Confession: As A Homosexual Man, I Sometimes Sexually Objectify Women

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  1. OckyDub

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    [​IMG]While viewing a random stereotypical rap video online, which featured a “pop’n bottles, making it rain” strip club scene, I gawked intently at the women swinging around the poles, twerking and making it clap. When the video was done, I rewound it back to a specific scene of a particular woman. When done, I then proceeded to watch other random videos showcasing all types of women basically twerking or shaking their asses and the next thing I noticed two hours in time had passed by.

    As a proud very sexual homosexual man, my lust Force is strong for men. Nonetheless, I recognize at times, I have a mental sexual response for women. I understand it’s not lust in the lane of wanting to do something sexual with a woman but I do find myself sexually captivated while being attracted of them.

    At any given moment, when I see non-pornographic imagery of women who are dancing seductively my reaction is like…


    Regardless if I agree or disagree, I think this would be considered sexual objectification of women. Let me state that I believe my mental fantasies goes far far deeper when they are of men. Even though I’m not some horny teenager, I do think about sex a lot, which is natural for men and women regardless of sexual orientation.

    Whenever I see videos like the one’s below, it’s kinda like I have a sexual admiration for the time, energy and skills these women have. They obviously take pride in it. It isn’t as if they’re NOT trying be erotic or sensual…that’s their goal here.

    FYI: my eyes go to the girl on the left in the pink tank top.




    So does my sexual reaction to these women means I’m now a sexual deviant (misogynist) or one who negatively objectifies women? Am I just having the reaction that these women are hoping for or both?





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    YES!!!! but only if you feel that's the only function women are good for.
    What's so wrong with a little objectifying of what's put out there.
    As long as it doesn't get abusive or rapey, then it should be all good to take it in visually.
    I respect women as individuals and equals however, I've always been obsessed with breasteses and I am a proud pig in that I feel if you don't want me to look at them then cover them up. (but please don't)
     
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    "While viewing a random stereotypical rap video online"

    I don't know if I would call you a deviant since you didn't go with the intent to just look at big asses and tits. I just think that it's a reaction.

    I think that it's natural to respond to beauty in whatever form it comes in. I am from Florida and live in Orlando about 6 hours away from Miami and Ft. Lauderdale where a lot of these types of videos are made. 2 Live Crew, 69 Boy, and Luke all of those videos from the 90's.

    I find women attractive but in a non sexual matter. Guess what? If I happen to be watching one than I will look at the all of em and enjoy. The titties, asses on (on guys too) and chest.
     
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    I don't think it's sexual objectification at all. It's perfectly normal to admire the physical features of a woman as a gay man. There's nothing bisexual or bisexualish about it, unless you are indeed bisexual. Shit, it's even normal, though socially taboo, for straight men to admire the physical features of a man.

    Objectifying someone blatantly suggests that you view that person as nothing more than a piece of meat. Randomly watching a female in a magazine, porn, or in a video and admiring her physical features can only subjectively assume, but can't confirm objectivity.
     
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    I was thinking you should have posted this in the locker room. But, they can see this. This is a male gay website and these dudes aint having this shit. Cyrus let me know what time it was. Lol. Even the masculine guys aint responding. Lol. They don't give a damn about this thread
     
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    Are you a deviant for enjoying the sight of trained women--one of whom is a stripper--shaking their shapely booties in ways that display pride, deliberate training, and seem designed to provoke a sexual response? No.

    You may be a misogynist if you make harsh assumptions and judgments about their character and behavior, or think things like, "These twerking hoes are nice to look at but I can't take them seriously," though I wouldn't shame someone for not being 100% open-armed accepting of almost naked booty shakers. Just wish people didn't preemptively shyt on them.
     
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    My partner and I love going to the "major" black strip clubs in Dallas and Houston to feel on big booty strippers and see them dance and we sometimes see other gay men there .... so yes gay men definitely objectify women
     
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    You're a better man than me to live in Orlando and not gone crazy. I was there for 7 days for a conference and I couldn't wait to leave. All the men I encountered were f**ked up, moochers (broke), or super strange and the gay nightlife was even worse for black men. I will start a gofundme account so you can move if you want ... no black gay men with something to offer should be forced to stay there.
     
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    I am a Pure Blood. I have never been with a woman sexually. I have always loved 'Dick'. I use to work as a hospital caregiver, taking care of post- operative patients. One particular patient I was assigned to one day was a young black woman. She was twenty-something or other and she had vomited on her hospital gown. I helped change her into a clean gown, but I noticed she was very slender and her pelvic region was very interesting, matter of fact it was beautiful, for a moment I was totally attracted to her. The mechanics of penis to vagina crystallized for me as no porn movie has ever been able to do. However, it passed, she was a patient and professionalism took precedent. But I never forgot the symmetry and allure of her pelvic region...
     
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    No I don't think you are unless you think that's what women are for or something. I think females stripping or twerking is entertaining but I don't watch and feel sexually stimulated.
     
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    I don't know how I missed this comment but please help me. LOL. I know one person on here in particular thinks that I am playing. Did you go to any of the clubs? Crazy right? I haven't been to any of those places in years.

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    I'm a misogynist. I will call b!tches and hoes "b!tches and hoes" with the quickness.

    Now, bring me my drank, wench!

    But seriously, I can appreciate a nice boodee and tiddies. Serena Williams is thiiiick! Hell even Porcha Williams is fine. Big ass, flat tummy, and tiddies. But I'm also not worry about them. I mean I see girls in the gym who are bad ass chicks a lot. No shame with throngs showing or leggings or shorts stuffed right up their cracks.

    Imma look if you are showing.

    But I just appreciate the human body. Male or female. We are all so interesting in how we are shaped and formed. Shoulders, shapes of a person's back, the size and shape of calves... All of that is interesting to notice to me.
     
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