Could You Stay With A Man Who Couldn't Get it up for a year?

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  1. Nigerian Prince

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    A basketball player by the name of Jay Williams who is now retired spoke about how he got in a motorcycle accident, which resulted in his pubic symphysis getting split 13 centimeters wide. That is wider than a woman when she is delivering a baby!!! But yeah that caused him to lose all the feeling in his groin region and he was unable to have erections for almost 1.5 years.

    Could You Stay With A Man Who Couldn't Get it up for a year?

     
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    Charlemagne is a d@#k LOL If we had already been involved for a long time and had a great relationship, then yeah. Only thing that would be trying is his lack of sensation in that area, no pill resolves that.
     
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    Wait what?!?!
     
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    Yes.
     
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    LOL especially since you're a top! Unless you ever go south of the border
     
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    Don't get me wrong, I like an erection just like everyone else...even as just a non-verbal way to tell that a dude is feeling you. But if I was with a dude that I was into who "couldn't get it up" and he explained why to me, it wouldn't be a dealbreaker.
     
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    Yea. I wouldn't be scared off by that, esp if we had alrdy started establishing a connection.
     
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    Yes. Especially if I was with the dude for a while. A relationship is about more that just that. Plus, you can be intimate in other ways.
     
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    It's easy and ideal to say Yes, unless you are in the situation. For me, I LOVEEEEE giving GREAT head, so..... For instance, what if, as a gay man, you are with a pre-op transgendered male who doesn't like anal or doesn't give oral and like vaginal? What if your partner wanted you to stop eating meat for two years in order to continue the relationship?......on and on
    Keep in mind, depending on his injury, this could be ongoing beyond a year or may come up again. Just playing devil's advocate.
    For me, Yes, but with some stipulations, because I'm TeamOral.
     
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    Yeah, I could, me and my ex became roommates towards the end of the relationship. We weren't doing anything except maybe a peck here and there. Symbolically, that's damn near close to not having a erection for 1.5. years.
     
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    I not only could do it, I did do it. When someone you love is ill, the things that are really important become very clear.
    There is a lot more I could go into about this, but I won't.
     
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    I think so. Sex is cool but I care more about the physical intimacy and closeness than some of the acts themselves.
    I'd read it unless you don't want to elaborate.
     
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    There are certain things that I will not talk about in an open forum.

    I have talked about these things on another forum, but I have been a member of that forum(and the initial forum from which it derived) since 2003 or so and I have talked about these things there, but only in the private section of the forum. To gain access to that part of that forum, you must not only have been a member for a certain length of time, etc., but two people who are already in that private section must vouch you in. If you end up violating the rules of the private area, not only are you disciplined, but the people who vouched you in are disciplined as well. The violator may face banning, and the vouchers will face suspensions from the board.

    Because of this, there have been very few problems over at that board.

    I am a private person. When I google my name, almost nothing comes up. If you want to find anything more than address and phone, you have to pay some site for it. I am not on any social media. Fortunately my mugshots also do not come up-even if you pay to try to get them(I have tried just to see if I could access them). My experiences with the criminal justice system are also something I am unwilling to discuss on an open forum.

    I understand perfectly why there is now a private area on this site and I actually have become of the opinion that some of the requirements should be a little stricter. It all depends on what people are willing to share in there.


    I hope this is understandable(and also not tl;dr lol)
     
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    This is an interesting topic. Personally, I could. What would you do when and if you or the person you are dating cannot get it up. Erectile disfunction is real and a big issue with many of the issues and ailments that are prominent in the black community (high blood pressure, hypertension, diabetes) not to mention that medication for other ailments cause ED.

    I think sex is important, but it is also a superficial element in a relationship... in a relationship! What are the bonds that tie you together? Communication, love, support, etc are tops on my list and sex is a bi-product. I think the worst thing is being in a relationship with someone for a year and not being attracted to them for some reason and I see a lot of that happening because people are together because of convenience.
     
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    Yep. As long as his mouth, hands and booty work I'm good.
     
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    Actually I may share the 'Criminal justice system' stuff because it is relevant here. It is pretty much a textbook case of white privilege and also class privilege. I had consequences, but they were the least consequences possible.
     
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    I honestly don't know if I could or couldn't do that. I would have to be placed in that situation to determine.
     
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    Intimacy and affection are far more important to me than sex. I can go without penetration and have an amazing time with you. However, I cannot enjoy you without intimacy. Which is probably why when it comes to one night stands I find them boring. It's not even on the other person either. My heart just isn't in it. Anyway, I definitely could deal with him not getting erections. There are so many things to do sexually anyway.
     
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