Could you date an obese man?

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  1. mojoreece

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    I know its wrong but when you guys were talking about the gym I thought of this lol. At least he's at the gym though. Any effort counts I guess.
     
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    Now thats a damn shame! Thats that pf bs tho! They have bagel n pizza parties every month (carb fests) becus they want the everyday man to feel comfortable n remain comfortable enough to maintain a membership.

    Im just gonna walk away before I start talking abt him doing abs w pizza, when he needs to be doing cardio...
     
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    Depends on the level of thickness and the shape of his moobs. If he's thick with that muscle type tonement, sure, but thick and sloppy, no. I don't mind a lil thick thick. lol
     
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    Short answer is, No. I'm not gonna get all "PC" with it either. I would in no way, shape, or form be sexually attracted to said person and if Im just goin off nice personality and be treated good, then we'll be friends. Now, like some other members have commented, there are quite a few what I refer to as "Gay Obese" (36" - 44" waistline) dudes that I would jump on in a heartbeat. There's one here at my job like I'm all like a school girl when I talk to, and he's a relatively thick dude. Looks like he's been workin' out and dieting tho, but still. Of course he's str8 (to my knowledge) but if shit ever turns out to the contrary, Im on it!. LOL
     
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    I don't use those dating app thingys so I wouldn't know where to find em :franko1:
     
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    Being a big dude myself, I find this whole thread to be very interesting. I've dated both obese and non obese men and it really does depend on the person. I do think it's sad that especially in the gay community if you don't look a certain way, you're not even acknowledged sometimes. It's literally like you don't exist and that's sad to me.
     
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    Obesityis a problem. Lets not put a bow on it and act like it's cool. Thats a disservice.

    I would def date a dude w a lil cushion, but excess is excess. Lets all stop playin
     
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    Obese men, especially if they are feminine bottoms, are having more sex than me so I'm not eager to believe that they are completely ignored or unacknowledged.
     
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    Agreed. I think it's one thing to be obese and working on it and another just to be fat and complacent. You can't be fat, know that you are fat, know that there's things you can do to be less fat yet don't do those things, then get butt hurt over people paying you no mind because of being fat.

    I agree with this too. There's plenty of fembots having some good good or at least that's what they lead folks to believe. And these dudes always "got body" so it's not like they are chubby for chubby.
     
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    I'm a chubby chaser...so yes.
     
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    Everybody knows I haven't been laid since Obama got in office...so more power to team chunk members who be ridin round n getn it
     
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    Thick, chubby, big boys, etc. are IN from what I see online. :yeshrug:
     
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    best type to pig out with but date...nah

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    As long as he doesn't have bigger titties than my mama and what seems like unlimited fat rolls on his stomach then I'm good. Then again, I don't have much room to talk. My weight is getting up there. I'm 6'2 240 pounds. I still look decent when I take my shirt off but I definitely need to lose 20-30 lbs.
     
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    It just depends. I have my limits.. The same with muscular guys- they don't do anything for me. I like regular dudes with regular bodies. i tend to like the thickness on men sorter than me and smaller guys who are taller than me.. but I don't live that as a rule. Also, I am not going to get on a pedestal about the "issues" of obese men.. cuz' I think gym-a-holics have just as many issues. IJS...
     
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    The dude in the middle ain't bad. I like big guys but not obese. The athletic dude.
     
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    I would holla at the middle one.
     
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    LOL just to co-sign your point...
     
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    This is exactly why I hate everyone...
     
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    Im gonna leave this thread alone after this, but I find it interesting how welcoming ppl claim to be to obesity, but would be out here trying to get an admitted manorexic guy on the other side of the eating disorder spectrum to get help and make changes.
     
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    I used to be obese and I know the struggle. Honestly, I wouldn't have been attracted to myself when I was larger. The crazy thing then was I was not attracted to bigger girls either. Now, I don't mind a little weight (just a little) as I still have a little. I think I tend to go for what I would like to look like.
     
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    So it looks like ESPN Body is trying to expand and include more big men with Vince Wilfork . No offense, but Im not sure if I could go with a dude that size but what about you guys though? Prince Fielder would be my big size dude limit and he could get still get it any day. Props for Vince though for not having any body issues. Thoughts?
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    A dude like Wilfork, aesthetically, no problem. He's got that muscular-endomorph thing like Kingpin in Marvel comics, so his weight is equally muscle and fat. Even if he drops to a more "normal" size for his genetic make-up, he's always going to be a big dude so it's good he's comfortable with his size and body image.

    I do have a problem if your weight is just because you're lazy and can't push from the table. That type of obese, I can't get with, as my city is full of them; i.e. the Chicago Mike and Molly types. Also, for me, you gotta dress appropriately and tastefully for your size. Don't be trying to fit in skinny legged jeans if you're not skinny legged genes.

    I can't judge too much, though, as I fight my Charles Barkley inclined dna everyday to try and maintain a healthy size, being between mesomorph and endomorph. Long as there's no major health issues (shortness of breath, apnea, etc.) we can hang. Everyone's not A&F model-size just work on being healthy at whatever size nature determined to be your range.
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    To be honest, It also includes how dude looks in the face. Just don't find Vince attractive in the face for me. A big dude for me would still have to have a good looking face. But unless your a shredded pro bodybuilder or reaching 7ft tall, being over 300lbs is a lot of weight to be carrying around. Even as an athletes, its still a lot of stress on your body to be that large in sports; like football. That's why most big dudes try to lose all the access weight once they retire. I've been overweight and hard as hell to lose stubborn body fat. Over all it depends on how how he carries the weight and is muscle and fat ratio. In particular as little stomach/tummy fat as possible.
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    Now this would be a lil too much roll over tummy for me. lol
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    I mean... Yeah. I could work with this but.... We'd definitely would be on a workout regimen because this can go either way.

    I admit it's not ideal thick but he's got good structure. Chest, traps, arms, and shoulders are good. I just don't particularly like it when the guy doesn't have ANY muscle at all.
     
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    I hear what your saying. I have a lil tummy myself but being that being can be scary. I know my aunts pastor who was a former NFL linemen and similar size just pass was away form a heart heart attack. Also since I struggle with weight and eating bad food lol I need some one who is going to hold me accountable not help me to indulge lol.
     
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    Exactly. Dude is at the limit. Like... It can't get no bigger than this.

    Can't be get propping up your stomach with a 2 ton jack to give you some thoat in the shower. Lol
     
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