Could you date an obese man?

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  1. mojoreece

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    Say you meet someone and they had a great personality, you had a lot of things in common and you two really it it off. There was only one thing.....the person was obese. I mean more than 50 lbs overweight. Could you still date them or at least give them a chance? Is there an obese person you could date? Feel free to post a pic.
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    ya i dont mind just depends how they put together
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    Yeah. Of the three guys that mojoreece posted, I'd definitely date fairly muscular (and relatively small, compared to the other two) Prince Fielder in the middle. The others are alright but less appealing. Still, generally speaking, an obese athlete will be better put together than an obese, not-so-athletic average joe.
     
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    ya thats ture i would date any of the guys i posted tho.
     
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    Not that l have anything against obese people but l honestly couldn't date a person who was obese or even anorexic. No thanks!

    However I do like thick husky men that don't look sloppy or like they stink. As long as they treat me with love and respect and take good care of themselves, then it's all good!! I'm not a shallow person and although muscles and six packs are nice, but for me, they're not the end all be all.

    Eye candy is sweet, however having too much of it can spoil your appetite, and blind you with lust.
     
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    Well think it depends on the person and your definition of obese. None of those guys (except for Rick Ross and the first few guys) are what I would consider in the obese range.

    I would consider this guy "Thick"
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    I would consider this guy obese.
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    The different being in muscle definition. I would date/be with anyone that had a certain regard for their health, as being truly obese effects not only their life but the quality of their loved one's lives. Taking good care of yourself so you can live long and healthly is my biggest concern in that case.

    And as far as physiques go, I like different body types, from beach bodies to guys with alittle extra lol so that isn't a problem! A nice full face, thick legs/thighs, huge arms sounds good to me!:whew:
     
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    Morbidly obese...I don't know. Regularly obese, overweight, thick, chubby...I wouldn't mind at all. I would be able to cook all types of shit I see on food network for him. Have that muthafuker like "more please Ocky" :feedme:
     
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    I will have to concur with Ocky. A nice thick/chubby dude with a little bit with some stomach fat. But if you have size D titties and an extreme amount of body fat in your stomach area like the pics about, I'll pass. That's just too much weight and a confirmation that you are truly letting yourself go with no efforts of caring for your health, not even a little bit.
     
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    It just realy depends. Obese is such a vague term. I have to agree with @redsai84, it depends on how they are put together. I am ok with a normal body...beaning not muscle bound or defined. In fact. Sometimes I prefer that.

    The reality is, I do not live my life in a gym, and my future partner probably will not either. Additionally, muscles and abs are Not necessarily a sign of good health. I have my limits, bit I m reasonably open to bodysize.
     
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    If "thick guy" misses 2 weeks at gym...hmmmm.
     
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    I don't have any blanket eliminations, so I would consider it. Sometimes I'll see chubby guys and I'll think they're kinda cute.
     
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    LOL I'm sure he'd be OK!
     
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    For me they definitively could not be morbidly obese.I could go with a athletic big man; football lineman/defensive end or power-lifter or shot putter type body. I've been obese myself and its like hell trying to burn the fat off. I am looking for a gym buddy in a partner; someone who can workout with me. Someone who can spot me in the gym and hold me accountable. If they had a plan for losing fat or gaining muscle then I guess it could work.
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    Is that last pic you?
     
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    Well I'm considered "obese" I'm more like Prince Fielder. I'd be all over him and the Thick dude in the white shirt.

    However I don't think I can be with someone who refuses to have some sort of physical activity. I like men. Men have muscles. I don't like doughy guys so the guy below Fielder gets a No. But thick dude running in the blue shorts gets a Yes.

    If there's enough muscle under the fat I'm all for it but if you just Jabba the Hut and sloppy, I just can't. Baseball and rugby players, strongman contestants, and wrestlers can get it.
     
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    no lol:banderas: I wish I was that muscular and was able to get my beard to look like that though. I think he has more of a power lifter body like this dude below.
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    @mojoreece That's what I'm talking about.

    Basically I like guys who will go to the gym but won't freak out if I say "let's go to The Lawbstuh! It's endless skrimp!" and if I say "the Spartan Race is in May so you know we are going right?" he's in full agreement and knows what we have to do to be ready for it.
     
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    Yall play too much! Big and what we 'mean' when we say obese are 2 diff things!

    Exhibit A above is a go! Exhibit B is a go away!

    I wont even play PC on this one. If u are too damn big then u arent for me! More of u for the rest of yall mofos...
     
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    Lean, Average, Muscular and a LITTLE bit extra are fine for me.
     
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    I would consider this guy obese.
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    Look at him! Happy as a pig in shyt! Cus u know that xtra large pizza is only an appetizer for him...
     
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    I'm mad he's out here using his gut as a table. This is why I tell people do not take photos of me eating. That's really unflattering to everyone.
     
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    XD Noooo Don't be mean!! lol He would look great if...you know..he wanted to make a health change!
     
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    Nah, Im mad cus his fat azz is cheesin like ain't shyt wrong w this picture! Lol
     
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    I'm mad because he clearly is not sharing that big ass pizza with no one else. That's his plate, in her personal space and if you take a slice of it or that remote control out his had...there's gonna be trouble, trouble.
     
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    i seem to attract a lot of thick men. i can get with their personality, but not them physically. it is sad. but i cannot date a man that is big. but they be so sweet tho. ugh. but i cannot do it.
     
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    Is it bad that I'm no where near as big as this dude but I could easily eat a pie this size with a couple beers by myself as well? :troll:
     
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    Key words 'no where near as big'! I could eat that shyt too, and have, on many occasions. But if my reflection in the mirror reflects this, then ima need to reflect on how the fuk I let this happen!!!

    I honestly dont mean to sound so harsh, but there are some points where we have to throw in the towel n call a spade a damn spade! He needs to have a big azz bowl of steamed broccoli in that pic w the same smile!

    I shouldnt be as bothered as I am, but I AM! I recognize the fact that being that big isnt a relevant threat in my life, but come on!

    I have my fat boy binges, often, but thats why I get my ass up and into the gym on the reg. N I dont think its too much for a mofo to commit an hr a day to keep from looking like that.

    U know what, my real issue is w the fact that ev1 seems to want ev1 to play pc on sumthin like this. I am completely ok w a man w a belly that matches his build, but NO, u cant be that photo w me talkin bout 'he might be a good guy'.

    Now i digress..
     
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    All of these last couple of responses here had me like..
    :damn::krs::gladbron::pachah1::umad:
     
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    Obese guy no but I love thick guys with some muscle definition. I find thicker guys more attractive than slimmer guys.
     
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    Well I do love a thick guy, as I am one myself. However, I think "obese" is fluid depending on your size. For me, if I guy is my height and 200-275 lbs, I don't see that as "obese". My height and 300+lbs, now we are bordering "obese".

    As far as dating, I agree with others and say that it's how you present yourself (attire, grooming, etc).
     
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    Can ijs, there was a dude this size in the gym w me last night, and eventho idk him from a can of paint, I was so proud of him, just for showing up!
     
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    You can't get mad at folks in the gym trying. They are working on things. Losing weight is a process and long one.

    The gym is the just for the muscle bound and soccer moms.
     
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    I actually have several close friends who are Chubby Chasers and only go after larger men but like it is discussed here, I think its all in how they present themselves. You can be thick or fat or chubby or whatever and you sloppy with it then it is probably a no go, but if you keeping yourself together and got personality I say why not.
     
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