Discussion About Being Single in Atlanta with Tripp Ali ("About Him", "Tex Brown")

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  1. Nick Delmacy

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    Yeah I'm def in the school of "Sometimes you know right away" way of thinking. If anything, I may take months if our schedules are just hectic and we only get to see each other once a week or so...
     
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    I have no problem with the idea of an open relationship. I know a few older men in them and it's the bedroom thing for them they say but they have rules and only play together.

    I'm not judging them, I'm just saying... I noticed that section and their responses.
     
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    "Brodney is too "pretty" and seems like one of those "I'm picky" Bottoms who just want to find a wealthy Top to wife them up."

    LMAO ...{in his voice} "Uhh uh. Don' touch my dick, dont look at it. Pretend it ain't thea"
     
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    Yeah dedicating their event to the Ballroom Scene just drives away so many "middle of the road" gay men who may otherwise be interested in attending or supporting. That's like having the NAACP dedicating an event to Trap Music...true, it is a part of the Black Community, but you can't be surprised if it turns off a lot of Black Americans who doesn't feel as if it represents them.
     
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    The last thing I want for my life is to be "visible" and have my face show up in Google Image search results next to Tripp Ali, The Cast of About Him, oiled up male strippers, flamboyant fems and a bunch of peen/ass pics when you search for "Black Gay Men in Atlanta."

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    I don't see the problem with them plugging in their ball. It didn't seem like a vouging type of ball thing so maybe we're getting that mixed up or I don't know the difference. Anyway, that's their platform and they probably have a certain audience already and not looking to attract us first timers/randoms/casuals. That's how it is in this community ain't it?
     
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    Man we all have laundry lists of negative qualities we could list about ourselves...but I constantly see dudes who have worse "problems" yet they STAY in relationships (not for long but they always be in one).
     
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    I think what @SB3 meant was they are dedicating their next Gentleman's ball to the "Ballroom Scene." So the theme of the event will be vouging and all of that next time around, I guess.
     
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    There was this one video posted a couple years ago that had seemingly "regular" guys in a round table dating discussion...but after watching it, I remembered that the gays have a different definition of "regular guys" than the straights do...

     
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    Oh, I see.
     
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    Yea I remember I saw this vid for all of 5 min when it came out. I couldn't watch it any longer than that because the main dude (XEM) annoys me for some reason. I think its a combination of his voice/personality and the fact that he reminds me of a TROLL Doll.

    No bueno on anything he does, I'm good.

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    This!! Im gonna punch him for this when I get back to GayTL!
     
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    There is a black gay man somewhere who has seen ur pic...and u still woke up and went to work today negro..just like yesterday...its ok
     
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    Back to the vid:
    Atlanta folks make it seem like they would be better off finding a partner in Arkansas or something.

    I hate how dating has become such an ambiguous term. It shouldn't hold so much weight yet it scares the shit out of people.
    I think I'm about over the term "talking" too, that shit is wack and a cop out. If we're going out on numerous dates and not just hooking-up then we're freaking dating - meaning the activity of getting to know each other and explore romantic possibilities. It doesn't mean we're in a committed relationship about to plan to live our lives together. But we can definitely talk about that if that's where you want or don't want to take it. I just want people to relax.

    I'm def. going to approach the way I date differently next time by 1) being more upfront, letting the person know that I like them or don't like the way they're treating me off the rip 2) stop allowing myself to be in the confused stage and not be afraid to ask them about our status after a certain amount of time (fuck your scary ass) and 3) stop cutting people off so quickly, with an exception of people that actually deserve no explanation or closure #thugbae
     
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    I got a friend who was dating someone for a good amount of time (about a year). They even lived together. Then when they broke up, this negro tried to say they were just "talking" the whole time. Love my boy to death but gtfoh LMAO
     
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    Side note: body language tells a lot! Tripp likes that Rodney guy. His torso and all of his attention are turned completely to him(I've been observing them now into 30 mins of the episode :reallytho:)

    Also, that whole shpill about (1) insecurity and dudes being afraid to say: "I like your ass!" (2) managing expectations and then deadlock thereof of "who's going to say it first? I like to be chased" . Totally. that's it!. Yup! the whole show should've been summed up into that few minutes lol
     
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    Them nigas mad gay!
     
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    Just watched most of this (skipped the advice interludes) and I feel like I wasted a lot of time. Too much on that Brodney "dating" topic. Poor editing, way too long.


    Tripp barely said anything (because of Brodney) and the couple things he did say were messy and hypocritical: 1) Being a young opportunist gay dating an older banker who he knew already had a family and 2) the irony of a porn actor being turned off by a dude merely having the Jack'd App on their phone.....Dude, you have simulated sex in poorly produced black gay web series, THAT'S THE TURNOFF!

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    Leave them niggas alone. They never said otherwise.
     
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    Touche. Im ok calling spades spades tho.
     
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    After watching the video, My conclusion about dating is 1st know what you want and be able to clearly communicate that to the person your dating.

    Also, I think a lot of people are enamored with the idea of being in a relationship. You see it all day on social media with the relationship memes.
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    I also don't like when ppl say so..... "Why are you single?" as if somethings wrong with being single. Some people actually choose and (gasp):eek: want to be single for personals reason such as building a business, going to school, career goals, travel, (gasp:eek:) enjoys single life.

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    I never understood why ppl in their 20s and below are so relationship crazed. THis also leads me not understanding why any one would even think about getting married until after their mid 30s
    .:rudy::lupe1::yeshrug: 100dap

    But........ the real question is why is........... @Champagne_Papi still single and on the Market? lol
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    This part. I was like, they did these hard cuts, no transitions, no fades. I don't even do media like that and I know you need to put present things better than this. And WTF? A commercial? No.
     
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    This is true, my dude. I just don't seem to have that kinda luck, tho. LOL
     
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    This comment section is giving me flashbacks of why I originally found this site. Y'all are funny!

    I don't get why people have so many problems dating. Particularly, the gays, black, white, otherwise. I feel like if you are really interested in finding someone that compliments you, it can be done. I feel like a lot of Atlanta gays say they want to find someone but in all reality, they just like the idea of someone. A lot of these fools ain't trying to put in the hard work of being in a relationship and are not being honest about what they want and they have unrealistic expectations. With that being said, I know plenty of people who bounce from one brother to the next and they never have problems and it is not like they are super models.
     
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    @Champagne_Papi has made it clear on the site that he wants no part of a full blown relationship, for now at least. Which is understandable and respectable that he puts that out there from the jump as to not lead ppl on or waste either person's time.
     
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    Anybody who's over the age of 24 and not in a relationship is a hoe in my eyes. :ravetho:
     
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    Awww. Thanks for the compliment bro. :babylawd:
     
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    @Nick Delmacy @SB3 @ControlledXaos damn y'all went the heck in! I thought my post fell on deaf ears but I am happy that you guys along with everyone else are voicing their opinions.
     
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    some of yall real immature. talkin bout he has a gay voice maybe thats why hes single. really?? childish. far as i know we all gay/mlm/bi/etc...so @ the end of the day whats the difference. sounds like some internalized homophobia to me. get real.
     
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    All of this quoted. These comments are hilarious and SB3 is killing it!

    Watching this...

    First off...why would the 'open relationship' thing be a turnoff and 'we can only hang out' and all...but before that the total bitch-ness of the guy and his bullsh#t with the water and tea...that would not have been an instant 'Oh hell no! I don't want anything to do with this guy in any way!'??? Really???

    Brodney is forever attached to that Prince Charming thing/fiasco in my mind. The rest just kind of felt like the guys were being set against each other by the host guys, who treated them like they were experiments or patients undergoing some kind of 'analysis'-really kind of rude.

    *All of the guys were very attractive/attractive. Just saying. Brodney..yeah he does not sound particularly masculine but he is not 'extra' and flaming with all of that 'queenish' crap so he came across pretty well to me. And is there any link to where the Tripp guy is being sleazy in any way(something online that I don't have to pay for)???-I would never think that he was gay at all-unclockable to me-again just saying. I will say they seem a bit like they are attention seeking and aspiring gaylebrities...at least a bit.

    And that description of his ex(Tripp guy)...smh...that sounded like a sugar daddy/step up guy and not a boyfriend thing. He either does not care about how that makes him look(user) or is not smart enough to realize it makes him look bad-or worse, he knows 'the gheys' do not care about any of that because of course, he is hot.

    Why are they single though?- @SB3 , @Nick Delmacy , etc...you guys are in the same boat sort of and could have been there getting grilled as well.

    I know the answer though...Nick has too many 'eccentricities/idiosyncrasies'-and is hot and basically wants a straight guy, and SB3 is hot and wants a guy who is straighter than a straight guy-a next level ultra straight guy LOL. (just joshing guys).
     
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    oh y'all didnt know?! @Champagne_Papi is mines so yall leave my baby alone. :khart1:
     
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