naturally to you, not because of societal pressure. Of course, there are bottoms who do enjoy having submissive personalities or roles, and tops that have more dominating personalities that can accommodate them, but people should acknowledge that roles are not universal and approach people as individuals rather than basing assumptions on a sexual position.
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Man this video was old as hell...I've had it on my hard drive for almost a year (don't judge me, high sex drive )
Poor dude...he thought no one he knew would ever see this and it eventually made it into one of his DL friend's fap session rotations.
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To be honest, I kind of feel bad for him. Stuff like this can make someone depressed and go over the edge. I mean even if he says he was gay/bi/pan-sexual he has 10 kids that have to deal with this also. Most of society is still ignorant of the complexities of sexuality; especially since he is hyper masculine looking. He probably did it for extra money since he retired from boxing and all his child support (if he pays any). He prop didn't think any one would see it and didn't know the company was so famous in the black gay community. He prob took a "drug" called hennessy and cannabis lol. After viewing his performance for educational purposes lol; I'd say he did quit well and is one of the sites better videos lol.
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Thank you for bringing up his.... Cleanliness.
I mean...he probably thought that no one he knows was going to see it. My eyes are opened to the straight folks who seem to know a lot of details about this scene tho.
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